Thursday, December 31, 2009

What hurts traditional marriage more, two homosexuals getting married, or John Ensign (R-Nevada) cheating?

how two people decide to live their lives does NOT affect another couple's marriage.What hurts traditional marriage more, two homosexuals getting married, or John Ensign (R-Nevada) cheating?
Opposite marriage is damaging to the individuals involved, as well as for our society. It is a sign of moral decline and lack of respect for God.





Ensign is wrong as well, yet you are comparing one person (as you try to make a point) with a lifestyle of many dysfunctional people. All men and women who cheat (JOHN EDWARDS- Wife dying from Cancer) have issues with their morals, just as those who make the CHOICE of opposite marriage. We all need to check ourselves, as none of us walk on water.What hurts traditional marriage more, two homosexuals getting married, or John Ensign (R-Nevada) cheating?
I think that ';traditional marriage'; hurts traditional marriage.





I think we forget that the idea is predicated on roles that men and women do not fill anymore. Men and women do not depend on each other the way they once did. We used to have ';A'; relationships. Where if one left the ';A'; would fall over and they Needed each other.





Today, men can ( and do) things that women once did and Women can ( and do) things that men once did. We have a culture of equals. It's like an ';H';. If you seperate an H, you have 2 ';I';'s. That can stand on their own.
Traditional marriage has a +50% failure rate, what could possibly make it any worse. How long would you keep a job if you succeeded less than half the time? Marriage is dead in the water. Like any institution it exists only so the church/state can own a pie$e of your life.





I had a 24-year relationship that was as real a ';marriage'; as any two people who stood uip in front of a priest ever had! We didn't even live together.





So much for a piece of paper. So much for empty words from lying mouths.
Have you ever been married? If you had, you would know that no one else's actions has any effect on your marriage. Only you and your wife can have any effect.





I know what point you're trying to make, but married couples don't care what anyone else does, if they are truly in love.
How can homosexuals getting married hurt my marriage? Where's the connection here? Unless they after my husband! It's mind boggling!
Neither of them harmed the institution of marriage as much as Barry(Marion) Spitzer Edwards Kilpatrick Mahoney, Tim(replaced Foley after morality crusade, then had affair) Kennedy Clinton...
All who cheat, gay or straight...all who engage in any kind of immoral behavior (homosexuality and sex outside of marriage..meaning straight people, as well). Does John Edwards ring a bell for you?
The only thing that jeopardizes a marriage are the two people involved. Other than that, folks should not concern themselves with what others do.
None, only you can hurt traditional marriage if you ad to the divorce rate.
According to you both harm traditional marriage. You're simply arguing that one does more harm than the other.





Of course you understand that, right?
neither. Try to remember that most Americans are against gay marriage.
homosexuals getting married.
A person who BREAKS their vows certainly cheapens marriage more than two people who WANT to get married.
about equal
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  • Did you have a racial preference before getting married?

    A lot of Americans are really hung on appearance.





    So white women, did you have a racial preference before getting married?Did you have a racial preference before getting married?
    I do not believe in racial stuff. It depends upon person to person, some might give importance to outward appearance but marriage is all about the union of hearts.Did you have a racial preference before getting married?
    This white man has worked with and known black women for many years - some of the hardest-working, honest and upright people I've known - but I have never been sexually attracted to any of them. And I could not marry someone I wasn't sexually attracted to.
    Yes ...NO IDIOTS :)
    Under the skin were made all the same

    Getting Hit On when your engaged to be married?

    Would you tell your fiance if a friend of his hit on you? Would you be flattered at all by getting hit on by your fiance's friend or would it disgust you. If there was a degree of flattery would that be a sign of a problem?Getting Hit On when your engaged to be married?
    When someone like your fiance's friend hits on you, you immediately draw the line and let him know his place. Then you tell your fiance. Something like this should be out in the open. If you keep it under wraps, the 'friend' will believe you are game and any respect he had for you will begin to erode....Then you become a joke...Getting Hit On when your engaged to be married?
    I had this happen to me. I told the friend that I was in love with my fiance and I had not intentions of disrespecting him or cheating on him with HIM or anyone else. I then told him that I would chalk his poor decision up to one too many drinks and out of love for my soon to be husband not tell him as he would be devastated that his best friend would do such a thing. I also said, but if he ever touched me again, I would tell him. You need to think about what you really want to gain by telling him. Men are not like women and telling him may hurt your fiance but not end up with any change in the relationship on the outside.
    You can feel flattered, but you should probably let him know about his freind. You can tell his freind that you don't think your man would appreciate him hitting on you, and he has something slick to say than definitely tell. He may stop and you can avoid the whole thing. But if something persist he should know.
    Watch out, some fiance's will send their friends to you, just to see if 1). you can be trusted. 2) if you will tell him or not. 3). or get a laugh at you telling his friend off.
    Yes I would tell my fiance about it, I would be flattered but wonder where the respect for his Friend is at.

    What is that movie with the guy getting married who trys to find a best friend to be his best man?

