She's not fat
She works
She's pretty hot in fact
The opposite of a frumpy wife
But what are the tell tale sings that she's the wrong one?How do you know that you are married to the wrong person?
Hmm... so let me get this straight, I wake up one day and am magically married to a woman who:
Is not fat
Works
Is pretty hot in fact
Is the opposite of a frumpy wife
Yet she is the wrong one...? I was with ya until that last bit. Now I am finding this question to be a serious stretch of the imagination here. (←_←)
Okay okay *fine* I'll play along.
I wake up, and run through the checklist above, thinking, ';yeeaahh, see if I am *EVER* on Y!A again...'; I pull the shades and grin, and as I lean over to kiss her, I choke back a terrified scream and almost die of a heart attack.
But I cannot, because I am already dead! And of all the possible horrors I could be subjected to, I am stuck in my own personal HELL... where *every single (and married!) woman* (including this gorgeous specimen of a human being laying next to me)...
Looks just like *ME*!!!
o_O;
At that moment I look back on what a pain in the @rse I am to live with, as well as my insatiable libido (this would be taking self-pleasure to a horrifying extreme), and (this is the worst part) my INCESSANT TALKING!! (O_O)
And then I know without a single doubt that she's the wrong one.
::shudder::
How do you know that you are married to the wrong person?
If you have been unhappy more of the time than happy when you have been with her or thinking of her. Sometimes you have a wonderful initial romance with someone and then you actually get to know one another and it goes down hill and all you have are your beginning memories. In this case, you may not be right for one another. (If this happens with you with everyone you meet then you might have to examine your own pattern of behavior in relationships)
If you have been happy most of the time, but recently feel unhappy (It is all relative--if you have been married ten years and the last two have been bad--or married three years but the last year has been bad, etc--you have to be the judge of if it has been a long or short time compared to your marriage)--then you might want to explore what is happening in your lives right now or what has been happening .
You would not have married this person if you felt she was the wrong person for you. So something has changed. If it is something related to basic honesty/trust/faithfulness then you have to decide if that is a deal-breaker--most people would say yes. Also if it involves abuse of any kind--towards you or other people, etc.
There are no other clear signs--You have to know how you feel. examine your own feelings...The ';positives'; you list about your wife are all very nice but they are all superficial/material things--she works-is not fat-is hot--A Successful, happy marriage requires much more than having an attractive well-paid, hot partner. It involves kindness, mutual respect and consideration, some common interests and the ability to be open to your partner's interests, a desire to be committed and share common goals and dreams, and the perseverance and determination to get through the tough and boring times that are a part of every marriage. Yes, passion is key too, but it is not the only thing, and I have often noticed that marriages that are able to maintain their passion over decades--(And yes--they have bad times too), are those where the non-passionate qualities of kindness and all the other things I mentioned are very strong. It's hard to stay passionate about a marriage when you feel like someone doesn't really care about you, or is basically not a nice/kind person.
anyhow--that's my late night advice. Good luck.
She's the ';wrong person'; if she is cheating on you(not with her job, or the kids, or her hobbies, but having sex with another person) or if she abandons you (not emotionally or spiritually or any new agey way, but picks up and moves away). If you haven't been cheated on or abandoned by her then God says in the Bible that He wants you to be married to her.
Your reasons are all superficial and have no weight:
She's not fat
She works
She's pretty hot..
I mean besides ';she works'; which is like...who the hell doesn't work with the economy the way it is....I mean she doesn't sound like much...at least not much to you..
So there are two options:
1. You settled for something lackluster
2. You expect too much and aren't telling more about how great this person is and you are going through some grass is greener stage where you feel like you want out cus you think you can get something better....and I'll tell you one thing
Grass is rarely ever greener....
it is just different grass.
What are you talking about? If she is all the things you say she is, then why are you questioning if she is the wrong person? There is obviously a lot more to this for you to even ask this question. However, if you do not have anything in common, you dont enjoy each others company anymore, no sexual interest, you do things separately not as a couple or family if thats applicable. These are some tell tales signs.
Given your superficial info, your question actually sounds bitter but I'll answer it anyways.
The phrase is,';tall tale signs'; by the way...
Tall tale signs would be;
She cheats on you
She doesn't help with the chores around the house
She bitches at you constantly
She spends money terribly
If you find that you two cannot hold an adult conversation and are always arguing.
She doesn't find any interest in you, whether if it's communication wise or in the bedroom.
and lastly, you don't find interest in her. If this is the case even if you find money is low, make a point to go out and do something together that is different once and awhile.
Pretend you are single. If you wouldn't go out with her, she's probably wrong for you. If you are married, though, you ought to work hard to get things going again. It's pretty easy for real life to take over, and you find yourselves forgetting why you are together. If you look in the right place, you'll probably remember.
she doesn't have to be skinny, she doesn't have to work, she doesn't have to be a trumpy/frumpy wife; if you love her, and she loves you, then that's all it matters.
you should already knows if she's wrong already;
- if you don't trust her, or if she doesn't trust you,
- no communation,
- cheater, liar, unfaithful.
It is a very relative term as such.
No one should have a car better than mine -
No one should have a house better than mine -
No one should have clothes better than mine -
and so on..........
But all people should think as I think,
So the wrong may exist in oneself. Constraint is best medicine.
If you're married to her -- she's the one. Buy books, attend conferences, study how to make it work. A different woman just brings different problems you'll have to work through. Nobody's perfect. Accept her as she is. Treat her like a precious treasure and make conscious choice to overlook her faults.
A lot of people out there who are not bad-good looking, nice people, good social skills, work and have a decent income and it still seems so difficult to find the 'right' one. Attraction is just not there, you don't feel right, you don't feel good, you feel something is wrong
When you realise that you're not yourself anymore. Basically, you become a shadow of your former self. Ask your family and friends if you're the same person you used to be or if you've lost that ';spark'; they used to see in you. People on the outside often see it before we do.
If you have high blood pressure with her! Sounds funny, but I found it to be true. I was with mr wrong and on real strong blood pressure meds, now I am with mr perfect for me and they have been cut in half twice! I need to go back I could probably get off them completely now.
When she's more demanding, dangerous, and capricious than the god of the Old Testament.... and not even a proper goat sacrifice will subdue her.
She just doesn't fit.
The conversations
Humor
Family
Affection
Bad chemistry discovered.
she's probably wondering why she married someone who doesn't wash his hair.
Divorce papers being served from either side.
you don't appreciate her or the institution of marriage and I think you know this.
I once thought of injecting my husband with embalming fluid....and I knew then he was the wrong person.
if you are asking it's because she IS the wrong person for you.
if not there would be NO doubt in your mind !!
by reading your last 2 questions...sorry you seem unhappy as i
if you question ur relationship wit her..
When she kicks you out and divorces you?
well when you are sorry for marry her
how the hell am i suppose to know?
im underage!!!
geez!
how much crap are you asking?
sorry im pissed of
just trying to get my anger out!!!!!
Saturday, January 23, 2010
What all do i need to get married to my girlfriend in new zealand?
i was wondering what all i need to get married to my girlfriend of 3 yrs...and once we do get married how long will it take to get my nz citizenship. i'm currently an american citizen who will be moving there in end of july.What all do i need to get married to my girlfriend in new zealand?
what do you mean moving there?
As a visitor you can ONLY stay for 3 months.
Have you applied for permanent residency?
I'll guess and say no.
Which means that after 3 months visit you MUST leave or you will be an illegal in NZ.
Also, if you remember your geography, July in NZ is the winter - do you realise that? It will be cold - depending on where you live.
Do you have any of the following skills?
We need skilled people for the following types of work. Choose your industry to find more on qualifications, registration requirements and profiles of migrants working in your field.
Engineering
Teaching
Biotechnology
Construction
Creative New Zealand
Healthcare
Information Technology
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/nzopportu鈥?/a>
How to QUALIFY for Permanent residency.
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/nzopportu鈥?/a>
Migration process to NZ
http://www.new-zealand-immigration.com/M鈥?/a>
Applying as a family (where your g/f or wife, sponsors you.
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/nzopportu鈥?/a>
You must be living together (and have been for a minimum of 12 months) in a genuine and stable relationship. You must also:
meet our partnership requirements
be in good health
be of good character (no convictions or criminal record)
be sponsored by your New Zealand partner who is eligible to sponsor you.
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/migrant/s鈥?/a>
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/migrant/s鈥?/a>
As you can tell, I dislike NZ being overrun by Americans. They belong in USA, NOT in Godzone. I am a Kiwi.cosmetics company
what do you mean moving there?
As a visitor you can ONLY stay for 3 months.
Have you applied for permanent residency?
I'll guess and say no.
Which means that after 3 months visit you MUST leave or you will be an illegal in NZ.
Also, if you remember your geography, July in NZ is the winter - do you realise that? It will be cold - depending on where you live.
Do you have any of the following skills?
We need skilled people for the following types of work. Choose your industry to find more on qualifications, registration requirements and profiles of migrants working in your field.
Engineering
Teaching
Biotechnology
Construction
Creative New Zealand
Healthcare
Information Technology
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/nzopportu鈥?/a>
How to QUALIFY for Permanent residency.
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/nzopportu鈥?/a>
Migration process to NZ
http://www.new-zealand-immigration.com/M鈥?/a>
Applying as a family (where your g/f or wife, sponsors you.
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/nzopportu鈥?/a>
You must be living together (and have been for a minimum of 12 months) in a genuine and stable relationship. You must also:
meet our partnership requirements
be in good health
be of good character (no convictions or criminal record)
be sponsored by your New Zealand partner who is eligible to sponsor you.
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/migrant/s鈥?/a>
http://www.immigration.govt.nz/migrant/s鈥?/a>
As you can tell, I dislike NZ being overrun by Americans. They belong in USA, NOT in Godzone. I am a Kiwi.
What is the legal age to be married in the state of Kentucky?
Any waiting period or blood tests required?What is the legal age to be married in the state of Kentucky?
If you are 16 or 17 years old, you must have the consent of your parents or legal guardian. Custody papers are required if your parents are divorced. The form that you need to have completed is the Consent to Marriage Form (84-FCC-501). It has to be witnessed by two witnesses who are at least 18 years old, signed by your parent or legal guardian, and sworn by the deputy clerk.
If you are a pregnant minor you may apply to a district court judge for permission to marry without parental consent. If you are under 16, you must get approval to marry from the District Court. Minors cannot get married in Kentucky if parents or guardians are not residents of Kentucky.
There is no waiting period in Kentucky.
I don't think you need a blood test, not sure though, website didn't mention needing one.What is the legal age to be married in the state of Kentucky?
You have to be 18 to marry without parental consent. 16 and 17 year-olds can get married with the signature of 2 witnesses (18 years or older), 1 guardian/parent, and a deputy clerk.
If you are pregnant and 16 or 17, you can apply to a district court judge to be married without parental consent.
Under 16, the courts decide whether you can, then the 2 witnesses, parent, and deputy clerk signatures.
If you are 16 or 17 years old, you must have the consent of your parents or legal guardian. Custody papers are required if your parents are divorced. The form that you need to have completed is the Consent to Marriage Form (84-FCC-501). It has to be witnessed by two witnesses who are at least 18 years old, signed by your parent or legal guardian, and sworn by the deputy clerk. If you are a pregnant minor you may apply to a district court judge for permission to marry without parental consent.
If you are under 16, you must get approval to marry from the District Court. Minors cannot get married in Kentucky if parents or guardians are not residents of Kentucky
13 but only to a cousin
Every state is different and if its a family member, it might be totally different??? But I don't think they do blood tests anymore??
I dunno. Ten?
You can get married at 16 and 17 with parental consent otherwise you have to be 18.
Check the state's official Web site.
If you are 16 or 17 years old, you must have the consent of your parents or legal guardian. Custody papers are required if your parents are divorced. The form that you need to have completed is the Consent to Marriage Form (84-FCC-501). It has to be witnessed by two witnesses who are at least 18 years old, signed by your parent or legal guardian, and sworn by the deputy clerk.
If you are a pregnant minor you may apply to a district court judge for permission to marry without parental consent. If you are under 16, you must get approval to marry from the District Court. Minors cannot get married in Kentucky if parents or guardians are not residents of Kentucky.
There is no waiting period in Kentucky.
I don't think you need a blood test, not sure though, website didn't mention needing one.What is the legal age to be married in the state of Kentucky?
You have to be 18 to marry without parental consent. 16 and 17 year-olds can get married with the signature of 2 witnesses (18 years or older), 1 guardian/parent, and a deputy clerk.
If you are pregnant and 16 or 17, you can apply to a district court judge to be married without parental consent.
Under 16, the courts decide whether you can, then the 2 witnesses, parent, and deputy clerk signatures.
If you are 16 or 17 years old, you must have the consent of your parents or legal guardian. Custody papers are required if your parents are divorced. The form that you need to have completed is the Consent to Marriage Form (84-FCC-501). It has to be witnessed by two witnesses who are at least 18 years old, signed by your parent or legal guardian, and sworn by the deputy clerk. If you are a pregnant minor you may apply to a district court judge for permission to marry without parental consent.
If you are under 16, you must get approval to marry from the District Court. Minors cannot get married in Kentucky if parents or guardians are not residents of Kentucky
13 but only to a cousin
Every state is different and if its a family member, it might be totally different??? But I don't think they do blood tests anymore??
I dunno. Ten?
You can get married at 16 and 17 with parental consent otherwise you have to be 18.
Check the state's official Web site.
Should I send wedding invitations to my US friends even though I'm getting married in Ecuador?
I'm getting married to my fianc茅 in her home country of Ecuador. It's an expensive trip, especially air fare. Should I send invitations to my US friends even though I know they can't make it?Should I send wedding invitations to my US friends even though I'm getting married in Ecuador?
Yes. I sent my aunts, uncle, and cousins wedding invitations to my wedding, and they live in Germany. I knew full well that they wouldn't be able to make it, but they were very honored to have been invited.
Do have an RSVP date. My relatives on my mom's side in Germany sent a letter back telling me how honored they were to be invited, but couldn't make it. They even sent some cash, although I never expected them to.Should I send wedding invitations to my US friends even though I'm getting married in Ecuador?
Personally, I think I probably would go ahead and send the invites and make sure to verbally tell my friends, ';I really don't expect you to come due to the expense, and I don't want a gift but wanted you to know how special you are to me and that if the wedding were down the street, I'd want you there.';
On the one hand it can be viewed as fishing for gifts, but on the other, it can let them know they are special to you and you'd want them there if it wasn't for the cost and distance.
don't assume they can't make it! if you don't invite them they'll think it's because you snubbed them or you don't think they're close enough! ANY person who you truly want at your wedding, you should of course invite them. let them decide for themselves whether or not they can afford time off work, airfare, hotel, gifts etc. if they can't, they'll just kindly send a gift and rsvp that they can't come but at least they feel good for being invited.
No. Proper etiquette is to send them announcements so that they won't feel obligated to send a gift.
send them invitations they r your friend
send them one!! If they cant come it seems like you understand. So that way they know you thought of them.
Yes. I sent my aunts, uncle, and cousins wedding invitations to my wedding, and they live in Germany. I knew full well that they wouldn't be able to make it, but they were very honored to have been invited.
Do have an RSVP date. My relatives on my mom's side in Germany sent a letter back telling me how honored they were to be invited, but couldn't make it. They even sent some cash, although I never expected them to.Should I send wedding invitations to my US friends even though I'm getting married in Ecuador?
Personally, I think I probably would go ahead and send the invites and make sure to verbally tell my friends, ';I really don't expect you to come due to the expense, and I don't want a gift but wanted you to know how special you are to me and that if the wedding were down the street, I'd want you there.';
On the one hand it can be viewed as fishing for gifts, but on the other, it can let them know they are special to you and you'd want them there if it wasn't for the cost and distance.
don't assume they can't make it! if you don't invite them they'll think it's because you snubbed them or you don't think they're close enough! ANY person who you truly want at your wedding, you should of course invite them. let them decide for themselves whether or not they can afford time off work, airfare, hotel, gifts etc. if they can't, they'll just kindly send a gift and rsvp that they can't come but at least they feel good for being invited.
No. Proper etiquette is to send them announcements so that they won't feel obligated to send a gift.
send them invitations they r your friend
send them one!! If they cant come it seems like you understand. So that way they know you thought of them.
Will I still be eligible to stay on my fathers health insurance if I get married but remain a fulltime student?
I am a 23yr old full-time student and right now I am on my father's health insurance still because of my student status. What I am wondering is if I get married and my last name changes, will I still be able to stay on my father's health insurance because I am still a full time student? Thanks for your help guys!Will I still be eligible to stay on my fathers health insurance if I get married but remain a fulltime student?
