Sunday, January 17, 2010

How old should you be when you first get married?

I'm figuring I'll be about 23 when I finish my 4 years of university and 1 year of internship so I'd like to get engaged then. A lot of people seem to be waiting until mid-thirties and many are just shunning marriage. Is 25 too young to get married nowadays?How old should you be when you first get married?
There is not really a certain age. Biblicaly, you should allow for :the ';flower of youth to pass';. In other words, have acquired the sufficient maturety where you can care for yourself and someone else. Where you feel more than mere attraction but instead a love for the person as a whole. Here is a quick poem I read to help you.





What is true love? When you think that the most beautiful thing is not a sunset, but the idea of seeing it together. Laughing, talking, walking in the park, and just holding hands. Asking about each other's day. And being proud of each other's accomplishments. Sharing a smile, a laugh, a moment.......... a life.





Do you see him/ her like that?





Consider and plans things very carefully. Specially the economics since those are the source of allot of fights early on. Save!! Save !!!





2 last things............ right now you may be so love and you think WHAT IS NOT TO LOVE...HE IS PERFECT..........you will find out!! And guys, the women may change her last name, but so will you. Your name may be John Smith but you will soon become John TAKE OUT THE TRASH or John PAY THE BILLS. Accept the good, the bad and always attack the problem and not each other.





After everything, are you ready to get married?How old should you be when you first get married?
the maturity of both people counts. I was 25 and my wife 23 when we got married. Like a lot of young couples our biggest problem was money or the lack of it. Once we got over that hurdle by communicating better things were great. PS we have been married 37 %26amp; 1/2 years and are very happy.
I was 21 when I got married and it was the best decision ever! Now I am 25 and expecting my first baby. 25 is not too young to tie the knot, as long as both partners are ready for the responsibility.
No 25 isn't to young at all to get married.





I was 22 when i got married and i never thought that i was to young to get married.
If your really in love it shouldn't matter. Plus thats the new thing to get married young. everyones doing it. all the celebs. But you see how they turn out.
25 is not too young. I am 20 and married. We have a 3 year old son, and another baby on the way.

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