Is it alright to do oral sex when not married?

I mean, it is not ';intercourse'; so does it still count as sex?Is it alright to do oral sex when not married?
Yeah.. you do realize that we aren't your parents, right? Your question is worded as though you are asking for our permission.





What else could you possibly mean by ';alright';?





What does it mean for something to ';count as sex';? Is there score-keeping going on somewhere?





Oral Sex is a form of intimacy. It does not cause pregnancy, but it does carry the same risk of disease as intercourse does. It is viewed by our culture and by most religions with the same stigma as intercourse.





So it all comes down to what you are actually concerned about:





* Risk of Disease? Just as bad as intercourse.


* Being outcast from your church group? Just as bad as intercourse.


* Building strong bonds with your partner? Just as strong as intercourse.


* Risk of pregnancy? Not unless you get caught up in the moment and have intercourse anyway.