Been there. I lost coverage when I married my husband at 21 even though I was in graduate school. It may vary by policy or over time (this was a number of years ago) but I was no longer considered a dependent and my parent's health insurance wouldn't cover me anymore. It wasn't a big deal...colleges deal with it all the time and offer low cost insurance policies for all students. Most colleges actually require students to have proof of insurance.
My niece is an unmarried 24 year old student and my sister's health policy has stopped covering her. Her policy stops coverage of children in any situation once they hit 24. Her job doesn't offer insurance, so she too carries a policy she got through her school.Will I still be eligible to stay on my fathers health insurance if I get married but remain a fulltime student?
No. You need to be your father's dependent in order for him to carry you on his policy. Once you're married, you're independent.
If your husband has medical insurance, he can add you as a spouse once you're married. If he doesn't have insurance, then one or the other of you really needs to find a job that provides benefits!
Unfortunately no. But you can buy yourself another health insurance policy. Read the terms and conditions of that policy and discuss with your insurance agent.
http://www.autoinsureusa.info/
Get as much resource as you can maybe is one option,however it could be quite time consuming,here
http://www.HealthInsuranceFree.info
is one resource i have had good experience.
No, you would no longer be considered a dependent of your father's, you'd be considered your husband's dependent.
Sorry but no. Once you are married, you are no longer a dependent of your parents.
I doubt that very much. This should now be the responsibilty of yourself and your hubby. You could stay a full time student till you are 90.
no
Been there. I lost coverage when I married my husband at 21 even though I was in graduate school. It may vary by policy or over time (this was a number of years ago) but I was no longer considered a dependent and my parent's health insurance wouldn't cover me anymore. It wasn't a big deal...colleges deal with it all the time and offer low cost insurance policies for all students. Most colleges actually require students to have proof of insurance.
My niece is an unmarried 24 year old student and my sister's health policy has stopped covering her. Her policy stops coverage of children in any situation once they hit 24. Her job doesn't offer insurance, so she too carries a policy she got through her school.Will I still be eligible to stay on my fathers health insurance if I get married but remain a fulltime student?
No. You need to be your father's dependent in order for him to carry you on his policy. Once you're married, you're independent.
If your husband has medical insurance, he can add you as a spouse once you're married. If he doesn't have insurance, then one or the other of you really needs to find a job that provides benefits!
Unfortunately no. But you can buy yourself another health insurance policy. Read the terms and conditions of that policy and discuss with your insurance agent.
http://www.autoinsureusa.info/
Get as much resource as you can maybe is one option,however it could be quite time consuming,here
http://www.HealthInsuranceFree.info
is one resource i have had good experience.
No, you would no longer be considered a dependent of your father's, you'd be considered your husband's dependent.
Sorry but no. Once you are married, you are no longer a dependent of your parents.
I doubt that very much. This should now be the responsibilty of yourself and your hubby. You could stay a full time student till you are 90.
no
What would you literally do if you found out that the man you've been dating was actually married?
and you had already fallen in love with him. but you didn't know he was married until you had already been dating and fallen in love.What would you literally do if you found out that the man you've been dating was actually married?
Oh, this happened to me several years ago. It makes you feel like it's your fault and then you begin to wonder what to do. The right thing - dump him or the wrong thing - stay with him because you love him. I had to dump him - thought about the long term and knew the right thing to do was to dump him. This will be a decision you will have to make - and it's not easy. Good Luck :)What would you literally do if you found out that the man you've been dating was actually married?
Did he tell you or did you find out some other way? If he didn't tell you himself he has no intention of leaving his wife. Most married men don't ell until they are sure you are in love and will accepted being 2nd best.Ln my opinion married men cheat, not necessarily because they don't love their wife or children, but because they can have the best of both worlds. A wife at home to take care of all the mundane parts of marriage and exciting sex with another woman. Part of the thrill is the secrecy and the other is no obligations. Leaving out the part of the deception to his, wife who maybe would be your friend if you met her under different circumstances, what about of your life of uncertainty that he won't leave you when you make any kind of demands as far as his marriage is considered, or he tires of you, seeing him only when it's convient for him, never being able to go out with him for fear someone will find out, loneliness on holidays, which he will spend with his family, and never being able to introduce him to your family or friends. If you are willing to endure all that for a married man you love then it's your choice.
What do you mean, actually married? Is he separated from his wife and no longer lives with her?
If he is still living in the same house, without a separation agreement- move on!!
Why didn't he tell you his marital status? Do you want to be involved with a liar and a cheater?
You are asking for heartache, big time!!
Dump him. Do you SERIOUSLY have to ask?? I don't blame you for dating a married man if you didn't know that he was married, I blame you for wanting to CONTINUE dating him since you now know that he's married. Oh, and it doesn't matter if he still lives with her or if the are separated. Unless he shows you divorce papers and that divorce is final, HE IS STILL MARRIED!
The time line sucks big time, but the outcome is easy to see that the course is a rocky one with no real intentions of him leaving his wife. His lying speaks volumes for his goal. That is to keep both women in his life and lead two lives with double sex and relationships. Dump him as the separation from his wife is up in the air and he will cheat again on his next spouse if that would happen down the road. The choice is logical but those people who decide to stick it out are only fooling them self that it will work out. Time to move on.....
Ask him what he intends to do firstly. Is he wanting to divorce his first wife. Were they separated before he met you? Does he have any children?
You are 'the other woman' would you be able to trust him again? He's lied to you thus far or did you fall in love on the first date....I doubt it. Get rid I say and find a man who can be up front with his present and past. He obviously is selfish - he saw you he wanted you and he took you...knowing all the time that wifey was at home waiting for him.
Sorry my dear but you need to check out the guys you go out with. Surely you must have suspected something. What about Christmas and other official holidays....what was his excuse about not being there for you on those times...or what was his excuse to his wife. Either way he's lied. If these hols haven't happened yet - then you havent been with him that long and are probably more in lust than in love....Get rid I say. He could string you along for years - get someone free and single who is open and honest about who he is. For all you know this man could have a string of other ladies. He's lied once and believe you me he'll continue to do so...in fact he is living a lie isn't he and you are the one who'se gonna get all the fall out. You are worth so much more than this. Of course you going to be upset and hurt if you break up - but what do you think his wife will be going through.
If you are both so in love and he decides to divorce his wife then so be it. But whilst that process is going on dont see him - do you really want to be named on the divorce papers as someone who broke up a marriage.
My nan was in this situation. My grandad lied about his age, and marriage, kids. When she found out, she was already in love. She was very young, 17 at the time. What I think happened, they were in a affair for years then nan got pregnant and my grandad finally left, on his son birthday! (sounds like a soap!) their still together thrirty years later.
I personally never do it
Prepare yourself to confront him. Ask him why he kept this information from you. Realize that he has been lying to you and that no relationship will flourish when someone is constantly lying. Get ready to move on to someone who cares more about you than this guy and tell him to hit the road.
would make no difference I wouldnt have anything to do with him....he is not ideal marriage maerial...and he has proven it.....I would drop him...fast...and let his wife know that he was pretending to be single....what she does with that information is up to her....but at least she will know what kind of a cad she has married....oh and I would give him a peice of my mind for mucking me around and being so deceitful : )
I've had that happen to me exactly one time - found out after our 2nd date - and he made light of it entirely, which caused me to do the only thing I could - never see him or talk to him again.
Married people are off limits in my book.
falling in love is not an excuse to disregard common sense. He is a liar and a cheat.. If he he'd do it to her, he would surely do it to you. So, I would let him go. Cut all ties. Avoid any interaction with him at all costs.
It will hurt but your Mr. Right is on the way...
I would sit down a talk to him and say why did u cheat on your wife with me and if u cheat on her u will do the same with me!!! I have 2 let u go because I do not want to get my heart broken so u need to let her go or me!
And u need to see what he says
he can not be the man for you. He did not tell you he is married, further he is a cheater and a liar. do not believe he will ever leave his wife for you, please don't go on with this.
Ask yourself if you would ever be able to trust this man. Isn't that the most important thing? Once a horse jumps the fence a horse always wants to jump that fence.
Be ready to accept the loss. Let him know that it is over and never to bother you again. He lied to his wife, what makes you think he will not lie to you? Cut your losses and move on.
Make sure you have an escape route in any public place you go so that you can get away from the cast of CHEATERS when they run up to you with their cameras.
I would hate him enough to break up with him swiftly. Love cannot survive this kind of lie and a person who thinks it can is self-deceived.
Same as with any other kind of deal breaker. We can survive heart-aches and don't have to make them permanent fixtures in our lives.
Accept that I never really had him anyway because the man I loved did not have a wife. I'd leave him, but not before making sure that his poor wife knew what the dirty pig had been up to.
Make sure they divorce and go to marriage counseling.
Dump him and don't look back! It may hurt but you will hurt more long term if you stay with him!
i would feel more humiliated knowing i was a booty call...
Find out if he is love with his spouse.
I honestly would have to call it off. If he lied about something this big then can you imagine what else he has or will lie about!
Maybe a trip to the spay and neuter clinic?
Oh, this happened to me several years ago. It makes you feel like it's your fault and then you begin to wonder what to do. The right thing - dump him or the wrong thing - stay with him because you love him. I had to dump him - thought about the long term and knew the right thing to do was to dump him. This will be a decision you will have to make - and it's not easy. Good Luck :)What would you literally do if you found out that the man you've been dating was actually married?
Did he tell you or did you find out some other way? If he didn't tell you himself he has no intention of leaving his wife. Most married men don't ell until they are sure you are in love and will accepted being 2nd best.Ln my opinion married men cheat, not necessarily because they don't love their wife or children, but because they can have the best of both worlds. A wife at home to take care of all the mundane parts of marriage and exciting sex with another woman. Part of the thrill is the secrecy and the other is no obligations. Leaving out the part of the deception to his, wife who maybe would be your friend if you met her under different circumstances, what about of your life of uncertainty that he won't leave you when you make any kind of demands as far as his marriage is considered, or he tires of you, seeing him only when it's convient for him, never being able to go out with him for fear someone will find out, loneliness on holidays, which he will spend with his family, and never being able to introduce him to your family or friends. If you are willing to endure all that for a married man you love then it's your choice.
What do you mean, actually married? Is he separated from his wife and no longer lives with her?
If he is still living in the same house, without a separation agreement- move on!!
Why didn't he tell you his marital status? Do you want to be involved with a liar and a cheater?
You are asking for heartache, big time!!
Dump him. Do you SERIOUSLY have to ask?? I don't blame you for dating a married man if you didn't know that he was married, I blame you for wanting to CONTINUE dating him since you now know that he's married. Oh, and it doesn't matter if he still lives with her or if the are separated. Unless he shows you divorce papers and that divorce is final, HE IS STILL MARRIED!
The time line sucks big time, but the outcome is easy to see that the course is a rocky one with no real intentions of him leaving his wife. His lying speaks volumes for his goal. That is to keep both women in his life and lead two lives with double sex and relationships. Dump him as the separation from his wife is up in the air and he will cheat again on his next spouse if that would happen down the road. The choice is logical but those people who decide to stick it out are only fooling them self that it will work out. Time to move on.....
Ask him what he intends to do firstly. Is he wanting to divorce his first wife. Were they separated before he met you? Does he have any children?
You are 'the other woman' would you be able to trust him again? He's lied to you thus far or did you fall in love on the first date....I doubt it. Get rid I say and find a man who can be up front with his present and past. He obviously is selfish - he saw you he wanted you and he took you...knowing all the time that wifey was at home waiting for him.
Sorry my dear but you need to check out the guys you go out with. Surely you must have suspected something. What about Christmas and other official holidays....what was his excuse about not being there for you on those times...or what was his excuse to his wife. Either way he's lied. If these hols haven't happened yet - then you havent been with him that long and are probably more in lust than in love....Get rid I say. He could string you along for years - get someone free and single who is open and honest about who he is. For all you know this man could have a string of other ladies. He's lied once and believe you me he'll continue to do so...in fact he is living a lie isn't he and you are the one who'se gonna get all the fall out. You are worth so much more than this. Of course you going to be upset and hurt if you break up - but what do you think his wife will be going through.
If you are both so in love and he decides to divorce his wife then so be it. But whilst that process is going on dont see him - do you really want to be named on the divorce papers as someone who broke up a marriage.
My nan was in this situation. My grandad lied about his age, and marriage, kids. When she found out, she was already in love. She was very young, 17 at the time. What I think happened, they were in a affair for years then nan got pregnant and my grandad finally left, on his son birthday! (sounds like a soap!) their still together thrirty years later.
I personally never do it
Prepare yourself to confront him. Ask him why he kept this information from you. Realize that he has been lying to you and that no relationship will flourish when someone is constantly lying. Get ready to move on to someone who cares more about you than this guy and tell him to hit the road.
would make no difference I wouldnt have anything to do with him....he is not ideal marriage maerial...and he has proven it.....I would drop him...fast...and let his wife know that he was pretending to be single....what she does with that information is up to her....but at least she will know what kind of a cad she has married....oh and I would give him a peice of my mind for mucking me around and being so deceitful : )
I've had that happen to me exactly one time - found out after our 2nd date - and he made light of it entirely, which caused me to do the only thing I could - never see him or talk to him again.
Married people are off limits in my book.
falling in love is not an excuse to disregard common sense. He is a liar and a cheat.. If he he'd do it to her, he would surely do it to you. So, I would let him go. Cut all ties. Avoid any interaction with him at all costs.
It will hurt but your Mr. Right is on the way...
I would sit down a talk to him and say why did u cheat on your wife with me and if u cheat on her u will do the same with me!!! I have 2 let u go because I do not want to get my heart broken so u need to let her go or me!
And u need to see what he says
he can not be the man for you. He did not tell you he is married, further he is a cheater and a liar. do not believe he will ever leave his wife for you, please don't go on with this.
Ask yourself if you would ever be able to trust this man. Isn't that the most important thing? Once a horse jumps the fence a horse always wants to jump that fence.
Be ready to accept the loss. Let him know that it is over and never to bother you again. He lied to his wife, what makes you think he will not lie to you? Cut your losses and move on.
Make sure you have an escape route in any public place you go so that you can get away from the cast of CHEATERS when they run up to you with their cameras.
I would hate him enough to break up with him swiftly. Love cannot survive this kind of lie and a person who thinks it can is self-deceived.
Same as with any other kind of deal breaker. We can survive heart-aches and don't have to make them permanent fixtures in our lives.
Accept that I never really had him anyway because the man I loved did not have a wife. I'd leave him, but not before making sure that his poor wife knew what the dirty pig had been up to.
Make sure they divorce and go to marriage counseling.
Dump him and don't look back! It may hurt but you will hurt more long term if you stay with him!
i would feel more humiliated knowing i was a booty call...
Find out if he is love with his spouse.
I honestly would have to call it off. If he lied about something this big then can you imagine what else he has or will lie about!
Maybe a trip to the spay and neuter clinic?
I am getting married and want flawless natural looking pictures?
I have heard great things about being airbrushed, like having my foundation airbrushed and then the eyeshawdow done with mac. I want my pictures to look great, and I want to know if anyone knows of a great natural looking make-up good for weddings and good for the camera, I got my makeup airbrushed today with a product called Luminess and it looked great but my skin felt really sticky all day?I am getting married and want flawless natural looking pictures?
This is a great tutorial on wedding make up, very very flawless and beautiful.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qvwRO8xY2鈥?/a>
She is the best MUA i've ever seen.
I cant really recommend anywhere to get airbrushed coz i dunno where you live but good luck and im sure you'll look beautiful whatever you choose!
Happy Wedding Day :-)I am getting married and want flawless natural looking pictures?
You dont want something sticky on your face because it might rub off on your dress...My favourite foundation is by makeup forever.Make sure that you stay away from foundations that have alot of sparkly particles in them they are bad for the camera. Also a great primer and concealer are a MUST...GOOD LUCK!
send them into to get edited for flawless skin i can do that with mine see
http://annabellemakeupjunkie.com/
im the one named Jamie from terrace
also can you vote for me:D
click the ';%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;';
';flawless natural looking'; is a bit of an oxymoron, hon.
This is a great tutorial on wedding make up, very very flawless and beautiful.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qvwRO8xY2鈥?/a>
She is the best MUA i've ever seen.
I cant really recommend anywhere to get airbrushed coz i dunno where you live but good luck and im sure you'll look beautiful whatever you choose!
Happy Wedding Day :-)I am getting married and want flawless natural looking pictures?
