A married woman will always think she is right. No matter what the subject is. And she will also always find a way to make you the one at fault. That is just how it goes.
There are a lot of women that are actually willing all the time if the guy they're with is ';that'; guy, if you know what I mean.
Others are simply realizing that while the guy is nice and good for them he is not ';that'; guy.What is with married women and sex?
I apologize for all the women who are so unhappy in their marriages that they don't appreciate the sanctity of their marriages. I don't think, even they, understand marriage and sex. According to the Bible, women set the tone for the home and the bedroom. And I agree, that most women, once married, change from be sensual and giving, to withdrawing and witholding sex from their husbands. There are many reasons. One is, some women use sex as a tool to get a man to fall in love with them because they are too insecure with themselves to gain a man based on their own merit and what they have to offer.
Secondly, some women actually love sex with their husband before and during the beginning of their marriage, but grow more in love and are connecting on an emotional level instead of a sexual level. But that doesn't mean total withdrawal of sex.
But when a woman cheats, no matter the reason, she is looking for someone or something to fulfill her that she lacks in herself. And that is usually self confidence. A person needs to love him/herself to obtain security in who he/she is and not use someone else to ';find'; him/herself. And some women cheat because they are too lazy to work at their marriage. All relationships, no matter what kind, take sacrifice and work. And no one should run away into someone else's arms to escape him/herself.
You have to remember that most of the people that post here are the unhappy ones... happy people do not turn to a computer or strangers for advice.
One of the main differences between men and women is that men think marriage is going to be 24-7 sex and to women marriage is the first step in a whole new universe of responsibility and expectation.
It is not that my wife does not enjoy sex... she just values other things more... Work, Church, Kids, Volunteering... Sometimes I am last on the list.
Men and women will almost never view sex the same way because most woman could have it any time they wanted it and men are still left to hope and to pray and to obsess over when the next time will be.
I think you're taking too many examples and trying to merge them into one unfounded theory. It's also very easy to allow oneself to become misdirected, waiting for cues from women who are waiting for cues from you. It all becomes so irrational and paradoxical and you're going to convince yourself that every woman on the planet is nothing more than a bundle of mass confusion, waiting for them to give cues, while they are waiting for you to give cues.
How ever did mankind evolve with all of this mass confusion?
Be true to yourself, set your own goals, and don't worry about women.
And as you are doing this, try to imagine what life would be like without them? What would life be like without that one, special one, the one who makes you dizzy just looking at her... the one who makes your heart sing, the one who makes your world go around.
Oh, haven't you met 'her' yet? You will ;-) Then you'll really be in trouble.
we as humans have drifted away from our moral and standards, all i can say that a man or a woman that has that attitude, should never get married, i would never refuse my wife sex when she wanted it and i dont think she should either, if she does, then its like i said ,she should not be married, people are all the time tring to fix something that's not broke, they also need to grow up and accept the commitments they make when they marry
I agree that her body is hers and she is not owned property. I also believe that a man should not have to live with out sex. Being a woman I would not live without sex unless he were unable to perform. If he refused he would be a single man again.
If both people respect their own body and each others there wouldn't be this debate. They would have great sex and there would not be double standards.
Who ever told you women use the same logic? They are wired for emotions (from Venus). Men are wired for logic (from Mars).
stop lumping all men and all women into ONE pile.
i think its being you stink, actually.
i find it hard to believe you get any standard from women, let alone a double.
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