What do you think of a woman who dates a married man and is responsible for the breakup of the marriage? How ?

would you act towards her? Is she to blame?What do you think of a woman who dates a married man and is responsible for the breakup of the marriage? How ?
Well I think its obvious that the husband is the guilty party and deserves to be punished or dropped. But the question is about the other woman and I think the 'other woman' is responsible and a guilty party as well if she knew the man was married or in a relationship period. She should be looking for available men and have enough respect for herself not to interfere and instead volunteer herself to being a whore.What do you think of a woman who dates a married man and is responsible for the breakup of the marriage? How ?
No I don't think she is to blame for the breakup, He is. She cant force him to do anything he isn't willing to do. But only a slut would date a married man knowing that is he married before they start to date.





Well I'll tell you how i handled her. I ignored her, she wanted drama and would scream and yell at me in public, its not easy when someone is on the parking lot of walmart screaming at you telling you that she doesn't want your man any more cause he doesn't do what he says, and that he's a s o b . I just acted like i didn't know who she was talking to just like other ppl did. I wanted no one to know that i was affiliated with someone like her. It worked no one ever knew. I am no longer with him, the divorce should be soon. Good luck.
I think the woman is partially to blame if she chased after the man. She is definitely cheating herself out of a healthy relationship. I actually know someone in that position. She was not the aggressor in the beginning but she did agree to the relationship. Now 3 years later, she is starting to see that it was a mistake and she has wasted her time. I treat her with love and support her getting out of the relationship.
Remember...the cheating starts with a Look...a thought..a pursue...or to be pursued!! Yes, both the man and the woman cheated, but, she had to have given the married man the thoughts and illusions of being with her..He could have chosen to say no...but just like the story of Adam and Eve..the woman was a tempation..a bite of the ';forbidden'; fruit..He could say no..it was his choice...They will both be judged for destroying a family..I have lived it..
If she knew that he was married and still pursued a relationship with him then she is a home wrecking ho. Yes I would act towards her. Do you forgive stupid women out there, NO. If a man tells you ';I don't love my wife our marriage is over'; you better ask to see the divorce papers. If he tells you ';I don't love her'; then why is he still living with her? '; I'm just waiting for the right time'; ';i can't leave my kids'; bullsh*t!! For some reason women are really stupid or just looking for a reason to continue doing what they know is wrong at the expense of a family. Please don't get me wrong he is to blame also. But why would any woman with any self respect put up with what she knows deep down is a lie? So unless he is already gone and you have seen the paper work why would you set yourself up for heartbreak and retribution from his wife? He is a cheat and a liar. The only problem is he is lying to you too. You know this and you are lying to yourself. So yes you deserve to be blamed as much as he does. Remember stupidity hurts and if you are that stupid you deserve to be hurt and you will be. Yes his wife deserves to act towards you, you were stupid did not go with your gut feeling you just wanted to get serviced by her husband. that makes you a whore.
Partially (because if she hadn't been with the man this would not have occurred)... But really and truly, you can't stop her and the man from falling in love. Obviously his former relationship was not as true as the one he is in at the moment. Love is involuntary and you can't change people's feelings.
I agree with the fellow that said that the man is responsible for the break up of his marriage, however I also feel that the 'other woman' should bear some of the guilt as she should be looking for available men and have enough respect for herself and the wife to not interfere.
First of all, if a man is going to cheat, he's going to cheat! No one else is to blame but him. Everyone has a choice and it's obvious that he made his. As for the ';other'; woman, maybe she should try dating ';single'; guys. Also, if i were her, i would move FAR AWAY! LOL.
yea, she would be to blame to some extent..it is definitely not right to try to date a married man...BUT, most of the blame goes to the man...marriage is a sacred act...the man is the one who should recieve the most blame for agreeing to date the woman.
Miloo had a VERY good answer.





I would doubt the woman's character, and probably have some sort of animosity towards her, but REALLY.... lets face it. She didn't marry you, HE did. She never promised to love you for better or worse, HE did... I think I'd be more upset with my husband.
Nothing ,cause what two ';married'; ppl have when somebody is cheating is not a marriage . The 1st step out is ....considered divorce cause its not a marriage! Move on and don't worry about something that doesn't matter! You cannot change it!
If she actually knew because a lot of times the women are lied to and ignore the signs that a man is married. But if she knew I would think it was both their fault if she didn't then I would think she is a moron but I would blame him.
I honestly don't think I would be able to talk to her anymore. Marriage is supposed to forever and anyone who gets in between that no matter how ';unhappy'; the man was she should of waited till the divorce was final.
she should be run out of town before sun-up


yes she is partly to blame, if she knew he was married, a married man hit on me and i told him to take a hike. she's just a ho
she is not to blame. the guy is. it is his marriage and he is the one cheating i have no opinion about the woman. I would mind my own business
She's not responsible for anyone's marriage except her own. She didn't break up their marriage, HE did.





Why should she value their marriage more than he does?
The responsibility lies with the couple who actually make a committment to each other; if later down the road someone else comes into play, that's only because the original marriage didn't work.
she is a fool


she is somewhat responsible...though he bears the brunt of the fault here


how....because she is co contributer to the adulterous man : )
Well at first I think Home Wrecker. You have to realize that its not just her fault. The marriage was broken before she came along. She just added to the problem.
The man who broke his vows is the one to blame, even though it was a pretty low thing to date someone who is married.
Then what do you think if a divorcee who dates a married man? Is she responsible for the breakup of the marriage?
the married man is to blame . she is at fault to a minimum but he knew better . blame him not her
first off i respect a woman of your nature as long as you didn't nark him out its not your fault now if you did SHAME on YOU !!
i wouldnt treat her any differently but in the back of my head there would probably be some bad thoughts about her...and yes she is 50% of the blame
I would think she is a homewrecker and a slut.





Find yourself a SINGLE man, don't go after one thats taken!
Well she certainly played a part in it..
guilty is the only word any body can think of include your self
He could have said no. It takes two to tango.
Nah a woman who has sex with a married man is doing the guy a HUGE favor.





More women should be like you.