You dont want something sticky on your face because it might rub off on your dress...My favourite foundation is by makeup forever.Make sure that you stay away from foundations that have alot of sparkly particles in them they are bad for the camera. Also a great primer and concealer are a MUST...GOOD LUCK!
send them into to get edited for flawless skin i can do that with mine see
http://annabellemakeupjunkie.com/
im the one named Jamie from terrace
also can you vote for me:D
click the ';%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;';
';flawless natural looking'; is a bit of an oxymoron, hon.
If I look at a woman and I have already married her in my mind before lusting after her in my mind, is it sin?
I know that lusting after women is the same as committing adultery in your mind, but what if you marry them in your mind first? Then it's all proper and no sin is involved, right? The thought police won't arrest me or anything?If I look at a woman and I have already married her in my mind before lusting after her in my mind, is it sin?
If I answer your question in my mind, do I get credit for the best answer in my mind?If I look at a woman and I have already married her in my mind before lusting after her in my mind, is it sin?
No,no,no.You have to live in reality.This is just a window to escape ,to think of everything you want hiding the truth.How can you imagine that you are married to her if you are not? In marriage lusting is permeated but you are not married to that woman. You can help yourself.It might be harder in the beginning.If you believe in God it s good to pray.Helps a lot if you really believe.I am orthodox ,the oldest christian religion ,the authentic one and I pray like that ,,Jesus Christ son of God please have mercy on me the sinner,, That pray clears your mind of everything bad.It can be said even when you work,walk but not when you make a sin.You may not feel help in the beginning but if you want to try that it will work.You have to get a high thinking if I explain right.
隆隆yes,it is, and i mean - your Intention sounds sleazy!
驴are you living in contradiction, -- answering like atheist,but thinking like the most religious person in the World?!
(only human)
marrying them in your mind before lusting should work
strangely many christians haven't accepted this even though they willingly accept the idea of lustful thoughts as bad so there's another contradiction
I married the guy at the grocery store ha ha and yes the police will lock
you up for sinning oh gee ha ha this is so funny you are going to jail
Why not?
As long as you have ';hypothetically'; tied the knot, you can ';hypothetically'; go *** to mouth if you want to.
ho ho ho ...... i do that every time .....every woman i screw ... i married her first .... then i divorce and remarried again ......so nice .........screwing thousands and thousands.......
Whew! Nice mental machination. This question seems more fittingly asked in Philosophy, hehe. The ACTUAL sin that you would want to avoid is lusting after a woman, in your mind. Let us presuppose, for just this argument, that the woman is already married in actual life, so that the sin will be adultery.
So the question to ask is: ';Will you be able to change the actual status of the married woman to single by just thinking in your mind?'; in the same way as you could change the actual civil status of any single girl to married just by wishing in your mind? If you have changed the ';actual'; status, then you are not guilty of the ';mental'; sin.
I like your hair style. Very Einstein...
And yes, the thought police will arrest you, since you are not married in truth but lusted in the mind anyway..
the word ';Sin'; comes from a greek word which means ';to miss the point';
forget about it.
Good one.
yes it is cause your not married really.
well what if she is married already, funny guy?
ha ha ha! a very logical question but is it a joke or real R S question?
I marred the guy at the arby's tonight, he had grease on his shirt.cosmetics company
If I answer your question in my mind, do I get credit for the best answer in my mind?If I look at a woman and I have already married her in my mind before lusting after her in my mind, is it sin?
No,no,no.You have to live in reality.This is just a window to escape ,to think of everything you want hiding the truth.How can you imagine that you are married to her if you are not? In marriage lusting is permeated but you are not married to that woman. You can help yourself.It might be harder in the beginning.If you believe in God it s good to pray.Helps a lot if you really believe.I am orthodox ,the oldest christian religion ,the authentic one and I pray like that ,,Jesus Christ son of God please have mercy on me the sinner,, That pray clears your mind of everything bad.It can be said even when you work,walk but not when you make a sin.You may not feel help in the beginning but if you want to try that it will work.You have to get a high thinking if I explain right.
隆隆yes,it is, and i mean - your Intention sounds sleazy!
驴are you living in contradiction, -- answering like atheist,but thinking like the most religious person in the World?!
(only human)
marrying them in your mind before lusting should work
strangely many christians haven't accepted this even though they willingly accept the idea of lustful thoughts as bad so there's another contradiction
I married the guy at the grocery store ha ha and yes the police will lock
you up for sinning oh gee ha ha this is so funny you are going to jail
Why not?
As long as you have ';hypothetically'; tied the knot, you can ';hypothetically'; go *** to mouth if you want to.
ho ho ho ...... i do that every time .....every woman i screw ... i married her first .... then i divorce and remarried again ......so nice .........screwing thousands and thousands.......
Whew! Nice mental machination. This question seems more fittingly asked in Philosophy, hehe. The ACTUAL sin that you would want to avoid is lusting after a woman, in your mind. Let us presuppose, for just this argument, that the woman is already married in actual life, so that the sin will be adultery.
So the question to ask is: ';Will you be able to change the actual status of the married woman to single by just thinking in your mind?'; in the same way as you could change the actual civil status of any single girl to married just by wishing in your mind? If you have changed the ';actual'; status, then you are not guilty of the ';mental'; sin.
I like your hair style. Very Einstein...
And yes, the thought police will arrest you, since you are not married in truth but lusted in the mind anyway..
the word ';Sin'; comes from a greek word which means ';to miss the point';
forget about it.
Good one.
yes it is cause your not married really.
well what if she is married already, funny guy?
ha ha ha! a very logical question but is it a joke or real R S question?
I marred the guy at the arby's tonight, he had grease on his shirt.
Can a girl married in US file divorce suit in India?
They got married in us temple. Both are green card holders. They have a baby boy.After two years she left US without telling her husband. Now she has filed a law suit in INdia.Is it legal? What course of action the husband should take?Can a girl married in US file divorce suit in India?
He should talk to an attorney or some at the Indian councelet for 'legal' info.Can a girl married in US file divorce suit in India?
Absolutely. She can file for divorce in any country where she is a resident. Apparently, she is now a resident of India. The husband should contact the Indian consulate about what he should do next.
There are several consulates and he should contact the one for the state that he lives in.
have him get a lawyer fast he can get a free consultation they will tell him the cost up front and what his rights are and what the papers he has means to him etc since they were married when she left with the baby no divorce was in proceedings he might try to get her for kidnapping but the lawyer will be able to tell him what he needs to do and how to do it
He should talk to an attorney or some at the Indian councelet for 'legal' info.Can a girl married in US file divorce suit in India?
Absolutely. She can file for divorce in any country where she is a resident. Apparently, she is now a resident of India. The husband should contact the Indian consulate about what he should do next.
There are several consulates and he should contact the one for the state that he lives in.
have him get a lawyer fast he can get a free consultation they will tell him the cost up front and what his rights are and what the papers he has means to him etc since they were married when she left with the baby no divorce was in proceedings he might try to get her for kidnapping but the lawyer will be able to tell him what he needs to do and how to do it
Anyone ever got married on the Visa Waiver Programe in the USA?
Looking for someone to help me out with their experience as we have just done the same.Anyone ever got married on the Visa Waiver Programe in the USA?
I just got married on the visa waiver program in the USA and can help you. My email address is fawne@mail.com
We were married in November of 07 in Niagra Falls New York.
He is British I am American.
I just recieved my visa to go to Britain.
It only took five days.
I just got married on the visa waiver program in the USA and can help you. My email address is fawne@mail.com
We were married in November of 07 in Niagra Falls New York.
He is British I am American.
I just recieved my visa to go to Britain.
It only took five days.
Can you be married in both a same sex & straight marriage at the same time?
I have a friend that had a civil union in 2003. 4 years ago my friend and there life partner split for good. Never got the union dissolved. Now my friend is about to get married in a straight relationship. Is that legal? Should my friend get the civil union dissolved first?Can you be married in both a same sex %26amp; straight marriage at the same time?
Get it dissolved.
Otherwise your friend may face bigomy charges. There are some jurisdictions where being married to more than one person at a time is a crime.
Human laws are strange, the concept of marriage is entirely foreign to cats, but we do sometimes have faithful long term partnerships....Can you be married in both a same sex %26amp; straight marriage at the same time?
Yes, it is and yes he should.
Oddly, I read that any persons living together (in some states) whether it be gay, straight, friends or just room mates after 7 years are considered ';domestic partners';!
If your friend lives in a State that doesn't recognize gay unions, than it is not illegal, since the State doesn't accept that first union as valid.
But your friend should probably get the union disolved anyways.
Get it dissolved.
Otherwise your friend may face bigomy charges. There are some jurisdictions where being married to more than one person at a time is a crime.
Human laws are strange, the concept of marriage is entirely foreign to cats, but we do sometimes have faithful long term partnerships....Can you be married in both a same sex %26amp; straight marriage at the same time?
Yes, it is and yes he should.
Oddly, I read that any persons living together (in some states) whether it be gay, straight, friends or just room mates after 7 years are considered ';domestic partners';!
If your friend lives in a State that doesn't recognize gay unions, than it is not illegal, since the State doesn't accept that first union as valid.
But your friend should probably get the union disolved anyways.
Single mom vs married-how will it affect my tax refund?
Last year when I filed taxes it was as a single mom with a 1 child who was head of household and had daycare expensed to claim. I received almost $4000 in taxes back. This year I got married and I was wondering how much that is going to affect how much I get back for taxes? We have to file married filing jointly%26gt; THanks so much for any help!Single mom vs married-how will it affect my tax refund?
It could change your refund a lot, depending on how much your spouse makes.
You aren't required to file a joint return, but if you file as married filing separately, your only other legal option, you can't take EIC, child care credit, or several other tax benefits.Single mom vs married-how will it affect my tax refund?
It will all depend on how much income your spouse earns. If it is low enough, you may still qualify for the earned income credit.
It could change your refund a lot, depending on how much your spouse makes.
You aren't required to file a joint return, but if you file as married filing separately, your only other legal option, you can't take EIC, child care credit, or several other tax benefits.Single mom vs married-how will it affect my tax refund?
It will all depend on how much income your spouse earns. If it is low enough, you may still qualify for the earned income credit.
I am getting married at the at courthouse and i want to have a reception?
Me and fiance saved our money to have a wedding and nice reception but his mom has cancer and she couldn't work anymore. So we gave her money so she pay her bills so now we are going to the courthouse to get married and then have a reception. What happens when you have the reception that way. Do you and the groom get dress together in the same house and ride together to the reception. Can anybody give me some good advice. I am getting married at the at courthouse and i want to have a reception?
Well that was a big and noble sacrifice you made for your future mother-in-law. I commend you on that, plus you can always to an actual ';wedding'; at a later time or for your 'vow renewals. As far as the reception, seeing is your situation isn't a ';traditional'; one I think you should play it by ear, and just do it however you feel most comfortable, or whatever makes more sense to you. Just enjoy it now, and wait for all the actual ';formal/traditional'; ways for a later time. I am getting married at the at courthouse and i want to have a reception?
You can still dress nicely at the courthouse, but a traditional wedding gown would look a little weird. A nice white suit or a lighter colored suit or dress will be just fine.
What you'll do is have the courthouse ceremony and then you'll have the reception afterwards.
Since you and the groom will ride together to the courthouse, there's no reason why you can't get dressed together in the same house and also ride together to the reception.
Also, what you did for your mother in law was a wonderful thing. That's what a real marriage is about. Congratulations and enjoy your wedding day!
Just dress kinda regular at the courthouse..it looks ridiculous to wear a wedding dress. Have the reception at a hotel and go early (get a room) and dress in there beforehand.
Well that was a big and noble sacrifice you made for your future mother-in-law. I commend you on that, plus you can always to an actual ';wedding'; at a later time or for your 'vow renewals. As far as the reception, seeing is your situation isn't a ';traditional'; one I think you should play it by ear, and just do it however you feel most comfortable, or whatever makes more sense to you. Just enjoy it now, and wait for all the actual ';formal/traditional'; ways for a later time. I am getting married at the at courthouse and i want to have a reception?
You can still dress nicely at the courthouse, but a traditional wedding gown would look a little weird. A nice white suit or a lighter colored suit or dress will be just fine.
What you'll do is have the courthouse ceremony and then you'll have the reception afterwards.
Since you and the groom will ride together to the courthouse, there's no reason why you can't get dressed together in the same house and also ride together to the reception.
Also, what you did for your mother in law was a wonderful thing. That's what a real marriage is about. Congratulations and enjoy your wedding day!
Just dress kinda regular at the courthouse..it looks ridiculous to wear a wedding dress. Have the reception at a hotel and go early (get a room) and dress in there beforehand.
I am getting married in a week and was wondering if I should Mystic tan?
My dress is strapless and I ran out of time to tan via the beds. I did tan for two weeks and I am pretty much good. But I have faint straps marks that are stubborn to blend in. So will mystic tanning solve this? And will it stain aryclic nails? Also one of my friends has spots and want to tan. Will this cover the spots or make it look worse? Thanks for your help! :)I am getting married in a week and was wondering if I should Mystic tan?
I can tell you that I have mystic tanned for a while and it took me SEVERAL attempts to figure out how to do it! I would NOT recommend it this close to your wedding! They do give you this lotion to protect your toesn and fingers from staining but unless you are really good at putting it on it will stain them! If you really wanted to get a little darker I have used this Loreal Gradual tanner! Its not something that you can really mess up because its so gradual and easy to apply! Its not like the mystic where if you mess up your screwed! I hope this helps and I hope that you wedding day is AMAZING!I am getting married in a week and was wondering if I should Mystic tan?
Yes I would say do the tan, but maybe you should do your nails afterwards just in case.
I would definitely recommend Mystic Tanning. I also did it before my wedding. It's the best way to get a quick and healthy tan! It will help disguise the tan lines a little bit, but the best way to get rid of them is to put a little self-tanner directly on the tan lines to fill them in. Also, they give you a couple creams to put on before you tan. One is a blocker for your finger nails and anywhere else that you don't want tan. The other one is a blending lotion for dry spots like your knees and ankles so they get splotchy or too tan. (the dry spots tend to soak up more of the tanning solution)
I'm not sure what you mean about spots. Are you talking about freckles? I'm not sure, but I think that the mystic tan would help disquise freckles. You could call the mystic tan place and ask them to find out for sure.
BUTTTTT
if you do then tan when the spray starts to come off jump in a pool
it take the all of it off...most the time
if that doesnt work you will look like micheal jackson on your honeymoon
i would lay out for a littlw while
It might help, but the odds are good it will make it looks worse and unnatural.. The photographers gonna air brush all that out any way.. Blend what you can.. and have fun.
-HtJ
hmm. I don't know too much about tanning, but why don't you see if a friend can use fake tan on herself on tan lines and see if it blends in the tan lines? then see if it works on a small part of your wrist to make sure it will not turn you orange (yucky) and if so, then cautiously apply? Man this IS a dillema!
Mystic tan works wonders-I have really pale skin and am actually allergic to the sun. If I were you I would do the number two level-remmebr to exfoliate like a mad woman before you go in or else you will look orange on your knees etc..do it two days befor ethe big day to to let it fade and blend in. I find after I have showered it looks the best. Also the bronzer is completeley water soluble therefore it will not stain your nails-just make sure you put vaseline on your nails before entering as you would normally.
Congrats and hope your big day turns out wonderful
no no no no no oh man no do not mystic tan if you mystic tan you will look orange on you wedding and trust me i dont think you want that and for the spots it will make them darker just go have a great wedding and everyone will have their eyes on how great you look in the dress the tan wont matter.
if you do tan, do it cautiously!! you don't want to end up looking orange. if you've already been tanning for two weeks it seems as though you already have some color. don't overdo it, especially since your white dress is likely to make you look even darker than you really are. better to look natural and pale than like that overly tanned weirdo george costanza dated on seinfeld...
I would use sunless lotion instead of mystic tan. no matter how hard you try it will still get your nails both feet and hands and you will get dscoloration on your elbows heels and knees.
it wont even out the tan it will make the tan spots darker and it mite mess up you're nails. i would try the lotion that has a little bit of sunless tanner in it that will work the best
DO NOT do mystic tanning! its horrible! even the best places will make you look fake - and sometimes it will wear off unevenly orrr they will miss spots and people can tell your tan is really fake ...
You might try looking up a spa in your area that does the spray tan application by hand. They are usually better at making sure you are evenly covered. Put lotion on your nails, so no color sticks to them. I would talk with someone at tanning location about your friend.....depending on what the spots are they can tell you if it will color funny or not. If they are breakouts, she shouldn't do it, as it will turn them darker. Ask to be sure though. Good luck %26amp; congrats on your upcoming big day!cosmetics company
I can tell you that I have mystic tanned for a while and it took me SEVERAL attempts to figure out how to do it! I would NOT recommend it this close to your wedding! They do give you this lotion to protect your toesn and fingers from staining but unless you are really good at putting it on it will stain them! If you really wanted to get a little darker I have used this Loreal Gradual tanner! Its not something that you can really mess up because its so gradual and easy to apply! Its not like the mystic where if you mess up your screwed! I hope this helps and I hope that you wedding day is AMAZING!I am getting married in a week and was wondering if I should Mystic tan?
