How far is it okay to go without being married?

I understand no sex before marrige, that is fine and reasonable. My only problem is how do I know what I can do without being married. Is kissing okay? Can someone give my a list or a few examples..?How far is it okay to go without being married?
I'm sorry, but I'm going to rip into you a little bit for asking this. How far is it ';okay'; to ';go'; before being married? The answer: AS FAR AS YOU'RE COMFORTABLE. And the ';no sex before marriage'; vow is NOT ';fine and reasonable.'; If you adhere to that, you're going to miss out on a lifetime of normal dating and normal human interaction. I'm assuming you're religious, so I'm not going to sway you on the ';no sex before marriage'; point. But as far as the rest of ';what's okay,'; you can only find that answer within yourself. Although religious people in power seem to want to quash everyone's sex drive (while molesting altar boys themselves, but that's a WHOLE different story), hormones and impulses are real, they exist, and it's healthy to act on them. If you're in a relationship with someone you care about, and you act safely and with regard to disease avoidance, there is absolutely no reason--religious or otherwise--why you shouldn't be able to literally everything with this person. I don't know if you're male or female; I'm going to assume female and give you a list of the basic sexual acts that precede vaginal intercourse: making out, getting felt up, third base, and oral sex. Some people like to pretend that anal sex somehow ';doesn't count'; as violating their ban on sex, but anal sex IS SEX even though you can't get pregnant from it. In fact, it's more difficult to pull off and more painful than so-called ';legitimate'; vaginal sex, and more dangerous as far as disease spreading. Anal sex IS sex for gay men, just like oral sex IS sex for many lesbians.





My advice to you is to throw these categories of ';what's okay'; and ';what's not okay'; out the window and listen to yourself and your body. If you want to do something, it's not wrong to do so if you are smart about it. Use condoms and/or birth control, wait until you're with someone you trust, and hold off until you're doing it for YOU.How far is it okay to go without being married?
The object of sex before marraige is so bad, because after you start to have sex and do all the other forms of sex, that starts to be something people care about way to much. If you dont hook up, you will have a much stronger relationship. Trust me, ive had a few long relationships, now im 21 and ive been with her for 3 years, and we still try to have sex more then we even go out. Do the least amount you can OTHER then kissing. Kiss 24/7, theres never harm or foul in that. The longer you wait to do more, then stronger your relationship will be.
If you are religious, then you should follow what your religion dictates.





However, not being a religious person I can tell you that I would never, ever buy a car without test driving it first.
I guess, if its for religious purposes that you cannot have full sex before marriage. I reckon kissing/making out is acceptable, but im unsure whether oral counts as full sex.





So i would just say making out.
kissing is fine i think, but its just about controlling our body and its urgers, no manual or oral sex, pretty much nothing...
Keep religion out of sex. Go as far as your conscious permits you. Remember all these restrictions and taboo are man-made and God did not come down personally to say 'do this' or 'dont do this'.
as far as you feel is right to. it's always up to the individual.