Im just wondering, is anyone a virgin until their married anymore?

I was just wondering that, it seems like no one cares about the whole sex after marriage thing. Its like they want to test the waters or something, which is fine you know, i was just wondering.Im just wondering, is anyone a virgin until their married anymore?
In working with people that are having problems in their marriages, I have found that those that were virgin on their wedding day have far fewer problems to deal with.





I believe that this comes from the fact that people that wait are far more serious about making a lifetime commitment.





Sex before marriage cheapens everything about marriage; it also causes people to have less respect for each other.Im just wondering, is anyone a virgin until their married anymore?
There are of course fewer virgins in this culture and at this time than in decades, but there are still young people who have chosen to keep that special experience as a gift for after the wedding. I was a virgin when I married my husband in 1974. Operating in obedience to God through honor and discipline will always bring blessings..
I'm waiting my boyfriend is also, I understand why people have sex before they are married it is quite tempting but my bf and I have set rules and we are both there to keep each other in check. besides you only lose your virginity once, why not lose it to someone you are spending your life with, some one you love unconditionally, that sounds a lot better than risking unwanted pregnancies stds and regrets. I can only thank my parents for raising me like that tho and I think thats the problem with a lot of teens,their


parents! good topic :)
i did. i'm not religious though, i just didn't feel like it, i didn't want just anyone to see me naked or have sex with me. it was a matter of pride. i couldn't imagine someone comming up to my husband and saying ';oh you married my ex, yeah i've banged her before you did'; men are like that... they would do that just out of spite.








it was really worth it to be honest. before we got married we spent alot of time bonding and sharing, doin' stuff together, unlike my friends their day with their boyfriend was limited untill they had sex. if she wanted to do anything further, go out, on a mini trip or something, she had to hold up and leave sex for last cause that would end the day.





we did some sexual stuff, just not that. the suspense is great and now, 7 years later, we're still all hot for eachother cause we left many things for after the wedding and inside the marriage.





just think about it, if you do everything with your other half before you get married, what is there left for the marriage? you'll get bored and eventually annoyed. It's best to keep the spark alive.
I'm not... And I don't think anyone waits until marriage anymore! Especially in today's world! I definitely wouldn't! I want to live with my fiancee for about 2 yrs before I marry her... That is how you really get to know somebody... It would cut down on divorces if everyone would do it! And you are not going to live with me and not put out!!! ;)
everybody wants sex, but no one wants to get married at the age that people begin having sex. see any shotgun weddings lately? it's the 21st century
I am 20 and still a virgin, hopefully I can find the right wife that will satisfy all my sexual needs, jaja
You wonder this because you are reading too much Yahoo Answers. Just like porn, it's not exactly representative of reality.
Yes, very religious people are (Baptists, Evangelical Christians, Catholics, Mormons).
I know four people who were virgins when they got married both the guy and the girl but they were Jehovahs Witnesses.
Not to many virgins around any more because people marry so much later in life now.
Simple answer: everyone is different.
Sure! I believe after marriage is the way to go. People need to have more patience and self control! :)
im not interested in sex, and im a guy!!!!!!!!! well howabout that?!! everyone says all guys are the same and only want sex...
Yep, its called Iran... and nobody wants to live there (for obvious reasons).