Yes I would say do the tan, but maybe you should do your nails afterwards just in case.
I would definitely recommend Mystic Tanning. I also did it before my wedding. It's the best way to get a quick and healthy tan! It will help disguise the tan lines a little bit, but the best way to get rid of them is to put a little self-tanner directly on the tan lines to fill them in. Also, they give you a couple creams to put on before you tan. One is a blocker for your finger nails and anywhere else that you don't want tan. The other one is a blending lotion for dry spots like your knees and ankles so they get splotchy or too tan. (the dry spots tend to soak up more of the tanning solution)
I'm not sure what you mean about spots. Are you talking about freckles? I'm not sure, but I think that the mystic tan would help disquise freckles. You could call the mystic tan place and ask them to find out for sure.
BUTTTTT
if you do then tan when the spray starts to come off jump in a pool
it take the all of it off...most the time
if that doesnt work you will look like micheal jackson on your honeymoon
i would lay out for a littlw while
It might help, but the odds are good it will make it looks worse and unnatural.. The photographers gonna air brush all that out any way.. Blend what you can.. and have fun.
-HtJ
hmm. I don't know too much about tanning, but why don't you see if a friend can use fake tan on herself on tan lines and see if it blends in the tan lines? then see if it works on a small part of your wrist to make sure it will not turn you orange (yucky) and if so, then cautiously apply? Man this IS a dillema!
Mystic tan works wonders-I have really pale skin and am actually allergic to the sun. If I were you I would do the number two level-remmebr to exfoliate like a mad woman before you go in or else you will look orange on your knees etc..do it two days befor ethe big day to to let it fade and blend in. I find after I have showered it looks the best. Also the bronzer is completeley water soluble therefore it will not stain your nails-just make sure you put vaseline on your nails before entering as you would normally.
Congrats and hope your big day turns out wonderful
no no no no no oh man no do not mystic tan if you mystic tan you will look orange on you wedding and trust me i dont think you want that and for the spots it will make them darker just go have a great wedding and everyone will have their eyes on how great you look in the dress the tan wont matter.
if you do tan, do it cautiously!! you don't want to end up looking orange. if you've already been tanning for two weeks it seems as though you already have some color. don't overdo it, especially since your white dress is likely to make you look even darker than you really are. better to look natural and pale than like that overly tanned weirdo george costanza dated on seinfeld...
I would use sunless lotion instead of mystic tan. no matter how hard you try it will still get your nails both feet and hands and you will get dscoloration on your elbows heels and knees.
it wont even out the tan it will make the tan spots darker and it mite mess up you're nails. i would try the lotion that has a little bit of sunless tanner in it that will work the best
DO NOT do mystic tanning! its horrible! even the best places will make you look fake - and sometimes it will wear off unevenly orrr they will miss spots and people can tell your tan is really fake ...
You might try looking up a spa in your area that does the spray tan application by hand. They are usually better at making sure you are evenly covered. Put lotion on your nails, so no color sticks to them. I would talk with someone at tanning location about your friend.....depending on what the spots are they can tell you if it will color funny or not. If they are breakouts, she shouldn't do it, as it will turn them darker. Ask to be sure though. Good luck %26amp; congrats on your upcoming big day!
What type of married man would take another women out to dinner and sleep with her?
Come home the next morning tired and lied and said he was not feeling good.What type of married man would take another women out to dinner and sleep with her?
The type that is a cheating liar would take a woman out to dinner, sleep with her and in the morning tell his wife he is tired and not feeling well.What type of married man would take another women out to dinner and sleep with her?
sadly a man that is a surplus in the world the same man that if his wife was cheating he be pissed at the world. he should have never got married. he is disrespecting himself his family and wife. the next time he does this throw a message to his wife to be where ever he is with the other woman so she can see for herself
If you are married to him this is the type of man that you would divorce because he is not right. This means that he has issues that are out of control does not believe in commitment and has some real messed up morals and no respect for a wife.
A type that does not realize that the vows he took were sacred. He does not realize that God frowns on infidelity among other things. If this is your situation I can only hope that you find strength in God's will and act accordingly.
The type i am looking for--lol just kidding. He is a no good jerk and you need to kick his *** to the curb!
About 99% of married men, sorry
A cheating dumb one that deserves to be handed divorce papers.
The kind who should soon be a divorced man.
A man that is not satisfied with his wife.
an unhappy married man?
That would be ';An Average man';
Um, a cheating man would.
.......the kind of man that is worth me spending time in jail for killing
a man with no morals
A stupid man.
i think the correct term is ******* asshole
a cheating lying jack ***
The type that is a cheating liar would take a woman out to dinner, sleep with her and in the morning tell his wife he is tired and not feeling well.What type of married man would take another women out to dinner and sleep with her?
sadly a man that is a surplus in the world the same man that if his wife was cheating he be pissed at the world. he should have never got married. he is disrespecting himself his family and wife. the next time he does this throw a message to his wife to be where ever he is with the other woman so she can see for herself
If you are married to him this is the type of man that you would divorce because he is not right. This means that he has issues that are out of control does not believe in commitment and has some real messed up morals and no respect for a wife.
A type that does not realize that the vows he took were sacred. He does not realize that God frowns on infidelity among other things. If this is your situation I can only hope that you find strength in God's will and act accordingly.
The type i am looking for--lol just kidding. He is a no good jerk and you need to kick his *** to the curb!
About 99% of married men, sorry
A cheating dumb one that deserves to be handed divorce papers.
The kind who should soon be a divorced man.
A man that is not satisfied with his wife.
an unhappy married man?
That would be ';An Average man';
Um, a cheating man would.
.......the kind of man that is worth me spending time in jail for killing
a man with no morals
A stupid man.
i think the correct term is ******* asshole
a cheating lying jack ***
Are there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
What's your overall experience like? Are you happy? How did you two meet?Are there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
My husband is half Asian and half Caucasian. I don't think it's any different to any other couple, we met at university and we're happy.Are there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
it doesn't really matter nowadays.....inter-racial marriage has been going on for quite sometime.
i think that if a couple respects each other's background and can get around the cultural differences of each race then there really is no problem. best to discuss these before planning the wedding, especially since Asians (like myself) are rich in traditions
My husband is half Asian and half Caucasian. I don't think it's any different to any other couple, we met at university and we're happy.Are there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
it doesn't really matter nowadays.....inter-racial marriage has been going on for quite sometime.
i think that if a couple respects each other's background and can get around the cultural differences of each race then there really is no problem. best to discuss these before planning the wedding, especially since Asians (like myself) are rich in traditions
Why do Christians say it is so bad to have intercourse before you are married?
I don't get it. It's just a physical tool of pleasure and not something that will doom you forever. In %26amp; Out and done. What exactly is the reason?
I've had my fair share of friends with benefits and one-night deals. I still am a very happy man and so far lucifer hasn't pulled me down into the pits of hell yet.Why do Christians say it is so bad to have intercourse before you are married?
1. God's word says so.
2. Unwanted pregnancies. Many of these end in abortion.
3. Single parent families.
4. Sexually transmitted diseases.
5. When (or if) you finally get married, there will always be the mental comparison between your spouse and all of the others you have had sex with. It weakens the unique bond of the marriage relationship.
6. It creates a closeness with others with whom you have no intention of maintaining a lasting relationship. It hurts other people.
7. It turns relationships into just a physical thing. It focuses on lust instead of love. You desire the body, but show little care for the person.
8. It reduces men to act like mere animals with no self control, and just acting on physical desires.
Why do Christians say it is so bad to have intercourse before you are married?
It is because you become one with the person, so if they have problems they can be passed onto you. It can be spiritual, emotional, physical and mental. You may not have felt the effects of your sexual encounters yet, but it will catch up with you.
When you are a Christian your body is a holy temple. And you don't just go around lettin everybody in. Sex is something for married couples only. It's a spiritual thing as well as a fleshly thing.
If, for you, sex is ';In %26amp; Out and done'; I can see why you have a problem with it lol.
j/k
May I ask you, when you were a kid, why didn't you open all your Christmas presents on December 10? I mean, why wait?
Same reason :)
Its just their silly Christian superstition get used to it, they make up 80% of the population.
in, out and done?...Please remind me never to date you.
I've had my fair share of friends with benefits and one-night deals. I still am a very happy man and so far lucifer hasn't pulled me down into the pits of hell yet.Why do Christians say it is so bad to have intercourse before you are married?
1. God's word says so.
2. Unwanted pregnancies. Many of these end in abortion.
3. Single parent families.
4. Sexually transmitted diseases.
5. When (or if) you finally get married, there will always be the mental comparison between your spouse and all of the others you have had sex with. It weakens the unique bond of the marriage relationship.
6. It creates a closeness with others with whom you have no intention of maintaining a lasting relationship. It hurts other people.
7. It turns relationships into just a physical thing. It focuses on lust instead of love. You desire the body, but show little care for the person.
8. It reduces men to act like mere animals with no self control, and just acting on physical desires.
Why do Christians say it is so bad to have intercourse before you are married?
It is because you become one with the person, so if they have problems they can be passed onto you. It can be spiritual, emotional, physical and mental. You may not have felt the effects of your sexual encounters yet, but it will catch up with you.
When you are a Christian your body is a holy temple. And you don't just go around lettin everybody in. Sex is something for married couples only. It's a spiritual thing as well as a fleshly thing.
If, for you, sex is ';In %26amp; Out and done'; I can see why you have a problem with it lol.
j/k
May I ask you, when you were a kid, why didn't you open all your Christmas presents on December 10? I mean, why wait?
Same reason :)
Its just their silly Christian superstition get used to it, they make up 80% of the population.
in, out and done?...Please remind me never to date you.
What percentage of californians can't get married because they're gay?
I have to write a two page essay on the topic of legalizing same-sex marriage. For my introduction grabber, I'd like to use the percentage of californians who can't get married because of Prop 8.
I really can't seem to find it anywhere.
Can someone please help me?What percentage of californians can't get married because they're gay?
It is generally accepted that about ten percent of any given population is gay. It's not safe to assume that all of them want to get married, but in a sense they are all affected by the ban.What percentage of californians can't get married because they're gay?
There are 18,000 couples(?) that are affected by Prop 8. It's either couples or people, I'm not sure, but the number should be correct.
Edit: It is couples. I guess you'd divide that by California's population to get the percentage.
18,000/33,871,648 = 5%
I don't know. Sorry.
But I cried because of Prop 8. The only light is that they're not nullifying current gay marriages like they did to Rosie.
100% can't get married to the same sex. .. any Californian gay or not is free to marry the opposite sex, therefore nobody is being discriminated against.
I don't know either but I also cried over prop 8 and I am 16 no where near marriage lol! It was a bitter sweet day! Barack Obama winning :) Prop 8 passing :(
0% cuz they passed that law so that same sex can get married
You should mention how much money was wasted on by people supporting Prop 8, $80 million. Can you believe that? Yet they complain they cant pay their bills, and their losing their homes. Idiots.
Whitney's a hardcore lesbian.
Prop 8 is unconstitutional!
not to be wise but pretty sure that would be 100% about now cp in ct
no sure but alot
thank god for prop 8. now you gays cant get married ahahahah
I really can't seem to find it anywhere.
Can someone please help me?What percentage of californians can't get married because they're gay?
It is generally accepted that about ten percent of any given population is gay. It's not safe to assume that all of them want to get married, but in a sense they are all affected by the ban.What percentage of californians can't get married because they're gay?
There are 18,000 couples(?) that are affected by Prop 8. It's either couples or people, I'm not sure, but the number should be correct.
Edit: It is couples. I guess you'd divide that by California's population to get the percentage.
18,000/33,871,648 = 5%
I don't know. Sorry.
But I cried because of Prop 8. The only light is that they're not nullifying current gay marriages like they did to Rosie.
100% can't get married to the same sex. .. any Californian gay or not is free to marry the opposite sex, therefore nobody is being discriminated against.
I don't know either but I also cried over prop 8 and I am 16 no where near marriage lol! It was a bitter sweet day! Barack Obama winning :) Prop 8 passing :(
0% cuz they passed that law so that same sex can get married
You should mention how much money was wasted on by people supporting Prop 8, $80 million. Can you believe that? Yet they complain they cant pay their bills, and their losing their homes. Idiots.
Whitney's a hardcore lesbian.
Prop 8 is unconstitutional!
not to be wise but pretty sure that would be 100% about now cp in ct
no sure but alot
thank god for prop 8. now you gays cant get married ahahahah
If a couple have not become engage, married or made a civil contract?
If a couple have not become engage, married or made a civil contract, why then should it be considered a monogamous relationship? Just because one is dating even sexual it does not mean you have made a contract to be only with that person so why do some people consider if you are dating you cannot see other people?If a couple have not become engage, married or made a civil contract?
This sort of thinking is exactly why I don't date, not in this day and age...
If I am giving you my full and exclusive attentions, I expect as much in return; furthermore, the dating process is really in essence, at least as practiced by me, a mode of scouting a potential lifelong mate. Yes, the agreement is not yet made; but I'll be as unhappy at your toying with me, abusing my love and wasting my time as would anyone who had believed a great and lasting alliance was in the works.
The commitment may not be formally made, but it's presumed to be the ultimate intent. Not to mention marriage, engagement, etc. is I believe by most, regarded as just a little more than a legal contract for sexual obligation...If a couple have not become engage, married or made a civil contract?
Because most women that you date, whether or not you've had relations together, will kill, maim or dismember you if they even THINK you might have looked at another woman, or had innocent passing thoughts about one.
We males learned that key to survival very early on. Hence, the continuation of the species.......
Well, although I have heard of people having ';open'; or ';free'; relationships (whereby they are allowed to see other people as well), it really depends on what kind of relationship you and your partner are comfortable with.
If one had wanted a relationship whereby they can see other people, they should make it clear to the other partner before starting a relationship. Why? Because it is uncommon and also because it might be considered ';cheating';. Out of respect, one should make things clear beforehand. This will also prevent any messy arguments in the coming future.
Personally, if either one partner in the relationship disagrees or is not comfortable with such a plan, it is best not to continue the relationship. Unless of course one is willing to compromise. It is best when both partners respect each others decisions, are comfortable with it and agree to it. Isn't it uncommon to be dating more than one person unless you are a ';player';? So, bear in mind that your partner has that thought; that relationships involve mainly only 2 and not more. He/She would want to be your only one. Not ';sharing'; you with others.
Edit::
response to your update..
wow!
awesome! i hate cheaters by the way.. haha.. that's my own thing.. anyway... back to your question..
hmm.. tough question but hey...
would you rather play around or start committing to a boy/girlfriend and learn about relationships young?
also... to be serious in a relationship is a good way to move on to an engagement, marriage.. etc
would you rather be engaged to someone who has been seeing other people all the while or would you rather take your pick on someone who has shown commitment efforts?
without being serious and focussed on that relationship, how can one move to the next step?
and well... if you want to be dating different people at once, might as well not have any boy/girlfriends right?
those kinds of relationships are the ones many would want as exclusive. if you're not keen on that, might as well just stick to friends and not have that ';status'; of boyfriend or girlfriend.
because i don't see any difference between dating more than one person and having more than one friend.
This sort of thinking is exactly why I don't date, not in this day and age...
If I am giving you my full and exclusive attentions, I expect as much in return; furthermore, the dating process is really in essence, at least as practiced by me, a mode of scouting a potential lifelong mate. Yes, the agreement is not yet made; but I'll be as unhappy at your toying with me, abusing my love and wasting my time as would anyone who had believed a great and lasting alliance was in the works.
The commitment may not be formally made, but it's presumed to be the ultimate intent. Not to mention marriage, engagement, etc. is I believe by most, regarded as just a little more than a legal contract for sexual obligation...If a couple have not become engage, married or made a civil contract?
Because most women that you date, whether or not you've had relations together, will kill, maim or dismember you if they even THINK you might have looked at another woman, or had innocent passing thoughts about one.
We males learned that key to survival very early on. Hence, the continuation of the species.......
Well, although I have heard of people having ';open'; or ';free'; relationships (whereby they are allowed to see other people as well), it really depends on what kind of relationship you and your partner are comfortable with.
If one had wanted a relationship whereby they can see other people, they should make it clear to the other partner before starting a relationship. Why? Because it is uncommon and also because it might be considered ';cheating';. Out of respect, one should make things clear beforehand. This will also prevent any messy arguments in the coming future.
