Why would a married man watch porn and hide the fact that he had been watching it from his wife?

Is it because he isn't happy or what?Why would a married man watch porn and hide the fact that he had been watching it from his wife?
He may just be a ';sex addict';. Which can be just as bad as an alcoholic or drug addict.


It depends on on much he has been watching and what kind of sights he has been visiting. Is he soliciting ';child porn'; or violent porn. You should watch ';Ted Bundy's last interviews'; before he was put to death. It is an eye opener.


It is awful for a woman to sexually be with a man and wonder if her man is with her or thinking about a porno scenario. I would want my man to be WITH me. You should NEVER want to be ';replaced'; with cyber-sex or porn. I feel for you.





And he is hiding it...because he feels guilty. And if he feels guilty....it is because in his heart.....it is wrong.Why would a married man watch porn and hide the fact that he had been watching it from his wife?
Because he knows it's wrong and his wife doesn't approve. He hides it because he doesn't want to stop and he doesn't want to have to deal with his wife's disapproval.





Don't listen to people tell you that looking at porn is normal for a man. There are men out there who don't waste their time looking at that stuff. Porn causes a lot more problems in a marriage then most people want to admit.





Don't blame yourself and think you are doing something wrong, because your husband is into porn. This is his problem and he's making it yours.
He is a guy. Guys like sex. Having it, watching it, whatever. Men have sex on their minds all day, everyday. It doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you, or turned on by you, he just likes to look at ****. If he is hiding it from you, it is more likely he doesn't want to deal with the line of questioning he will be subjected to by his self-conscious, under confident wife. (no offense). Why not try to watch with him, maybe you will find a new exciting thing to do in the bedroom. Maybe you will see that these movies are not about being attracted to the person, but to the act, and you will feel less anxiety about them. And look at the bright side, he isn't out with a woman, he is at home with himself.
am i the only person who calls ut like it is, sin. God says if you look on another woman with lust you have commited adultery in your heart,


it is sin, it is filth and lust, not the people here but if you talk to professionals they will tell you of the many relationships destoyed by porn,


the man becomes absorbed, it stays on his mind and he can recall those images in his minds eye at will, losing a need for you, he becomes emotially distant and secretive, next step is a dating site on the internet, [just for fun] he says.
If he's doing it once in a while it doesn't mean anything.


If he's doing it regularly or all the time...





In order of likelihood:





1) He doesn't trust you to have sex with him. The porn never says no, later, not tonight, I have a headache, maybe tomorrow, etc... etc...


2) You make him use condoms


3) He has grown resentful that you only want sex on one or two particular days a month


4) You're not into it (Are you done yet?)


5) You sex life is dull (Not willing to try new things)


6) He feels inadequate or that he can't satisfy you


7) He ';caught'; you using a vibrator (see 6)


8) You let yourself go


9) He thinks you cheated or are cheating


10) He's addicted to porn.
Ive caught my husband w**king over porn a couple of times. He loves me and finds me attractive, we have amazing sex but sometimes men just like to watch a bit of porn and have a play. They arent looking at the woman with the thought of loving her. They are just looking at their bits. Majority of men w**k themselves. Dont take it personally, try watching with him or say you would like to try some of the things hes been watching.
99% men, married or not watch porn. it belongs to them, its the me time...it means nothing but cold, heartless ...addictive..man pleasure.





If you want to know what he watches ask him to watch porn with you...make it your idea...say you'll like to try that out for yourself, and then ask him how to find them, which ones he might like...he will feel helpful and quite like the idea of you being a perv for a change.





Then...if your really thinking it鈥檚 because he is not happy...Than you take a long look at your relationship instead...if you give him sex, you give him affection, you do all that is required to make a relationship work...than it鈥檚 not that at all. It鈥檚 just him, being a man and you feeling insecure.





Try not to worry too much, or else you'll drive yourself mad and then...he will not be happy.
nonono.





Not because he's not happy...its because he's a man.





men enjoy seeing other females naked, and porn is about as close as cheating as he can get without actually doing it. And he would hide it because its embarrassing and he probably thinks you would be upset.





you have nothing to worry about! :)
its not because he isn't happy, may be his wife doesn't approve of it that's why he probably watches it in the absence of his wife. but i think it would be more exciting if the couple watch it together to enhance their sexual drive.
Because it is convenient.. right on his computer in his house. He is embarrassed that he watches it. Has nothing to do with him ';being happy'; in the marriage.





Buy software to block it if you don't want it on the computer.
It must be guilt since he is hiding it from you. He may be happy, but for some reason, he doesn't want to share his secret with you. Porn can become an addiction. Perhaps it is time to throw the computer and the videos in the trash.
Men like looking at naked women. They are visual creatures. Looking at porn by itself is not something to be worried about. I'd guess he tried to hide it because he was either embarrassed or because he thought you'd disapprove.
there is one saying do u know? ' stolen mango is sweater than shop mango'; so that's y they were doing this. they got bored on seeing their wife's porn.so they seeing others porn.
He probably hides it because women are different with the idea of porn, and does not want to hurt you. Does not mean he is unhappy in his marriage.
Well evidently his wife disapproves of it or hes embarrassed by it.
sure is maybe he want hia wife to try new things in the bed instead of just laying there


things to try in bed:


**** licking


*doggy style


*69


*dirty talk


*tie ing each other up
he might be embarrass. i don't think he is unhappy but you might not please him the way he would like you too. why not surprise him and watch it with him or ask him what he likes or role play
because porn is hot, but getting caught is embarrassing. has nothing to do with being happy.
he is embarrass. Ask your wife to watch the film with you it will be more exciting and fun.
why not the wife watch it with him and see if that can do something more for their sex lives
it more likely that he doesn't want to have to listen to her bleat about being inadequate...
Not satisfied with sex life.
I dont think it is because he is unhappy. Good Luck!
My hubby is perfectly happy hiding the fact that he watches porn from time to time.
Just give him some head