Tuesday, January 19, 2010

What is the right age for women to get married and have a normal child without defect?

There is not a normal age. It becomes a greater chance for defects if the woman is over the age of 35.What is the right age for women to get married and have a normal child without defect?
Not all defects depend on the mother's age. While it is true that having a child after the age of 35 or 40 can increase your chance of producing a child with birth defects, there's no age that would totally preclude you from having a child with birth defects. Some defects are a product of your prenatal behaviors, while others are a genetic ';crap shoot.';What is the right age for women to get married and have a normal child without defect?
For most women, medically speaking, you're pretty safe between 18 and 30, and mostly safe up until late 30s. In countries with advanced medicine (Japan, European countries, some parts of the U.S., etc.) having chidlren into one's 40s is fine.





If you're talking about emotional, financial, or ethical ';rightness,'; then it varies by each person. For some women, ';never'; is the right time to have children. For some, it's only after they have a stable job, or a stable partner. For others, they may have psychological issues they need to deal with before committing to either a partner or child. There is no one ';right'; answer for everyone.
It really depends who you're asking...I got married at 18 and had my first daughter at 19, and my second just before I turned 21. I am now almost 22 and I love my life, although I truly wish we could've waited at least a few years for children...they were just our little surprise miracles I guess! I love being married so young, but there really isn't a ';right age';. It all depends on maturity etc. I would say the ';average'; age is closer to between 24-28 to get married, and having kids usually within a couple of years. If avoidable, I know that having kids before age 35 is definitely best though, because after that the chance of the child having certain birth defects and syndroms etc dramatically increases.
Well any age, of course it may mean compromises if she is 35 and up - such as chromosomal defect testing and perhaps pregnancy termination, or using someone else's eggs if she is not fertile anymore. But really, most defects are not due to age but genes that are already there or environmental causes (such as drinking during pregnancy).
It's not so much about age as it is about lifestyle.


If you're 25 smoke, drink, and have syphilis, chances are your baby will be unhealthy.


Now if you have a 35 year old who old doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, eats healthy, and exercises, chances are her baby will be very healthy.
it doesnt matter how old you are when you get married. it takes some people longer to find the one they love than others. and with the child thing...i dont think it will have a defect just because of age. my mom had me when she was 23 and my friends mom had her when she was 40. we're still perfectly healthy!
Nice way of putting it! ANY child can be born with a birth defect. You have no control over that. BUT, they say after 35, you may be more likely to have ';problems';.





I married at 23, been married 5 years now and have 3 beautiful kiddos.





It'll happen for you when it's meant to happen. :)
any age, before you try to get pregnant you and your partner should go to the doctors for genetic testing it will tell you the likelyhood that you will have a child with a genetic disorder
AS per medical studies it is 21 years and only at this age the full growth is registered for almost all women
i would say for the baby


about 21 and up.


but for marriage i would say 25 and up.


because live your life before you get settled down(=
is there a right age? maybe 18-35. there are no guarantees on a healthy child, but you can't worry
Mid to late twenties is probably your best bet.
25
bet time to get married is mid and late twenties.......

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