Personally, if either one partner in the relationship disagrees or is not comfortable with such a plan, it is best not to continue the relationship. Unless of course one is willing to compromise. It is best when both partners respect each others decisions, are comfortable with it and agree to it. Isn't it uncommon to be dating more than one person unless you are a ';player';? So, bear in mind that your partner has that thought; that relationships involve mainly only 2 and not more. He/She would want to be your only one. Not ';sharing'; you with others.
Edit::
response to your update..
wow!
awesome! i hate cheaters by the way.. haha.. that's my own thing.. anyway... back to your question..
hmm.. tough question but hey...
would you rather play around or start committing to a boy/girlfriend and learn about relationships young?
also... to be serious in a relationship is a good way to move on to an engagement, marriage.. etc
would you rather be engaged to someone who has been seeing other people all the while or would you rather take your pick on someone who has shown commitment efforts?
without being serious and focussed on that relationship, how can one move to the next step?
and well... if you want to be dating different people at once, might as well not have any boy/girlfriends right?
those kinds of relationships are the ones many would want as exclusive. if you're not keen on that, might as well just stick to friends and not have that ';status'; of boyfriend or girlfriend.
because i don't see any difference between dating more than one person and having more than one friend.
I have an older brother who is married and children. I cant think of what to get him for Christmas this year.?
I want to get him something that he and his family can enjoy but there is a $25 limit. Any ideas?I have an older brother who is married and children. I cant think of what to get him for Christmas this year.?
Gift Certificates are best, Dinner at a nice restaurant, and offer Babysitting if you can.
Pizza Hut Gift Certificate for the whole family.
We have done
15.00 for Pizza Hut and
15.00 for a AMC theatres or Blockbuster
That is dinner and movie for $30.00
you can do
If they have 5 people you can do $5.00 Blockbuster cards for everyone. Then kids can get movies or games, or parents can pool them together and buy a couple movies, or do a
$25.00 Pizza Card or $25.00 Blockbuster card.
15.00 for Pizza Hut
10.00 for Blockbuster for $25.00I have an older brother who is married and children. I cant think of what to get him for Christmas this year.?
Are there fun things to go do nearby that he might like to do with the family? For example last year, I gave my two little cousins admission gift cards for the children's Science Center nearby. We made a day of it and we all had a BLAST.
Homemade brownies for the whole family.
How about a gas station gift certificate or card for $25?cosmetics company
Gift Certificates are best, Dinner at a nice restaurant, and offer Babysitting if you can.
Pizza Hut Gift Certificate for the whole family.
We have done
15.00 for Pizza Hut and
15.00 for a AMC theatres or Blockbuster
That is dinner and movie for $30.00
you can do
If they have 5 people you can do $5.00 Blockbuster cards for everyone. Then kids can get movies or games, or parents can pool them together and buy a couple movies, or do a
$25.00 Pizza Card or $25.00 Blockbuster card.
15.00 for Pizza Hut
10.00 for Blockbuster for $25.00I have an older brother who is married and children. I cant think of what to get him for Christmas this year.?
Are there fun things to go do nearby that he might like to do with the family? For example last year, I gave my two little cousins admission gift cards for the children's Science Center nearby. We made a day of it and we all had a BLAST.
Homemade brownies for the whole family.
How about a gas station gift certificate or card for $25?
Married in India, have proof but no certificate, how can we get marriage certificate in US?
Married in India, have proof photos and all, but not the certificate, how can we get marriage certificate in US?Married in India, have proof but no certificate, how can we get marriage certificate in US?
It varies from state to state. Your best bet is to look online for your municipality, or go down to the courthouse with the proof that you have, as well as all of your proof of identity.Married in India, have proof but no certificate, how can we get marriage certificate in US?
write the court that has jurisdiction and has the files of your LEGAL (not religious) marriage in india and have them send certified copies.
if you had a RELIGIOUS ceremony you're not married.
wait, what? are you in the US or India? either way, you will have to contact the license agency of the region where you got married and have a copy sent. Or just go to vegas and do it again!
My guess would be to go down to the local county offices or check online to see if you can take care of it on your own, so you don't waste time, gas, etc.
**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED ****
Talk to a minister or a judge. They can have a certificate made up for you easy
Why not get remarried in the US. That would be the easiest thing.
go to a local state magistate or county courthouse and pay like 50 dollars and youll get it the same dya no problem
A judge at the courthouse can help you.
I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED
It varies from state to state. Your best bet is to look online for your municipality, or go down to the courthouse with the proof that you have, as well as all of your proof of identity.Married in India, have proof but no certificate, how can we get marriage certificate in US?
write the court that has jurisdiction and has the files of your LEGAL (not religious) marriage in india and have them send certified copies.
if you had a RELIGIOUS ceremony you're not married.
wait, what? are you in the US or India? either way, you will have to contact the license agency of the region where you got married and have a copy sent. Or just go to vegas and do it again!
My guess would be to go down to the local county offices or check online to see if you can take care of it on your own, so you don't waste time, gas, etc.
**** I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED ****
Talk to a minister or a judge. They can have a certificate made up for you easy
Why not get remarried in the US. That would be the easiest thing.
go to a local state magistate or county courthouse and pay like 50 dollars and youll get it the same dya no problem
A judge at the courthouse can help you.
I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED
What would make a married woman cheat with a married man for ten years?
Ten years is a long, long time for an affair. I really don't know how such a relationship could be kept a secret for all those years.
I would say that they stayed with it because they were able to get what they wanted from both their marriages and from each other. They had the best of both worlds. They had the stability of their marriage, possibly children, and they could live a life of a happy family. And with the affair they had passion, excitement and sex that was probably really amazing.
They would probably realize they were being selfish but it was too good to give it up. Their bond probably got very close over the years.
Now that I think about it their relationship could have been covered up as ';family friends'; where married couples are friends with other couples. It is very sad as so many people end up getting hurt over this.What would make a married woman cheat with a married man for ten years?
She may deeply resent her husband and has been punishing him (getting away with it). Also, she is craving the attention from the other guy. She gets off on secrets and excitement. She may pretend to love one or the other, but she loves herself more than anything.What would make a married woman cheat with a married man for ten years?
i'm guessing she must have marital problems and the guy is a man whore or something. maybe both of them have kids and neither are happy with their sex lives with their spouses. i hate cheating.
If they are not the married couple, bad choices and lack of morals would be what excuses they could use....
If they are the married couple, you question is strange....
One spouse being gone alot . Too much routine. Boredom. You can always love them, but you need something every once in awhile.
About 10% of the women out there jump the fence regularly and really don't know why they do it. Its just the way they are.
Mental insanity
Coward
Egoism (want this and that)
Stupidity
Weak personality
,,, and so on..
A distinct lack of character.
Selfishness.
(This is the reason why anyone does anything that satisfies only themselves.)
Opportunity.
a women, all women are cheaters, they will do you wrong at the drop of a hat or should I say pants
stupidity.
bad choice, satan and temptation.
they are not really married?
cuz y not?
I would say that they stayed with it because they were able to get what they wanted from both their marriages and from each other. They had the best of both worlds. They had the stability of their marriage, possibly children, and they could live a life of a happy family. And with the affair they had passion, excitement and sex that was probably really amazing.
They would probably realize they were being selfish but it was too good to give it up. Their bond probably got very close over the years.
Now that I think about it their relationship could have been covered up as ';family friends'; where married couples are friends with other couples. It is very sad as so many people end up getting hurt over this.What would make a married woman cheat with a married man for ten years?
She may deeply resent her husband and has been punishing him (getting away with it). Also, she is craving the attention from the other guy. She gets off on secrets and excitement. She may pretend to love one or the other, but she loves herself more than anything.What would make a married woman cheat with a married man for ten years?
i'm guessing she must have marital problems and the guy is a man whore or something. maybe both of them have kids and neither are happy with their sex lives with their spouses. i hate cheating.
If they are not the married couple, bad choices and lack of morals would be what excuses they could use....
If they are the married couple, you question is strange....
One spouse being gone alot . Too much routine. Boredom. You can always love them, but you need something every once in awhile.
About 10% of the women out there jump the fence regularly and really don't know why they do it. Its just the way they are.
Mental insanity
Coward
Egoism (want this and that)
Stupidity
Weak personality
,,, and so on..
A distinct lack of character.
Selfishness.
(This is the reason why anyone does anything that satisfies only themselves.)
Opportunity.
a women, all women are cheaters, they will do you wrong at the drop of a hat or should I say pants
stupidity.
bad choice, satan and temptation.
they are not really married?
cuz y not?
What is the cheapest month to get married between May and October?
I'm getting married in 2008 and I would like a summer wedding but I don't have tons of money to throw away on a wedding. Any help will be much appreciated. Thanks!What is the cheapest month to get married between May and October?
Here is the most popular to the least
1) June - Traditionally the most popular month for marriage.
2) September
3) August
4) May
5) October
6) July
7) April
8) November
9) December
10) March
11) February
12) January - Dead last.
Here are the percentages of weddings during each month
January 4.7%
February 7.0%
March 6.1%
April 7.4%
May 9.8%
June 10.8%
July 9.7%
August 10.2%
September 9.6%
October 9.4%
November 7.4%
December 7.8%
Depends on where you live, too. In a sunny place like California, it's busy now.
Remember too, you'll pay more for 7pm on a Saturday, and near ANY holiday.What is the cheapest month to get married between May and October?
September is a good month to get married in or April.
sweetie, thoes are the busiest times for a wedding!!! September- October would be a little cheaper than May and especially June
May through October are the most busy months! November, Jan, Feb, %26amp; March are going to be much much cheapier.
any month can be cheap,it depends on what you want and stuff like that..if you want a huge wedding it's gonna cost..they say the one way to cut the expense down is to get married on a friday,early in the day for the ceremony,try and make as some things yourself,favors,table centerpieces,bouquets and such
try a friday evening wedding reception, you'll save at least $15 a plate
Well it depends on what part of the country you are living. In the Northeast September and October are just as big as June and July. Early May is the month I would go for. Good Luck!
Alright I dont know if you have thought about this BUT if you do a December wedding....decorations are sooo easy and affordable and you and your family prolly already have them....I just went to a wedding where in the hall they just had chirstmas trees.all diff sizes with lights...if looked sooo pretty! They also did a hearty meal, salad soup and chili and chocolate fountain, cake..*I would suggest more to eat than what they had though* ALSO the church is prolly already decorated for Christmas....all they did was add candles! Good luck
Depends what part of the country you are in. Here in NY/NJ June and October are the most popular months. From my experience, July and August are just slightly cheaper (and I mean JUST slightly, the per plate cost was only 10 dollars less). I am getting massive savings by getting married on a Friday instead of Saturday. The reception venue charged $245 a person for a Saturday night affair and $145 for a Friday night. I'm getting every single menu item and # of courses that a Saturday would have too. Just a thought.
those are all months in the busy season so it won't make much difference. The TYPE of wedding makes much more difference then the season anyway.
Here is the most popular to the least
1) June - Traditionally the most popular month for marriage.
2) September
3) August
4) May
5) October
6) July
7) April
8) November
9) December
10) March
11) February
12) January - Dead last.
Here are the percentages of weddings during each month
January 4.7%
February 7.0%
March 6.1%
April 7.4%
May 9.8%
June 10.8%
July 9.7%
August 10.2%
September 9.6%
October 9.4%
November 7.4%
December 7.8%
Depends on where you live, too. In a sunny place like California, it's busy now.
Remember too, you'll pay more for 7pm on a Saturday, and near ANY holiday.What is the cheapest month to get married between May and October?
September is a good month to get married in or April.
sweetie, thoes are the busiest times for a wedding!!! September- October would be a little cheaper than May and especially June
May through October are the most busy months! November, Jan, Feb, %26amp; March are going to be much much cheapier.
any month can be cheap,it depends on what you want and stuff like that..if you want a huge wedding it's gonna cost..they say the one way to cut the expense down is to get married on a friday,early in the day for the ceremony,try and make as some things yourself,favors,table centerpieces,bouquets and such
try a friday evening wedding reception, you'll save at least $15 a plate
Well it depends on what part of the country you are living. In the Northeast September and October are just as big as June and July. Early May is the month I would go for. Good Luck!
Alright I dont know if you have thought about this BUT if you do a December wedding....decorations are sooo easy and affordable and you and your family prolly already have them....I just went to a wedding where in the hall they just had chirstmas trees.all diff sizes with lights...if looked sooo pretty! They also did a hearty meal, salad soup and chili and chocolate fountain, cake..*I would suggest more to eat than what they had though* ALSO the church is prolly already decorated for Christmas....all they did was add candles! Good luck
Depends what part of the country you are in. Here in NY/NJ June and October are the most popular months. From my experience, July and August are just slightly cheaper (and I mean JUST slightly, the per plate cost was only 10 dollars less). I am getting massive savings by getting married on a Friday instead of Saturday. The reception venue charged $245 a person for a Saturday night affair and $145 for a Friday night. I'm getting every single menu item and # of courses that a Saturday would have too. Just a thought.
those are all months in the busy season so it won't make much difference. The TYPE of wedding makes much more difference then the season anyway.
Are there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
What's your overall experience like? Are you happy? How did you two meet?Are there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
u like a asian dude dontcha. well anything can work out so goforitAre there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
well...my caucasian teacher is married to an asian man. they seem to be happy, and they have a child too ^.^
but in the area i live in it's more common to see a caucasian man with an asian woman.
I know plenty. Two of my friends are expecting their first baby. He's Chinese, she's mostly German. Its hard for them at times because his family is traditional, but its worth it for them.
yes
u like a asian dude dontcha. well anything can work out so goforitAre there any Caucasian women out there married to Asian men?
well...my caucasian teacher is married to an asian man. they seem to be happy, and they have a child too ^.^
but in the area i live in it's more common to see a caucasian man with an asian woman.
I know plenty. Two of my friends are expecting their first baby. He's Chinese, she's mostly German. Its hard for them at times because his family is traditional, but its worth it for them.
yes
Why are people in this world so stupid and dont have sex b4 there married?
I mean people should live a little bit. I mean I am not sayin **** every guy you meet, like me, but It is sad that people waste their teen years, not having sex. I mean what do you do all weekend, obviously you dont drink or party, so do you just stay home? I mean live life on the edge for a change.Why are people in this world so stupid and dont have sex b4 there married?
True that.Why are people in this world so stupid and dont have sex b4 there married?
I didn't have sex as a teenager and I don't feel like I wasted my teen years. Let's see...STDs, unwanted pregnancy, treating myself like a piece of meat that any guy could sample...hmmm, I don't think I missed out on anything.
I'm now married and I have zero regrets that I didn't have any prior sexual partners. My husband thinks its special and wonderful that no one else has had that level of intimacy with me.
What did I do weekends? I had a lot of fun spending time with friends. Sex isn't the only fun to be had.
Is drinking really so entertaining? I'm in agreement on the sex thing...If only I could live that life... but drinking??
I drank too much wine yesterday, and all it did for me was cause me to get flustered and confused playing cards then wake up with a headache.
Drinking = Not so much fun
True that.Why are people in this world so stupid and dont have sex b4 there married?
I didn't have sex as a teenager and I don't feel like I wasted my teen years. Let's see...STDs, unwanted pregnancy, treating myself like a piece of meat that any guy could sample...hmmm, I don't think I missed out on anything.
I'm now married and I have zero regrets that I didn't have any prior sexual partners. My husband thinks its special and wonderful that no one else has had that level of intimacy with me.
What did I do weekends? I had a lot of fun spending time with friends. Sex isn't the only fun to be had.
Is drinking really so entertaining? I'm in agreement on the sex thing...If only I could live that life... but drinking??
I drank too much wine yesterday, and all it did for me was cause me to get flustered and confused playing cards then wake up with a headache.
Drinking = Not so much fun
Is there any possibility to adopt a child without getting married?
I am a male. I live in India. For some reason i don't want to get married. I am 29 years old.
My friends told me that it is not possible by law to adopt a child without getting married. But i want to adopt a child without getting married or by getting married and get divorced immediately after adopting a child. Anybody who wants to suggest me a option pls reply me in this website or ring me in this no 9944778853.
Please be genuine and serious, dont cheat me
CategoryIs there any possibility to adopt a child without getting married?
Anyone can adopt a child you just have to prove that you could take care of a child and be just as good as a father if you were to be married. It will deff. be alot harder but nothing is impossible....
good luckIs there any possibility to adopt a child without getting married?
They do look for happy married couples mostly, they want to make sure that the child will be raised in a loving family. However, if your not married and want to adopt, and make a lot of money, over enough to support the both of you, then I don't see why they wouldn't give you a shot. Call some adoption agencies and ask questions, they should help you out with how to qualify for adoptions and if you are elgible now.
