He's been married for about 5 years and the the military for about 6 I forgot to take make pill for about 2 weeks straight. Any my question is once they found out can he get kicked out and lose education benefits.Im pregnant by a military member who is already married. Can he get in trouble?
No they wont kick him out and they will establish child support to come out of his check so his wife will find out.Im pregnant by a military member who is already married. Can he get in trouble?
I heard that the military frowns upon adultery and that he can be discharged and lose everything. So congratulations to both of you... y'all ruined his career and the life of his family.
cheating in the military is highly frowned upon. he wont get kicked out, but he might be looking at an article 15.
If he does, he should have thought about that before doing the dirty on his wife!
1. Why would you tell people about this??2. Why would you do that????
yes he can get into a lot of trouble, not kicked out but he will be punished by his sargent. I've heard stories where the sargent made the guy call his wife and tell her in front of everyone, then had to work for a period of time without pay.
I'd say his wife is going to make your life miserable-
I'd hate to think his career is ruined because he can't keep it in his pants.
You don't expect him to be any more faithful to you than he was to his wife, I hope.
They shun on that big time, but they will support you too, you'll need the benifits... Get away from a married man Idiot! Get your own man... ok nuff said. He has to go talk to someone higher up... If he's honest and say he made a mistake and doesnt want to leave you out in the cold and wants to do the right thing, they should help you. They are all about family.
';I forgot to take make pill for about 2 weeks straight'; Are you kidding me? Condoms? If he's married and sleeping around, you're prob not the first... go get tested for you an the baby's sake. Think hard about actually having it.
YES he can get in trouble if his wife decides to let his commanding officer know about the situation! He could get dishonorably discharged and lose all of his benefits but more than likey they will demote him and he will lose pay... possibly have charges brought up against him in the military court. Not cool of you to be sleeping with a married man..... what goes around comes around and when you get married it could happen to you!
Yes, he can get in a lot of trouble. He can get charged with an Article 15, lose rank, pay, and even get discharged. I'm not sure what exactually his discharge will be, but he better start talking to his first sergent and get with JAG becuase once his wife finds out, I promise she'll go straight to his commander. My ex hubby cheated on me and we were both in the military. I couldn't prove it, and he's now discharged. She sure can prove it since your preggers with his child. I would really like to tell you what I think of you, but I'm sure his wife will do the job better than I can!
definitely
yes
i don't think so, you should be ashamed of yourself ...homewrecking s!ut.
How do you forget to take your pill for two full weeks?
Yes, if the military finds out he would be dishonorably discharged.
Huge trouble. If he is giving you any trouble, you should write a letter directly to his C.O and they will make sure that you receive the medical treatment and child support you deserve.
possibly. if you go after child support. and by his wife as well. i am sure his wife will no happy.
cant blame the guy for getting trapped by you. Who else forgets to take the pill for 2 weeks and doesnt want to set someone up. He proberley still wont leave his wife for you, he would be a fool if he did.
My last boyfriend was in the military too. It's unacceptable conduct. They can get in a lot of trouble just for being unfaithful to their wives. Read in the UCMJ. It's Article 134.
I hope you aren't one of the tag chasers who go after military men, and get knocked up by them, just so you can use their benefits and money. I'm not saying you are, I'm saying I hope you aren't. Military pay is not that great, but that has nothing to do with it. It's just a wrong thing to do.
Here, I looked it up for you.
Article 134 - Adultery
See Paragraph 60.
Elements.
(1) That the accused wrongfully had sexual intercourse with a certain person;
(2) That, at the time, the accused or the other person was married to someone else; and
(3) That, under the circumstances, the conduct of the accused was to the prejudice of good order and discipline in the armed forces or was of a nature to bring discredit upon the armed forces.
Explanation.
(1) Nature of offense. Adultery is clearly unacceptable conduct, and it reflects adversely on the service record of the military member.
(2) Conduct prejudicial to good order and discipline or of a nature to bring discredit upon the armed forces. To constitute an offense under the UCMJ, the adulterous conduct must either be directly prejudicial to good order and discipline or service discrediting.
