Sunday, January 17, 2010

Is anyone married to their high school sweetheart, or have opinions on it?

I am just wondering, i mean i know it doesnt really happen often, and if it does it doesnt last, but i know that their are a few love stories out there so share! i just wonder if it ever bothers people that they have only been with that one person, and they aren't trying with others?Is anyone married to their high school sweetheart, or have opinions on it?
I am happily married to my high school sweet heart. We got married at 18 and 19. I'm the younger one. And We have a marriage, a beautiful 3 yr old daughter and in the works for another child. I, personally, the sunny monday morning that I was going to ask my soon to be girlfriend out, I told my best friend that I was afraid and scared to ask her out. He said why that it wasn't a big deal, I told him that he didn't understand, that If and when I ask her out she will be asking out my wife to be and the woman who will be having my children. Here we are eight years later and counting..It happens.Is anyone married to their high school sweetheart, or have opinions on it?
I am. Started dating at 16 %26amp; 17, married for 25++yrs and loving it. Still lust after her daily. I still go into the shower when she is there just for a look, and she loves it. She is the absolute love of my life. The sun shines on rainy days when I am with her.





We don't fight or argue, we work out our different opinions. We are going in the same direction and just having the best time. Sure things happen (like the current financial mess) but we just look on the bright side.





It isn't about when you got married, it's about how long you dated before you got there! Spend the time to get to know each other inside out. We dated for 5 yrs before getting engaged and except for a 2 wk period, saw each other every day - we have still only been apart for about 6 weeks total.
Yep my husband and i are high school sweethearts.





We met when i was 16 and he was 17.





I was a junior and the new kid in school and he was a senior.





We started dating and 2 yrs later we got married when i was 18 and he was 19 and we have been happily married almost 22 yrs with 3 great kids..Our son is 19 and our 2 daughters are 17 and 16.





Everybody said our marriage wouldn't last because we were to young but we sure fooled those people.
I'm still in High School, so this may not be much help, but I think that the longer your with that person then the more love there is. I mean, if you can last out threw high school, then I think its ment to be. My older sister and her husband started dating in grade nine, and the got married at 25, and are happy as ever, their both 30 now. I think kids just rush into marrages after high school, wait till you get threw college or university and get a job and house and settled in, and see if you can live with the person. Just my opinion :)
i am proud to say that the man in my life is my high school sweetheart, we got married on february of this year! i love hin to death and i wouldnt have it any other way.. the weird thing is that we have been in each others lives one way or another but we never met until high school, he always lived like a street away from me and we were even in some of the same weddings as children because his mom is a good friend to many of my family members. him mom even took care of my cousin in the hospital when she got cancer. shes an amazing woman who somehow allways kept her son close by... i know some people think its a bad idea either because they have never done it or are divorced from their sweethearts but for me... i couldnt have had it any other way
i am 23 years old i meet my husband at 15 got pregnant at 17 then had our 2nd child when i was 20 we then got married last year and celebrated our 1 year anniversary 2 weeks ago .





he was my 1st love and i was his and everytime i see him i still get goosebumps ....





I believe that for me it was love at 1st site we have arguments and disagreements and stuff but we still love each other?





and 2 the question that we have both never slept with anyone else im happy because at least we both felt that connection of poppy the cherry!!!!
I married my high school sweet heart we've been together for twelve years.It was very hard at first we fought a lot but we really do love each other and we toughed it out. But you really have to love each other. If i didn't love him and he really didn't love me we wouldn't have tried so hard and we wouldn't have made it. So be careful and think about if you really want to get married.My cousin thought because me and my husband were able to do it,it was a piece of cake so she got pregnant.Well now she and the baby live with my uncle, and the father is living with his parents paying child support and has visitation rights.So really think about it, don't think it's SO easy. It wasn't and if you really love each other take your time don't rush. Like i said I really love my husband and i don't regret our life but it wasn't easy.Good luck and God Bless. Prayer,our love, and God is what got us through the tough times.
I was engaged to my high school sweetheart at the ripe old age of 17. He cheated on me, abused me, and then left me for another girl.





I think it's best to go out and gain life experience before you make that decision who you want to be with. I'm not saying it can't work - my partner's parents were high school sweethearts and they're still happily married. But sadly most of the time it doesn't.
My sister (who is 30 now) was with her high school sweetheart for 13 years until they lived together and realized they were not as good as they thought they were.





Once money, and the future come into the question people are put to the test and see how compatible they really are. We change a lot from high school to adulthood.
It`s not me personally , but my parents met in high school and are still married today . (: They never fight and love each other very much . I believe they are still attracted to each other , and never worried about ';other people'; .
A friend of mine married her highschool sweetheart. They are an amazing couple with a beautiful daugher. They've dated since they were 14 years old (now 27)...they waited until they were 24 to get married, which I think was smart.
I am. Even know its only been three years its great. It doesnt happen often but if your not sure dont do it. Youll know when its the right one. Because you wont even have to think twice.
My first marriage wasn't to my high school sweetheart but I am now engaged to my high school sweetheart.
Yes have been together for 13years married almost 7.Its rare but amazing!!
ive heard of one couple, though i didnt know them personally. my opinion is that it is not a good idea

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