Why should a child grow up without a mom? If you want to play this game to adopt a child, you might not be able to keep custody of the child after the divorce. In my opinion you are not suitable to be a parent. A parent is giving %26amp; wants the best interest for his child. And the best interest for a child is to have a stable family.
I'm sorry. I don't know the laws in India. But I do know that in America you can adopt a child no matter what your marital status is or your sexuality or anything like that.
Hey! you can definitely adopt! I know because 1. I am an Indian and 2. because I have done my reseacrh on this topic (will be adopting our child this year end)...
check out the link below, esp point 29.
Come to the UK, live here and then adopt. It's PC here to put gays, single women, single men and astheists at the top for adopting. Straight hectorasexuel , christian couples are at the bottom of the list.
move to the united states, but if that's the law, then that's what goes, go to a country that allows it.
yes you can adopt without getting married but you need to explain yourself very well how are you going to take care of your child. think abt carefully
Yes but don't know how?????????????
try private adoption
What are your plans for this child?
save yourself get a dog
Well the needs to adopt a child is different in every country and in every adoption agency, so I suggest to look up some local adoption places (or where ever you would like to adopt from) and see if they have any rules for adopting the orphans under their care.
I suggest you to not get married and then get divorced right after because,I'm not sure about India but, here in America you have to be checked up on every how many months to make sure everything is okay. Example: The child is healthy, and the environment is safe. Plus, if you get married and then divorce her (the fake mom/wife) name would be on the papers and you won't have full custody. Again this is in America and not so sure if it's the same for India.
Also,you won't want to confuse the child, like make him/her think 'hey wasn't there supposed to be two of you guys?' and in the future you would want to not have to worry about dealing with him/her thinking that his/her adoption mother didn't want him/her.
So,I'm sure there a center somewhere where they don't have a rule about being married or not,you'll just have to find one. Another thing,maybe not a good idea to put your # online, and not because of the creeps but since it's an international site you could be getting calls from like Japan and have to deal with the HUGE costs of international callingcosmetics company
My friends told me that it is not possible by law to adopt a child without getting married. But i want to adopt a child without getting married or by getting married and get divorced immediately after adopting a child. Anybody who wants to suggest me a option pls reply me in this website or ring me in this no 9944778853.
Please be genuine and serious, dont cheat me
CategoryIs there any possibility to adopt a child without getting married?
Anyone can adopt a child you just have to prove that you could take care of a child and be just as good as a father if you were to be married. It will deff. be alot harder but nothing is impossible....
good luckIs there any possibility to adopt a child without getting married?
They do look for happy married couples mostly, they want to make sure that the child will be raised in a loving family. However, if your not married and want to adopt, and make a lot of money, over enough to support the both of you, then I don't see why they wouldn't give you a shot. Call some adoption agencies and ask questions, they should help you out with how to qualify for adoptions and if you are elgible now.
Why should a child grow up without a mom? If you want to play this game to adopt a child, you might not be able to keep custody of the child after the divorce. In my opinion you are not suitable to be a parent. A parent is giving %26amp; wants the best interest for his child. And the best interest for a child is to have a stable family.
I'm sorry. I don't know the laws in India. But I do know that in America you can adopt a child no matter what your marital status is or your sexuality or anything like that.
Hey! you can definitely adopt! I know because 1. I am an Indian and 2. because I have done my reseacrh on this topic (will be adopting our child this year end)...
check out the link below, esp point 29.
Come to the UK, live here and then adopt. It's PC here to put gays, single women, single men and astheists at the top for adopting. Straight hectorasexuel , christian couples are at the bottom of the list.
move to the united states, but if that's the law, then that's what goes, go to a country that allows it.
yes you can adopt without getting married but you need to explain yourself very well how are you going to take care of your child. think abt carefully
Yes but don't know how?????????????
try private adoption
What are your plans for this child?
save yourself get a dog
Well the needs to adopt a child is different in every country and in every adoption agency, so I suggest to look up some local adoption places (or where ever you would like to adopt from) and see if they have any rules for adopting the orphans under their care.
I suggest you to not get married and then get divorced right after because,I'm not sure about India but, here in America you have to be checked up on every how many months to make sure everything is okay. Example: The child is healthy, and the environment is safe. Plus, if you get married and then divorce her (the fake mom/wife) name would be on the papers and you won't have full custody. Again this is in America and not so sure if it's the same for India.
Also,you won't want to confuse the child, like make him/her think 'hey wasn't there supposed to be two of you guys?' and in the future you would want to not have to worry about dealing with him/her thinking that his/her adoption mother didn't want him/her.
So,I'm sure there a center somewhere where they don't have a rule about being married or not,you'll just have to find one. Another thing,maybe not a good idea to put your # online, and not because of the creeps but since it's an international site you could be getting calls from like Japan and have to deal with the HUGE costs of international calling
Tell me the truth, should I make my daughter get married to help my election chances ?
Or should I force the State Police to arrest that little horn dog for statutory rape? I'm really conflicted.Tell me the truth, should I make my daughter get married to help my election chances ?
If this was not so sad of a question it might be ok to give a good answer. Tell me the truth, should I make my daughter get married to help my election chances ?
You have it wrong.
You would have to fire the State Police Head if he refused to arrest Levi.
If she doesn't want us to talk about her family stop bringing her along as the only family member to stand right behind her for rallies.
AND stop leaving the 7 year old to carry the baby around. Honestly, did they ever hear of a snuggli.
You could always do the Barack Obama thing:
Make her get an abortion in the third trimester - 5 minutes before birth.
And if the child survives the abortion, dump him/her in a utility closet until he/she slowly dies over a period of several hours.
How does your candidate/messiah sound NOW?
well sarah, when i am in the thick of things, when things are really tough for me, i like to think ';WWOD';, (what would obama do):
i, a,a, a, a, think that, a, a, a, woman has a, choice, a, a, a this is what hope is about,a,a,a, as my daddy who i didn't know, a, a, a, said, if your daughter's pregnant, a, a, a, the chickens will come home to roost. change is what we, a, a, a, need, not the status quo, a, a, abortion can be, a, a, a, present, present vote, i'm here, a, a, a .yes, this is the thing to, a, a, a do, and bomb pakistan. thank you.
yes, this should clear things up for you sarah, take the step make the change, hope for the future, no status quo. obama 08, 12, 16, 20
you really think that will help her election chances? People like you are going to bash that 17 year old no matter what. That girl can't help it her mom is in the spotlight, just leave the family out of your criticism.
You should go back to chaining that little wench in the smokehouse. You just want young horndog for yourownself.
Leave the families out of it.
I think you should hunt him down from a helicopter.
WTF?
If this was not so sad of a question it might be ok to give a good answer. Tell me the truth, should I make my daughter get married to help my election chances ?
You have it wrong.
You would have to fire the State Police Head if he refused to arrest Levi.
If she doesn't want us to talk about her family stop bringing her along as the only family member to stand right behind her for rallies.
AND stop leaving the 7 year old to carry the baby around. Honestly, did they ever hear of a snuggli.
You could always do the Barack Obama thing:
Make her get an abortion in the third trimester - 5 minutes before birth.
And if the child survives the abortion, dump him/her in a utility closet until he/she slowly dies over a period of several hours.
How does your candidate/messiah sound NOW?
well sarah, when i am in the thick of things, when things are really tough for me, i like to think ';WWOD';, (what would obama do):
i, a,a, a, a, think that, a, a, a, woman has a, choice, a, a, a this is what hope is about,a,a,a, as my daddy who i didn't know, a, a, a, said, if your daughter's pregnant, a, a, a, the chickens will come home to roost. change is what we, a, a, a, need, not the status quo, a, a, abortion can be, a, a, a, present, present vote, i'm here, a, a, a .yes, this is the thing to, a, a, a do, and bomb pakistan. thank you.
yes, this should clear things up for you sarah, take the step make the change, hope for the future, no status quo. obama 08, 12, 16, 20
you really think that will help her election chances? People like you are going to bash that 17 year old no matter what. That girl can't help it her mom is in the spotlight, just leave the family out of your criticism.
You should go back to chaining that little wench in the smokehouse. You just want young horndog for yourownself.
Leave the families out of it.
I think you should hunt him down from a helicopter.
WTF?
Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
That seems to be a wonderful gift from that book. Add: Women, have you ever been instantly attracted to a guy in a sexual way and gave in right away?Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
Whatever tricks you try to use are quickly outweighed by your rancid cat-piss smelling desperation and stupidity.Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
Wow, that's a new one. Well you can use the Law of Attraction for anything you want. Just remember that for every action there is a consequence. Just because you are able to attract something, does not mean you won't have to pay Karma for it later down the road.
So be careful what you wish for, you may just get it.
LOL. Remember, your will would have to be stronger than the person you are trying to attract. No one's will is stronger than mine! Ok, well, maybe not no one, but mine is strong enough to keep those fortress like walls thick and high!!
Anyone who this works on probably wouldn't have been much of a challenge, anyway. It's no medal-inspiring feat to catch the gal with smeared eyeliner, stumbling out of the bar after last call!
You're a jackass if you need to ask this question . . . How bout grow up and try not destroying other people's lives on purpose? You should probably check out a book on KARMA, cause that's what you should be worried about my friend.
I still haven't read that. My dad's cougar gf gave me a DVD copy and it's lying around somewhere.
I have been instantly attracted but I don't think I have ever given in that quickly.
I haven't read the book, but my answer to your question is no (as long as it is legal you can live with yourself afterward) and no.
Um, yeah. If you have to ask then usually the answer is yes. You need to cut the crap and go after woman that are actually attainable!
Any game will not work, because eventually you will be found out, and dumped.
Yes, I saw a man that I knew I had to have. Bought him a drink, and he came home with me and he is still here. That was 4 months ago.
Just use your super psychic powers.
ya ya ya....don't buy that damn book...it doesn't get you anywhere...
We are woman...you never know what your gonna get..
you know it is wrong. what planet you from?
Whatever tricks you try to use are quickly outweighed by your rancid cat-piss smelling desperation and stupidity.Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
Wow, that's a new one. Well you can use the Law of Attraction for anything you want. Just remember that for every action there is a consequence. Just because you are able to attract something, does not mean you won't have to pay Karma for it later down the road.
So be careful what you wish for, you may just get it.
LOL. Remember, your will would have to be stronger than the person you are trying to attract. No one's will is stronger than mine! Ok, well, maybe not no one, but mine is strong enough to keep those fortress like walls thick and high!!
Anyone who this works on probably wouldn't have been much of a challenge, anyway. It's no medal-inspiring feat to catch the gal with smeared eyeliner, stumbling out of the bar after last call!
You're a jackass if you need to ask this question . . . How bout grow up and try not destroying other people's lives on purpose? You should probably check out a book on KARMA, cause that's what you should be worried about my friend.
I still haven't read that. My dad's cougar gf gave me a DVD copy and it's lying around somewhere.
I have been instantly attracted but I don't think I have ever given in that quickly.
I haven't read the book, but my answer to your question is no (as long as it is legal you can live with yourself afterward) and no.
Um, yeah. If you have to ask then usually the answer is yes. You need to cut the crap and go after woman that are actually attainable!
Any game will not work, because eventually you will be found out, and dumped.
Yes, I saw a man that I knew I had to have. Bought him a drink, and he came home with me and he is still here. That was 4 months ago.
Just use your super psychic powers.
ya ya ya....don't buy that damn book...it doesn't get you anywhere...
We are woman...you never know what your gonna get..
you know it is wrong. what planet you from?
Hi Im getting married and I need a place that will rent out a soda fountain?
Does anyone know where I can rent a soda fountain for my wedding. we have to supply the alcohol and Pop so we just need a soda fountain to rent. if know know of a place please let me know. thanksHi Im getting married and I need a place that will rent out a soda fountain?
uh...kinda hard without knowing where you are? or where you'll be having it??
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ohhh.....sorry....don't really have any knowledge for that area...I'm in PA, so I'm only familiar with places around here.
But good luck, I hope that you do find one....maybe just check for party supply rentals?
And congrats on your upcoming marriage!
uh...kinda hard without knowing where you are? or where you'll be having it??
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ohhh.....sorry....don't really have any knowledge for that area...I'm in PA, so I'm only familiar with places around here.
But good luck, I hope that you do find one....maybe just check for party supply rentals?
And congrats on your upcoming marriage!
Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
...because he had to drive every member of his family home. Got nothing for wedding present and went to work the next day?Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
yeah i'd stay married to him, cause i wouldn't have married him if i didn't love him, but i think you knew in advance what was coming didn't you.Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
This has to be a joke!!
The last thing a groom should be doing on his wedding night is driving his guests home!! What the hell!!!
Where was his bride while he was at mommy's house on his wedding night? Sounds like a scene out of a movie or something.
I feel for the bride and if it was me, i would have the marriage annulled. This is a sure sign of their future together. Not worth the hassle, in my opinion!!
I wouldn't have married a man who acts like that in the first place. Someone who doesn't know when to put their foot down and say no has no room in my life.
I wouldn't marry a man who puts others before his wife,unless it's a life %26amp; death situation for his family, especially on his wedding night.
Something tells me that if this indeed happened, you weren't exactly clueless what you were getting into ahead of time.
on your wedding night thats horrible it was suppose to be yalls day and obviously he didnt care
yeah i'd stay married to him, cause i wouldn't have married him if i didn't love him, but i think you knew in advance what was coming didn't you.Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
This has to be a joke!!
The last thing a groom should be doing on his wedding night is driving his guests home!! What the hell!!!
Where was his bride while he was at mommy's house on his wedding night? Sounds like a scene out of a movie or something.
I feel for the bride and if it was me, i would have the marriage annulled. This is a sure sign of their future together. Not worth the hassle, in my opinion!!
I wouldn't have married a man who acts like that in the first place. Someone who doesn't know when to put their foot down and say no has no room in my life.
I wouldn't marry a man who puts others before his wife,unless it's a life %26amp; death situation for his family, especially on his wedding night.
Something tells me that if this indeed happened, you weren't exactly clueless what you were getting into ahead of time.
on your wedding night thats horrible it was suppose to be yalls day and obviously he didnt care
I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
I know there are all kinds of kits and websites but it's a lot to explore and I'm just hoping someone knows from experience what the easiest, fastest, and cheapest way to change my last name is??? Thanks!I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
Get at least 5 copies of your marriage certificate for people who need/want them. Take your original with you to the Social Security office first and get a new SSC. Then take your SSC and marriage cert to the DMV and get a new license. You can call the CC companies or do it on their websites. At the bank you can show your marriage cert, new SSC or DL and that will be changed. There shouldn't be a charge for anything.
Good luck!I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
There is no easy way. Like everyone else said get ready to stand in line. After you get you offical marriage certificate take it to the SS office. Then the DMV, your work (change tax withholding), any utilities or credit in your name must also be changed and they usually ask for a copy of your marriage certificate. Anything that has your name needs to be changed and they will all need proof for back up.
Congratulations!!
All you have to do is get a copy of your filed marriage license, take it to the SS office and apply for a new SS card. Take the SS card to the DMV and get a new DL. Change all of your accounts from there. Easy. Keep a few extra copies of the filed marriage license. Some places require you to have not only your new ID but also your certificate.
Websites? Walk into the local social security office, take a number, and when you're called on, show them your old SS card and your marriage license. Piece of cake.
Go to www.missnowmrs.com, and they will get your name changed for you on all your important documents for a small fee.
go to the court house
Get at least 5 copies of your marriage certificate for people who need/want them. Take your original with you to the Social Security office first and get a new SSC. Then take your SSC and marriage cert to the DMV and get a new license. You can call the CC companies or do it on their websites. At the bank you can show your marriage cert, new SSC or DL and that will be changed. There shouldn't be a charge for anything.
Good luck!I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
There is no easy way. Like everyone else said get ready to stand in line. After you get you offical marriage certificate take it to the SS office. Then the DMV, your work (change tax withholding), any utilities or credit in your name must also be changed and they usually ask for a copy of your marriage certificate. Anything that has your name needs to be changed and they will all need proof for back up.
Congratulations!!
All you have to do is get a copy of your filed marriage license, take it to the SS office and apply for a new SS card. Take the SS card to the DMV and get a new DL. Change all of your accounts from there. Easy. Keep a few extra copies of the filed marriage license. Some places require you to have not only your new ID but also your certificate.
Websites? Walk into the local social security office, take a number, and when you're called on, show them your old SS card and your marriage license. Piece of cake.
