I am attracted to another woman and I am married?

I have been working with her for about a couple of weeks. We talk all the time when we are at work. It seems like we click very well even better than my wife. She has a boyfriend. I do love my wife, but I think I am falling for her. Now recently she has been calling me terms of endearment and flirting with me. I don't know what to do, I do love my wife, I don't want to leave her, but I really like my new coworker.I am attracted to another woman and I am married?
Well keep liking her but don't cheat my hubby cheated on me and made my life a living hell. Just let your wife go if you don't want her but don't ever cheat makes things worse. and your wife will find out if she knows you well. Be honest with yourself and most of all your wife if you ever really loved her you would not do this to her. maybe you need some more spice in your marriage try something more daring with wife and you might find she really does know you get my meaning.I am attracted to another woman and I am married?
I think you are being selfish and lying to yourself. If you truly loved your wife, you wouldn't even allow yourself to open up to another woman - you wouldn't go there at all! Obviously you are missing something within yourself that is allowing you to think about being with another woman. Well, shame on you for not going to therapy and/or talking to your wife. It seems you may have some self-esteem issues because you are enjoying the attention you are getting from this other woman. Yes, it's nice to be seen by the opposite sex as attractive, but when it crosses the line into becoming an affair, well that's a different story.





Do your wife a favor and set her free because she doesn't deserve to be cheated on - neither emotionally or physically - by you or anybody else.
The grass always seems greener doesn't it? Here's the problem though, you only know this girl through work, you don't really know her, not like you do your wife. Now imagine if you knew everything about this girl that you know about your wife, would you still think she's so special? Its common to get crushes on co-workers and people we encounter in our everyday life, but its how we act on them that determines our character. I suggest you adopt some will power and just say no. Trust me nothing is every as perfect as it seems at first. Give yourself 6 months to 1 year to see how you feel about her and i can guarantee your feelings will change in time.





EDIT: To The Dark One, a kiss or any other kind of physical contact with someone who's not your spouse in a romantic way, IS CHEATING!!! What kind of morals do you have?
What attracted you to your wife? Did you two used to talk about random things? Spend intimate time together? What has changed from when you two met?





You and your wife should take a weekened vacation, just the two of you, and rekindle your flame. It's great that you love your wife, and are worried about this, but you should also talk to her about this. Sometimes, it's just easier to let your partner know about what's going on so that the both of you can figure out what's going on with you two.





I wish you luck.
Your new attraction isn't worth losing your wife over. Tell your fellow employee to stick to business and not monkey business. You are treading on dangerous grounds here. Ask yourself if a few minutes with a fling is worth an entire lifetime with someone you know and truly love? Also ask yourself how you would feel if the tables were turned and your wife developed an attraction for a male coworker at her job (if she works) and even had ideas of a sexual tryst. I would also be very careful about your coworker. She could easily turn you in for sexual harrassment if she doesn't get her way with you. There's too many dangers here for you.
Close the door. You are seeing your coworker at her best and that's why the grass looks greener. You probably felt the same about your wife when you first started dating. You've only known this woman a couple of weeks, you love your wife and it's not worth losing her by getting emotionally/sexually involved with your coworker.
NEVER leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love....





If you do love your wife like u say u do, then leave this other chick alone, pronto! She's not going to be with you, she has a boyfriend... don't mess up your home for someone who's already taken.





It's normal to like someone else, it happens... self control thou is what's important...
What are you missing from your wife? It sounds like you need to put some serious distance between you and the co-worker before it goes to the next level. If you really love your wife- you'll do what you need to too stay away from this woman. Trust me - if you were to give into the temptation - it's not worth the loss. Been there, done that. It hurts everyone involved.
MISTAKE! Think about it, If you KNEW you couldn't get away with it, would you still choose this chick over your wife? Or if both women were hanging off of a cliff, which one would you save? Ask yourself these questions, because if your wife isnt worth passing up some fling, then she needs to find someone that loves her unconditionally.
Grow up. Cheating or leaving your wife is a decision, not a feeling. If you are getting something from this co worker that you are not getting from your wife then tell her what you need.





If you really loved your wife you would be commited to making her happy. This just sounds like it is all about you.
i'm in the same bout so don't worry if anything at work keep it business talk that fine but if you really want to see how far it goes take her for a walk in the park and then try to kiss her a simple kiss is not cheating
Yeah, it's normal to have feelings for more than one person at a time. But if you value your marriage you will back off this other one, and fast. Get control of your feelings now before they get control of you.
mate, been there too, and didn't act on it.


you got to work out whether you want to lose everything you have with the wife, for a root, coz that's what will happen, bro, believe me!
Spice things up with your wife. And stop the flirting at work. Talk about your wife in a loving way whilst your at work so this girl knows how you feel about her. Don't hurt your wife she doesnt deserve that.
I say fcuk her at work, and see how long you can get away with it for without your wife finding out.
It's called sexual tension. Just bone her and tell your wife, and when she leaves you tell her you hope her next husband is a man and not some teenage douchbag.