Adulterous conduct that is directly prejudicial includes conduct that has an obvious, and measurably divisive effect on unit or organization discipline, morale, or cohesion, or is clearly detrimental to the authority or stature of or respect toward a servicemember. Adultery may also be service discrediting, even though the conduct is only indirectly or remotely prejudicial to good order and discipline. Discredit means to injure the reputation of the armed forces and includes adulterous conduct that has a tendency, because of its open or notorious nature, to bring the service into disrepute, make it subject to public ridicule, or lower it in public esteem. While adulterous conduct that is private and discreet in nature may not be service discrediting by this standard, under the circumstances, it may be determined to be conduct prejudicial to good order and discipline. Commanders should consider all relevant circumstances, including but not limited to the following factors, when determining whether adulterous acts are prejudicial to good order and discipline or are of a nature to bring discredit upon the armed forces:
(a) The accused's marital status, military rank, grade, or position;
(b) The co-actor's marital status, military rank, grade, and position, or relationship to the armed forces;
(c) The military status of the accused's spouse or the spouse of co-actor, or their relationship to the armed forces;
(d) The impact, if any, of the adulterous relationship on the ability of the accused, the co-actor, or the spouse of either to perform their duties in support of the armed forces;
(e) The misuse, if any, of government time and resources to facilitate the commission of the conduct;
(f) Whether the conduct persisted despite counseling or orders to desist; the flagrancy of the conduct, such as whether any notoriety ensued; and whether the adulterous act was accompanied by other violations of the UCMJ;
(g) The negative impact of the conduct on the units or organizations of the accused, the co-actor or the spouse of either of them, such as a detrimental effect on unit or organization morale, teamwork, and efficiency;
(h) Whether the accused or co-actor was legally separated; and
(i) Whether the adulterous misconduct involves an ongoing or recent relationship or is remote in time.
(3) Marriage. A marriage exists until it is dissolved in accordance with the laws of a competent state or foreign jurisdiction.
(4) Mistake of fact. A defense of mistake of fact exists if the accused had an honest and reasonable belief either that the accused and the co-actor were both unmarried, or that they were lawfully married to each other. If this defense is raised by the evidence, then the burden of proof is upon the United States to establish that the accused's belief was unreasonable or not honest.';.
Lesser included offense.
Article 80鈥攁ttempts
Maximum punishment.
Dishonorable discharge, forfeiture of all pay and allowances, and confinement for 1 year.
yeah he can.. that was really dumb of you. now not only have you messed with this mans life and marriage, you're gonna have a kid with no dad dwho you're going to have to explain that you got his daddy dishonorably discharged.
way to go
and just exactly how do you forget to take a pill for TWO WEEKS???? i mean twos days, I can see.. but two weeks??
IDONO BUT THAT S**T IS F****D UP... GOOD LUCK.
I think he can but on a side note for the people that wrote rude comments about you being a **** all i can say is HOW RUDE!! It takes two to tango. You weren't the one going out behind someone's back and cheating he was. He is the one who made a commitment to another woman and then broke it. I feel sorry for you that this man couldn't be upfront with his wife and tell her he found someone else.
He might get in trouble but they won't kick him out. He'll probably be formally reprimanded for his behavior.
YES he can get in trouble. BIG trouble. Like go to jail and be kicked out. Adultery is a serious offense in the army and if his wife chooses to press it they will file charges. Whoever said no they won't is very wrong.
IDK, but why whould you put your personal business out there.?
How did you forget to take your pill for 2 weeks straight???
of course its called adultery
why would you have sex with a married man?
then y in the hell did u sleep with him
Yes, he can get into beaucoup trouble.
He can loose rank, he will loose money to child support, he can even be given a less than honorable discharge (though that is unlikely during war-time), and most importantly, if he is a career soldier, his indiscretion will be noted in his personnel file and can adversely affect future promotions and assignments.
You two have really screwed up.
My husband is in the military.. and if he cheated on me i would be contacting his command so fast.. They can lose rank or be kicked out under dishonorable discharge. Don't mess with someone elses husband.. thats wrong.
his wife is going to kick his %26amp;^%
sue for divorce
get child support and alimony(that means all his $)
and you get him
sounds like trouble
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