Go to www.missnowmrs.com, and they will get your name changed for you on all your important documents for a small fee.
go to the court house
I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
I was already registered from last election but do I need to do anything now that my name has changed?I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
I doubt you can reregister this close to the election in most states (there are a couple of exceptions). When you change your driver's license you can reregister then. If you havent changed your driver's license yet, then you can vote with out problem. If your ID has been changed, you might be asked to fill out an affidavit or vote on a provisional ballot. Different states have different rules, but usually women who have recently married usually can vote with no problem. Bring supporting info just in case. And check with your local county clerk or election board to find out for sure.I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
You may need to reregister under your new name. I moved this year and had to reregister with my new address. If you go to your secretary of state website, it should have all the voter info you need. however, if you do need to reregister, I'm afraid it's too late in most states.
When I had a different last name they still let me vote 2 years ago when I forgot to re-register.
You should register under your correct name, but it's probably too late now. Take an official copy of your marriage certificate along with your ID with you to the polls.
If you have a current I.D. with your maiden name I don't think you have anything to worry about (assuming your maiden name is the name you're registered under).
Still for the next election you should all that sorted out.
If the name on your drivers license doesn't match voter registration records you won't be allowed. Contrary to conservative propoganda they run a pretty tight ship down at the polling place.
Vote under your old name as long as you have an I.D. But, after the election, I'd reregister.
Eventually, yes. For the present, vote using your maiden name.
Keep your name until after the election
Yeah the way things have been going, better safe than sorry.
When I vote they never ask me for an ID.
No, because you have the same social security number. Bring that as a form of ID.
yes.
but it might be too late for this election, depending on what state you're in.cosmetics company
I doubt you can reregister this close to the election in most states (there are a couple of exceptions). When you change your driver's license you can reregister then. If you havent changed your driver's license yet, then you can vote with out problem. If your ID has been changed, you might be asked to fill out an affidavit or vote on a provisional ballot. Different states have different rules, but usually women who have recently married usually can vote with no problem. Bring supporting info just in case. And check with your local county clerk or election board to find out for sure.I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
You may need to reregister under your new name. I moved this year and had to reregister with my new address. If you go to your secretary of state website, it should have all the voter info you need. however, if you do need to reregister, I'm afraid it's too late in most states.
When I had a different last name they still let me vote 2 years ago when I forgot to re-register.
You should register under your correct name, but it's probably too late now. Take an official copy of your marriage certificate along with your ID with you to the polls.
If you have a current I.D. with your maiden name I don't think you have anything to worry about (assuming your maiden name is the name you're registered under).
Still for the next election you should all that sorted out.
If the name on your drivers license doesn't match voter registration records you won't be allowed. Contrary to conservative propoganda they run a pretty tight ship down at the polling place.
Vote under your old name as long as you have an I.D. But, after the election, I'd reregister.
Eventually, yes. For the present, vote using your maiden name.
Keep your name until after the election
Yeah the way things have been going, better safe than sorry.
When I vote they never ask me for an ID.
No, because you have the same social security number. Bring that as a form of ID.
yes.
but it might be too late for this election, depending on what state you're in.
For those who married young did you also have children young?
I am 20 and will be getting married in a few months. I am just curious if a lot of people who marry young have children young as well? I want a baby, but we also want to wait. How long were you married before you had your first child?For those who married young did you also have children young?
I got married at 21 years old. I was 28 when I had my first child. I would recommend waiting. You need time together as husband and wife before you bring a child into the marriage. Good luck!For those who married young did you also have children young?
I'm getting married next year and will be 23. By that stage my partner and I will have been together for 2 years. We can't wait to have kids though. May not have them straight away, but if we do we will be over the moon :) We are always thinking of names as well.
It's up to you and your partner though. If you want to wait then wait, if you don't want to wait then don't wait. But remember as people keep telling me, kids cost a hell of a lot of money, so you want to know that you can support a family before you start one.
hey i was pregnant when got married, had boy 6 months after and I was 20 . Then we waited 4 1/2 years for another one and then soon as she was bron we knew we wanted another so i wanted it over and done with so I was pregnant when she was 4 months. so we Had another girl 14 months after..
I gave birth in April at the age of 30 to our little ';suprise '; to our 4th child another boy.
We wanted kids young so we can travel when older and be ';young';grandparents and have a big family !
I keep asking questions like this too! Im also 20!! Well, I got married when I was 18, but I graduated high school early when I was 16 too, so I felt older than I was!
Anyway, my husband and I want to have a baby sometime next year. We want to try and get pregnant at the start of next year, so I will be around 22 and he will be 24 when the baby is born. So, yeah we are young, but we didnt rush it. We have been together for over 5 years, and married for 2. Im glad we waited a couple years. I figure I need a few more months alone with him, but we won't have a baby here for over a year anyway, so it will be perfect for us. I know people who are younger than me that are on their 2nd or 3rd kids! Its crazy! Im a military wife, so I meet all sorts of people..haha!!
Hope that answers your question!
But, if I were you I would wait at least minimum ONE year to get pregnant. Wait until you at least turn 21 so that you can FULLY feel like an adult, and that way you can't say you were TOO young, and by the time your baby arrives you will have about 2 years of marriage under your belt!
GOOD LUCK!
I was freshly 18 when I married and 19 when my first child was born and 20 when my second child was born. I was divorced at 21.
I would recommend to anyone to wait at least two years before planning a family. That will give you a fair chance on making sure things work out and give you both time to get to know each other as man and wife.
well I am older then you, I am 25. I just got married this year and we are expecting our first child, but we have also been together over 5 and 1/2 years living together minus about a month, we knew each other for awhile before we decided to date, anyways I think it all depends on how much ';alone'; time you guys have had, how well you really know each other. They say marriage is different then just living together, that marriage changes people, for us it changed nothing, except I got to change my last name to my best friends last name and now we are bringing a life into the world and we couldnt be more excited, everyone is different do what you feel is right. good luck
I got married at 17. We planned and were able to conceive my son a year and a half after we married. We were married 2 years and 3 days when our little man was born.
I have no regrets! We are going on 4 years now and baby number 2!
The way I feel is that I got 2 amazing years of falling in love with my husband and then I have had 2 amazing years falling in love with the father of my child!
My husband and I were both 21 when we got married. Now we are 29 and expecting #1. We do not regret waiting at all. We got to travel, get to know each other, go back to school, and even changed careers a time or two.
I was married for 7 months when I got prego.Got married at 21 But we had been together from age 13 and were trying to have a baby for 3 years with no luck. Had our second child 6 months ago at 25 after trying since the first was 6 months old
married at 15 (eloped)... had my son when i was 16... now im 20 and yes we're still married and happy. if i had to do over aain... yes i would have waited to get married and start a family, but hey, i was 15 thats a big jump from 20... good luck!
I got married at 19 we had planned on waiting for 5 or 6 years. 2 weeks later we found out I was 6 weeks pregnant. I am now 22 expecting baby number 2 planned of course. Couldn't be more happy.
Well I got married at 16 %26amp; our 5 year anniversary was 13 days after our son was born.I think we waited long enough %26amp; we have no regrets.
I had my baby when i was 19 and got married when she was 6 months old... now she is 9 months old and im 20. me and my husband have been together sice we were 14 though...
I got married at 18 and now i am pregnant at 21 with out first.
I got married at 21 years old. I was 28 when I had my first child. I would recommend waiting. You need time together as husband and wife before you bring a child into the marriage. Good luck!For those who married young did you also have children young?
I'm getting married next year and will be 23. By that stage my partner and I will have been together for 2 years. We can't wait to have kids though. May not have them straight away, but if we do we will be over the moon :) We are always thinking of names as well.
It's up to you and your partner though. If you want to wait then wait, if you don't want to wait then don't wait. But remember as people keep telling me, kids cost a hell of a lot of money, so you want to know that you can support a family before you start one.
hey i was pregnant when got married, had boy 6 months after and I was 20 . Then we waited 4 1/2 years for another one and then soon as she was bron we knew we wanted another so i wanted it over and done with so I was pregnant when she was 4 months. so we Had another girl 14 months after..
I gave birth in April at the age of 30 to our little ';suprise '; to our 4th child another boy.
We wanted kids young so we can travel when older and be ';young';grandparents and have a big family !
I keep asking questions like this too! Im also 20!! Well, I got married when I was 18, but I graduated high school early when I was 16 too, so I felt older than I was!
Anyway, my husband and I want to have a baby sometime next year. We want to try and get pregnant at the start of next year, so I will be around 22 and he will be 24 when the baby is born. So, yeah we are young, but we didnt rush it. We have been together for over 5 years, and married for 2. Im glad we waited a couple years. I figure I need a few more months alone with him, but we won't have a baby here for over a year anyway, so it will be perfect for us. I know people who are younger than me that are on their 2nd or 3rd kids! Its crazy! Im a military wife, so I meet all sorts of people..haha!!
Hope that answers your question!
But, if I were you I would wait at least minimum ONE year to get pregnant. Wait until you at least turn 21 so that you can FULLY feel like an adult, and that way you can't say you were TOO young, and by the time your baby arrives you will have about 2 years of marriage under your belt!
GOOD LUCK!
I was freshly 18 when I married and 19 when my first child was born and 20 when my second child was born. I was divorced at 21.
I would recommend to anyone to wait at least two years before planning a family. That will give you a fair chance on making sure things work out and give you both time to get to know each other as man and wife.
well I am older then you, I am 25. I just got married this year and we are expecting our first child, but we have also been together over 5 and 1/2 years living together minus about a month, we knew each other for awhile before we decided to date, anyways I think it all depends on how much ';alone'; time you guys have had, how well you really know each other. They say marriage is different then just living together, that marriage changes people, for us it changed nothing, except I got to change my last name to my best friends last name and now we are bringing a life into the world and we couldnt be more excited, everyone is different do what you feel is right. good luck
I got married at 17. We planned and were able to conceive my son a year and a half after we married. We were married 2 years and 3 days when our little man was born.
I have no regrets! We are going on 4 years now and baby number 2!
The way I feel is that I got 2 amazing years of falling in love with my husband and then I have had 2 amazing years falling in love with the father of my child!
My husband and I were both 21 when we got married. Now we are 29 and expecting #1. We do not regret waiting at all. We got to travel, get to know each other, go back to school, and even changed careers a time or two.
I was married for 7 months when I got prego.Got married at 21 But we had been together from age 13 and were trying to have a baby for 3 years with no luck. Had our second child 6 months ago at 25 after trying since the first was 6 months old
married at 15 (eloped)... had my son when i was 16... now im 20 and yes we're still married and happy. if i had to do over aain... yes i would have waited to get married and start a family, but hey, i was 15 thats a big jump from 20... good luck!
I got married at 19 we had planned on waiting for 5 or 6 years. 2 weeks later we found out I was 6 weeks pregnant. I am now 22 expecting baby number 2 planned of course. Couldn't be more happy.
Well I got married at 16 %26amp; our 5 year anniversary was 13 days after our son was born.I think we waited long enough %26amp; we have no regrets.
I had my baby when i was 19 and got married when she was 6 months old... now she is 9 months old and im 20. me and my husband have been together sice we were 14 though...
I got married at 18 and now i am pregnant at 21 with out first.
Whats the state where everyone jokes about people beling interfamily married?
like if i say i have a cousin whos also an uncle tehy would laugh and say wow are you from ____________?
its like oklahoma or kentucky or somewhere south.Whats the state where everyone jokes about people beling interfamily married?
Isn't it Alabama or Mississippi.Whats the state where everyone jokes about people beling interfamily married?
The one most commonly quoted is West Virginia.
However, in the south a lot of ppl make that joke or have that stereotype. ';South'; is Virginia %26amp; states below...
I live in the south, so I can joke about it without taking offense.
For a bit of legal trivia: in some states it is perfectly legal to marry a cousin, so the practice is not seen as odd or socially unacceptable.
Arkansas
Alabama
Mississippi
There are also rednecks up north like in the Dakotas, Nebreska, Montana, Idaho, Kansas, etc...
Usually Kentucky, but I have heard that about other southern states.
i've heard it about kentucky a lot.
its like oklahoma or kentucky or somewhere south.Whats the state where everyone jokes about people beling interfamily married?
Isn't it Alabama or Mississippi.Whats the state where everyone jokes about people beling interfamily married?
The one most commonly quoted is West Virginia.
However, in the south a lot of ppl make that joke or have that stereotype. ';South'; is Virginia %26amp; states below...
I live in the south, so I can joke about it without taking offense.
For a bit of legal trivia: in some states it is perfectly legal to marry a cousin, so the practice is not seen as odd or socially unacceptable.
Arkansas
Alabama
Mississippi
There are also rednecks up north like in the Dakotas, Nebreska, Montana, Idaho, Kansas, etc...
Usually Kentucky, but I have heard that about other southern states.
i've heard it about kentucky a lot.
Does anyone know the specific requirements and procedures for getting married in Maryland?
Any information on location, cost, waiting period, requirements (witness needed, original divorce decree, etc) would be greatly appreciated.Does anyone know the specific requirements and procedures for getting married in Maryland?
go to this site (sorry its so long) then just click on your county and you should have your information
http://search.maryland.gov/search?q=marr鈥?/a>
hope this answers your question! : )Does anyone know the specific requirements and procedures for getting married in Maryland?
You don't need a ';license'; to get married . . . anywhere . . . ever!
Marriage is a RIGHT ordained by GOD. You don't need the government's permission to get married.
Any pastor can join you in marriage, you only need two witnesses and a family Bible to record it in.
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go to this site (sorry its so long) then just click on your county and you should have your information
http://search.maryland.gov/search?q=marr鈥?/a>
hope this answers your question! : )Does anyone know the specific requirements and procedures for getting married in Maryland?
You don't need a ';license'; to get married . . . anywhere . . . ever!
Marriage is a RIGHT ordained by GOD. You don't need the government's permission to get married.
Any pastor can join you in marriage, you only need two witnesses and a family Bible to record it in.
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Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
That seems to be a wonderful gift from that book. Add: Women, have you ever been instantly attracted to a guy in a sexual way and gave in right away?Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
Whatever tricks you try to use are quickly outweighed by your rancid cat-piss smelling desperation and stupidity.Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
Wow, that's a new one. Well you can use the Law of Attraction for anything you want. Just remember that for every action there is a consequence. Just because you are able to attract something, does not mean you won't have to pay Karma for it later down the road.
So be careful what you wish for, you may just get it.
LOL. Remember, your will would have to be stronger than the person you are trying to attract. No one's will is stronger than mine! Ok, well, maybe not no one, but mine is strong enough to keep those fortress like walls thick and high!!
Anyone who this works on probably wouldn't have been much of a challenge, anyway. It's no medal-inspiring feat to catch the gal with smeared eyeliner, stumbling out of the bar after last call!
You're a jackass if you need to ask this question . . . How bout grow up and try not destroying other people's lives on purpose? You should probably check out a book on KARMA, cause that's what you should be worried about my friend.
I still haven't read that. My dad's cougar gf gave me a DVD copy and it's lying around somewhere.
I have been instantly attracted but I don't think I have ever given in that quickly.
I haven't read the book, but my answer to your question is no (as long as it is legal you can live with yourself afterward) and no.
Um, yeah. If you have to ask then usually the answer is yes. You need to cut the crap and go after woman that are actually attainable!
Any game will not work, because eventually you will be found out, and dumped.
Yes, I saw a man that I knew I had to have. Bought him a drink, and he came home with me and he is still here. That was 4 months ago.
Just use your super psychic powers.
ya ya ya....don't buy that damn book...it doesn't get you anywhere...
We are woman...you never know what your gonna get..
you know it is wrong. what planet you from?
Whatever tricks you try to use are quickly outweighed by your rancid cat-piss smelling desperation and stupidity.Is it wrong to use the Law of Attraction from ';The Secret'; book to easily and quickly land married women?
Wow, that's a new one. Well you can use the Law of Attraction for anything you want. Just remember that for every action there is a consequence. Just because you are able to attract something, does not mean you won't have to pay Karma for it later down the road.
So be careful what you wish for, you may just get it.
LOL. Remember, your will would have to be stronger than the person you are trying to attract. No one's will is stronger than mine! Ok, well, maybe not no one, but mine is strong enough to keep those fortress like walls thick and high!!
Anyone who this works on probably wouldn't have been much of a challenge, anyway. It's no medal-inspiring feat to catch the gal with smeared eyeliner, stumbling out of the bar after last call!
You're a jackass if you need to ask this question . . . How bout grow up and try not destroying other people's lives on purpose? You should probably check out a book on KARMA, cause that's what you should be worried about my friend.
I still haven't read that. My dad's cougar gf gave me a DVD copy and it's lying around somewhere.
I have been instantly attracted but I don't think I have ever given in that quickly.
I haven't read the book, but my answer to your question is no (as long as it is legal you can live with yourself afterward) and no.
Um, yeah. If you have to ask then usually the answer is yes. You need to cut the crap and go after woman that are actually attainable!
Any game will not work, because eventually you will be found out, and dumped.
Yes, I saw a man that I knew I had to have. Bought him a drink, and he came home with me and he is still here. That was 4 months ago.
Just use your super psychic powers.
ya ya ya....don't buy that damn book...it doesn't get you anywhere...
We are woman...you never know what your gonna get..
you know it is wrong. what planet you from?
Hi Im getting married and I need a place that will rent out a soda fountain?
Does anyone know where I can rent a soda fountain for my wedding. we have to supply the alcohol and Pop so we just need a soda fountain to rent. if know know of a place please let me know. thanksHi Im getting married and I need a place that will rent out a soda fountain?
uh...kinda hard without knowing where you are? or where you'll be having it??
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ohhh.....sorry....don't really have any knowledge for that area...I'm in PA, so I'm only familiar with places around here.
But good luck, I hope that you do find one....maybe just check for party supply rentals?
And congrats on your upcoming marriage!
uh...kinda hard without knowing where you are? or where you'll be having it??
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ohhh.....sorry....don't really have any knowledge for that area...I'm in PA, so I'm only familiar with places around here.
But good luck, I hope that you do find one....maybe just check for party supply rentals?
And congrats on your upcoming marriage!
Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
...because he had to drive every member of his family home. Got nothing for wedding present and went to work the next day?Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
yeah i'd stay married to him, cause i wouldn't have married him if i didn't love him, but i think you knew in advance what was coming didn't you.Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
This has to be a joke!!
The last thing a groom should be doing on his wedding night is driving his guests home!! What the hell!!!
Where was his bride while he was at mommy's house on his wedding night? Sounds like a scene out of a movie or something.
I feel for the bride and if it was me, i would have the marriage annulled. This is a sure sign of their future together. Not worth the hassle, in my opinion!!
I wouldn't have married a man who acts like that in the first place. Someone who doesn't know when to put their foot down and say no has no room in my life.
I wouldn't marry a man who puts others before his wife,unless it's a life %26amp; death situation for his family, especially on his wedding night.
Something tells me that if this indeed happened, you weren't exactly clueless what you were getting into ahead of time.
on your wedding night thats horrible it was suppose to be yalls day and obviously he didnt carecosmetics company
yeah i'd stay married to him, cause i wouldn't have married him if i didn't love him, but i think you knew in advance what was coming didn't you.Would you stay married to a man who spent your wedding night at his mother's house?
This has to be a joke!!
The last thing a groom should be doing on his wedding night is driving his guests home!! What the hell!!!
Where was his bride while he was at mommy's house on his wedding night? Sounds like a scene out of a movie or something.
I feel for the bride and if it was me, i would have the marriage annulled. This is a sure sign of their future together. Not worth the hassle, in my opinion!!
I wouldn't have married a man who acts like that in the first place. Someone who doesn't know when to put their foot down and say no has no room in my life.
I wouldn't marry a man who puts others before his wife,unless it's a life %26amp; death situation for his family, especially on his wedding night.
Something tells me that if this indeed happened, you weren't exactly clueless what you were getting into ahead of time.
on your wedding night thats horrible it was suppose to be yalls day and obviously he didnt care
I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
I know there are all kinds of kits and websites but it's a lot to explore and I'm just hoping someone knows from experience what the easiest, fastest, and cheapest way to change my last name is??? Thanks!I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
Get at least 5 copies of your marriage certificate for people who need/want them. Take your original with you to the Social Security office first and get a new SSC. Then take your SSC and marriage cert to the DMV and get a new license. You can call the CC companies or do it on their websites. At the bank you can show your marriage cert, new SSC or DL and that will be changed. There shouldn't be a charge for anything.
Good luck!I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
There is no easy way. Like everyone else said get ready to stand in line. After you get you offical marriage certificate take it to the SS office. Then the DMV, your work (change tax withholding), any utilities or credit in your name must also be changed and they usually ask for a copy of your marriage certificate. Anything that has your name needs to be changed and they will all need proof for back up.
Congratulations!!
All you have to do is get a copy of your filed marriage license, take it to the SS office and apply for a new SS card. Take the SS card to the DMV and get a new DL. Change all of your accounts from there. Easy. Keep a few extra copies of the filed marriage license. Some places require you to have not only your new ID but also your certificate.
Websites? Walk into the local social security office, take a number, and when you're called on, show them your old SS card and your marriage license. Piece of cake.
Go to www.missnowmrs.com, and they will get your name changed for you on all your important documents for a small fee.
go to the court house
Get at least 5 copies of your marriage certificate for people who need/want them. Take your original with you to the Social Security office first and get a new SSC. Then take your SSC and marriage cert to the DMV and get a new license. You can call the CC companies or do it on their websites. At the bank you can show your marriage cert, new SSC or DL and that will be changed. There shouldn't be a charge for anything.
Good luck!I just got married and need to change my last name. Anyone know of an easy way to do this?
There is no easy way. Like everyone else said get ready to stand in line. After you get you offical marriage certificate take it to the SS office. Then the DMV, your work (change tax withholding), any utilities or credit in your name must also be changed and they usually ask for a copy of your marriage certificate. Anything that has your name needs to be changed and they will all need proof for back up.
Congratulations!!
All you have to do is get a copy of your filed marriage license, take it to the SS office and apply for a new SS card. Take the SS card to the DMV and get a new DL. Change all of your accounts from there. Easy. Keep a few extra copies of the filed marriage license. Some places require you to have not only your new ID but also your certificate.
Websites? Walk into the local social security office, take a number, and when you're called on, show them your old SS card and your marriage license. Piece of cake.
Go to www.missnowmrs.com, and they will get your name changed for you on all your important documents for a small fee.
go to the court house
I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
I was already registered from last election but do I need to do anything now that my name has changed?I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
I doubt you can reregister this close to the election in most states (there are a couple of exceptions). When you change your driver's license you can reregister then. If you havent changed your driver's license yet, then you can vote with out problem. If your ID has been changed, you might be asked to fill out an affidavit or vote on a provisional ballot. Different states have different rules, but usually women who have recently married usually can vote with no problem. Bring supporting info just in case. And check with your local county clerk or election board to find out for sure.I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
You may need to reregister under your new name. I moved this year and had to reregister with my new address. If you go to your secretary of state website, it should have all the voter info you need. however, if you do need to reregister, I'm afraid it's too late in most states.
When I had a different last name they still let me vote 2 years ago when I forgot to re-register.
You should register under your correct name, but it's probably too late now. Take an official copy of your marriage certificate along with your ID with you to the polls.
If you have a current I.D. with your maiden name I don't think you have anything to worry about (assuming your maiden name is the name you're registered under).
Still for the next election you should all that sorted out.
If the name on your drivers license doesn't match voter registration records you won't be allowed. Contrary to conservative propoganda they run a pretty tight ship down at the polling place.
Vote under your old name as long as you have an I.D. But, after the election, I'd reregister.
Eventually, yes. For the present, vote using your maiden name.
Keep your name until after the election
Yeah the way things have been going, better safe than sorry.
When I vote they never ask me for an ID.
No, because you have the same social security number. Bring that as a form of ID.
yes.
but it might be too late for this election, depending on what state you're in.
I doubt you can reregister this close to the election in most states (there are a couple of exceptions). When you change your driver's license you can reregister then. If you havent changed your driver's license yet, then you can vote with out problem. If your ID has been changed, you might be asked to fill out an affidavit or vote on a provisional ballot. Different states have different rules, but usually women who have recently married usually can vote with no problem. Bring supporting info just in case. And check with your local county clerk or election board to find out for sure.I was already registered to vote but then I got married and my name changed. Do I need to reregister?
You may need to reregister under your new name. I moved this year and had to reregister with my new address. If you go to your secretary of state website, it should have all the voter info you need. however, if you do need to reregister, I'm afraid it's too late in most states.
When I had a different last name they still let me vote 2 years ago when I forgot to re-register.
You should register under your correct name, but it's probably too late now. Take an official copy of your marriage certificate along with your ID with you to the polls.
If you have a current I.D. with your maiden name I don't think you have anything to worry about (assuming your maiden name is the name you're registered under).
Still for the next election you should all that sorted out.
If the name on your drivers license doesn't match voter registration records you won't be allowed. Contrary to conservative propoganda they run a pretty tight ship down at the polling place.
Vote under your old name as long as you have an I.D. But, after the election, I'd reregister.
Eventually, yes. For the present, vote using your maiden name.
Keep your name until after the election
Yeah the way things have been going, better safe than sorry.
When I vote they never ask me for an ID.
No, because you have the same social security number. Bring that as a form of ID.
yes.
but it might be too late for this election, depending on what state you're in.
For those who married young did you also have children young?
I am 20 and will be getting married in a few months. I am just curious if a lot of people who marry young have children young as well? I want a baby, but we also want to wait. How long were you married before you had your first child?For those who married young did you also have children young?
I got married at 21 years old. I was 28 when I had my first child. I would recommend waiting. You need time together as husband and wife before you bring a child into the marriage. Good luck!For those who married young did you also have children young?
I'm getting married next year and will be 23. By that stage my partner and I will have been together for 2 years. We can't wait to have kids though. May not have them straight away, but if we do we will be over the moon :) We are always thinking of names as well.
It's up to you and your partner though. If you want to wait then wait, if you don't want to wait then don't wait. But remember as people keep telling me, kids cost a hell of a lot of money, so you want to know that you can support a family before you start one.
hey i was pregnant when got married, had boy 6 months after and I was 20 . Then we waited 4 1/2 years for another one and then soon as she was bron we knew we wanted another so i wanted it over and done with so I was pregnant when she was 4 months. so we Had another girl 14 months after..
I gave birth in April at the age of 30 to our little ';suprise '; to our 4th child another boy.
We wanted kids young so we can travel when older and be ';young';grandparents and have a big family !
I keep asking questions like this too! Im also 20!! Well, I got married when I was 18, but I graduated high school early when I was 16 too, so I felt older than I was!
Anyway, my husband and I want to have a baby sometime next year. We want to try and get pregnant at the start of next year, so I will be around 22 and he will be 24 when the baby is born. So, yeah we are young, but we didnt rush it. We have been together for over 5 years, and married for 2. Im glad we waited a couple years. I figure I need a few more months alone with him, but we won't have a baby here for over a year anyway, so it will be perfect for us. I know people who are younger than me that are on their 2nd or 3rd kids! Its crazy! Im a military wife, so I meet all sorts of people..haha!!
Hope that answers your question!
But, if I were you I would wait at least minimum ONE year to get pregnant. Wait until you at least turn 21 so that you can FULLY feel like an adult, and that way you can't say you were TOO young, and by the time your baby arrives you will have about 2 years of marriage under your belt!
GOOD LUCK!
I was freshly 18 when I married and 19 when my first child was born and 20 when my second child was born. I was divorced at 21.
I would recommend to anyone to wait at least two years before planning a family. That will give you a fair chance on making sure things work out and give you both time to get to know each other as man and wife.
well I am older then you, I am 25. I just got married this year and we are expecting our first child, but we have also been together over 5 and 1/2 years living together minus about a month, we knew each other for awhile before we decided to date, anyways I think it all depends on how much ';alone'; time you guys have had, how well you really know each other. They say marriage is different then just living together, that marriage changes people, for us it changed nothing, except I got to change my last name to my best friends last name and now we are bringing a life into the world and we couldnt be more excited, everyone is different do what you feel is right. good luck
I got married at 17. We planned and were able to conceive my son a year and a half after we married. We were married 2 years and 3 days when our little man was born.
I have no regrets! We are going on 4 years now and baby number 2!
The way I feel is that I got 2 amazing years of falling in love with my husband and then I have had 2 amazing years falling in love with the father of my child!
My husband and I were both 21 when we got married. Now we are 29 and expecting #1. We do not regret waiting at all. We got to travel, get to know each other, go back to school, and even changed careers a time or two.
I was married for 7 months when I got prego.Got married at 21 But we had been together from age 13 and were trying to have a baby for 3 years with no luck. Had our second child 6 months ago at 25 after trying since the first was 6 months old
married at 15 (eloped)... had my son when i was 16... now im 20 and yes we're still married and happy. if i had to do over aain... yes i would have waited to get married and start a family, but hey, i was 15 thats a big jump from 20... good luck!
I got married at 19 we had planned on waiting for 5 or 6 years. 2 weeks later we found out I was 6 weeks pregnant. I am now 22 expecting baby number 2 planned of course. Couldn't be more happy.
Well I got married at 16 %26amp; our 5 year anniversary was 13 days after our son was born.I think we waited long enough %26amp; we have no regrets.
I had my baby when i was 19 and got married when she was 6 months old... now she is 9 months old and im 20. me and my husband have been together sice we were 14 though...
I got married at 18 and now i am pregnant at 21 with out first.
I got married at 21 years old. I was 28 when I had my first child. I would recommend waiting. You need time together as husband and wife before you bring a child into the marriage. Good luck!For those who married young did you also have children young?
I'm getting married next year and will be 23. By that stage my partner and I will have been together for 2 years. We can't wait to have kids though. May not have them straight away, but if we do we will be over the moon :) We are always thinking of names as well.
It's up to you and your partner though. If you want to wait then wait, if you don't want to wait then don't wait. But remember as people keep telling me, kids cost a hell of a lot of money, so you want to know that you can support a family before you start one.
hey i was pregnant when got married, had boy 6 months after and I was 20 . Then we waited 4 1/2 years for another one and then soon as she was bron we knew we wanted another so i wanted it over and done with so I was pregnant when she was 4 months. so we Had another girl 14 months after..
I gave birth in April at the age of 30 to our little ';suprise '; to our 4th child another boy.
We wanted kids young so we can travel when older and be ';young';grandparents and have a big family !
I keep asking questions like this too! Im also 20!! Well, I got married when I was 18, but I graduated high school early when I was 16 too, so I felt older than I was!
Anyway, my husband and I want to have a baby sometime next year. We want to try and get pregnant at the start of next year, so I will be around 22 and he will be 24 when the baby is born. So, yeah we are young, but we didnt rush it. We have been together for over 5 years, and married for 2. Im glad we waited a couple years. I figure I need a few more months alone with him, but we won't have a baby here for over a year anyway, so it will be perfect for us. I know people who are younger than me that are on their 2nd or 3rd kids! Its crazy! Im a military wife, so I meet all sorts of people..haha!!
Hope that answers your question!
But, if I were you I would wait at least minimum ONE year to get pregnant. Wait until you at least turn 21 so that you can FULLY feel like an adult, and that way you can't say you were TOO young, and by the time your baby arrives you will have about 2 years of marriage under your belt!
GOOD LUCK!
I was freshly 18 when I married and 19 when my first child was born and 20 when my second child was born. I was divorced at 21.
I would recommend to anyone to wait at least two years before planning a family. That will give you a fair chance on making sure things work out and give you both time to get to know each other as man and wife.
well I am older then you, I am 25. I just got married this year and we are expecting our first child, but we have also been together over 5 and 1/2 years living together minus about a month, we knew each other for awhile before we decided to date, anyways I think it all depends on how much ';alone'; time you guys have had, how well you really know each other. They say marriage is different then just living together, that marriage changes people, for us it changed nothing, except I got to change my last name to my best friends last name and now we are bringing a life into the world and we couldnt be more excited, everyone is different do what you feel is right. good luck
I got married at 17. We planned and were able to conceive my son a year and a half after we married. We were married 2 years and 3 days when our little man was born.
I have no regrets! We are going on 4 years now and baby number 2!
The way I feel is that I got 2 amazing years of falling in love with my husband and then I have had 2 amazing years falling in love with the father of my child!
My husband and I were both 21 when we got married. Now we are 29 and expecting #1. We do not regret waiting at all. We got to travel, get to know each other, go back to school, and even changed careers a time or two.
I was married for 7 months when I got prego.Got married at 21 But we had been together from age 13 and were trying to have a baby for 3 years with no luck. Had our second child 6 months ago at 25 after trying since the first was 6 months old
married at 15 (eloped)... had my son when i was 16... now im 20 and yes we're still married and happy. if i had to do over aain... yes i would have waited to get married and start a family, but hey, i was 15 thats a big jump from 20... good luck!
I got married at 19 we had planned on waiting for 5 or 6 years. 2 weeks later we found out I was 6 weeks pregnant. I am now 22 expecting baby number 2 planned of course. Couldn't be more happy.
Well I got married at 16 %26amp; our 5 year anniversary was 13 days after our son was born.I think we waited long enough %26amp; we have no regrets.
I had my baby when i was 19 and got married when she was 6 months old... now she is 9 months old and im 20. me and my husband have been together sice we were 14 though...
I got married at 18 and now i am pregnant at 21 with out first.
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