    They meet at a real estate thing and the best friend comments on the sandwiches and they jam to rush a lot. It's been driving me crazyWhat is that movie with the guy getting married who trys to find a best friend to be his best man?
    I Love You Man





    In I Love You, Man, a comedy from John Hamburg (Along Came Polly, co-writer of Meet The Parents, Meet The Fockers, Zoolander), Peter Klaven (Paul Rudd, Knocked Up The 40 Year Old Virgin) is a successful real estate agent who, upon getting engaged to the woman of his dreams, Zooey, (The Offices Rashida Jones), discovers, to his dismay and chagrin, that he has no male friend close enough to serve as his Best Man. Peter immediately sets out to rectify the situation, embarking on a series of bizarre and awkward man-dates, before meeting Sydney Fife (Jason Segel, Forgetting Sarah Marshall), a charming, opinionated man with whom he instantly bonds. But the closer the two men get, the more Peters relationship with Zooey suffers, ultimately forcing him to choose between his fianc茅e and his new found bro, in a story that comically explores what it truly means to be a friend.What is that movie with the guy getting married who trys to find a best friend to be his best man?
    I believe you are thinking of I love you man.
    I love you man.





    That's a good movie!


    Laughed my butt off.

    Is it against the Law to sign my single name on a Legal Document, when my married name is different?

    Is it against the Law to sign my single name on a title deed/Legal Document, when my married name is different?





    Will this document be classed as legal?Is it against the Law to sign my single name on a Legal Document, when my married name is different?
    You can have aliases and the law recognizes more than one name to any person !!Is it against the Law to sign my single name on a Legal Document, when my married name is different?
    By law, in all states, marriage does not forcibly change a woman's or a man's name. That is an old custom, not a law. Most states have a law that allows a woman to use both maiden and/or married name, as long as she does not do it to defraud. In credit practice most married women who established credit in their maiden name share that credit history for their married name.





    While not a political statement, I have always found the name Hillary Rodam Clinton to be the best solution to the naming problem.
    You have changed your name, so you are no longer the old name. However, the document will still be legal because you are now Jane Smith AKA Jane Doe.





    You should use your new name all the time, but you can still use the old name if you forget or don't have ID with your new name...

    Getting married in September, what is the best way to lose 8-10kg?

    What is the fastest and healthiest way to lose this extra weight that i gained while studying?Getting married in September, what is the best way to lose 8-10kg?
    Eat healthy, well-balanced meals. Try to eat about 1200-1400 calories a day but spread it out and eat something every couple of hours to keep your metabolism up. Try to cut out sugar and white flour (stick with natural sweeteners like honey, maple syrup or stevia and whole grains) and especially avoid high fructose corn syrup (you'll have to read labels because they put it in everything and it's SO bad for you). Lots of fruits, veggies, protein, etc. Exercise and get plenty of sleep, lack of sleep can hurt your metabolism too.





    You're never going to keep it off with a fad diet. If that's all you need to lose you have plenty of time to do it the healthy way.Getting married in September, what is the best way to lose 8-10kg?
    My advise is to do high intensity exercises like, 30 minute tread mills, or 5 km. jogging daily and of course , look for high fiber rich foods and fish for your meals and not indulge in junk fastfoods. Remember, do this program whichever you want everyday.





    Good luck and may you have the sexiest defined body form when september comes.
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    What is kg? Anyway, exercize fast energy plus sit ups, eat less...more well rounded meals but smaller portions and drink lots of water. And never give up!
    Lots of exercise hun...... when you would normally drive to the grocery store, try taking a walk there. Maybe you can also try a little dieting, salads are always good:) Also I heard that slim fast works....... Good Luck to you dear and congrats!!!
    Join a gym, start lifting weights, eat healthy, sleep well, and you will see results. This is the best website out there: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/women.htm
    Eat low fat food and exercise every day. You need to get your heart rate up and increase you motabalism.

    Monday, December 28, 2009

    What are/were your deal breakers for getting married?

    Anything that seals or breaks the deal for you? Could be a big thing or a small thing.





    What are/were your deal breakers for getting married?
    If he told me he had cheated on me, If I found out he had kids I hadn't known about! If I found out he had a criminal record that he hadn't told me about, If he couldn't hold a job! xox What are/were your deal breakers for getting married?
    if he tells me he luvs some small habit of mine i LUV IT





    ex:


    baby i luv how u bunch up the corner of ur mouth when u take a pic with ur camera etc





    its soooooooo sweet





    answer mine!


    http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
    I said I'd never marry a man who had either been married or had kids. I also said I'd never marry a sports fanatic. Then, I met a man who was divorced with two kids and was the biggest sports nut out there. We've been married 6-1/2 years and he's the love of my life. I'm glad I changed my mind!
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  • Is it OK to meet up with a married woman late at night?

    This woman I was very close to for a long time visits me every so often late at night. We have these great times together but it's not a sexual thing, just a kind of mental closeness and enjoying each other's company. But I feel a bit weird about it. The thing is that we never had a sexual relationship and in fact she was married to someone else for a long time. Right up to the time she died in fact. Has anyone else had a similar experience?Is it OK to meet up with a married woman late at night?
    you've got to be kidding me. Funny!Is it OK to meet up with a married woman late at night?
    she's dead now so what does it matter anyway?





    ha, you thought I wouldn't read the whole question.

    Is it OK to meet up with a married woman late at night?

    This woman I was very close to for a long time visits me every so often late at night. We have these great times together but it's not a sexual thing, just a kind of mental closeness and enjoying each other's company. But I feel a bit weird about it. The thing is that we never had a sexual relationship and in fact she was married to someone else for a long time. Right up to the time she died in fact. Has anyone else had a similar experience?Is it OK to meet up with a married woman late at night?
    you've got to be kidding me. Funny!Is it OK to meet up with a married woman late at night?
    she's dead now so what does it matter anyway?





    ha, you thought I wouldn't read the whole question.

    Young married couples with young children how many times per month?

    So, my husband and I are both in our early 20's and we have a young daughter as well. We both work full time and my husband also goes to school full time as well. How many times per month do you actually ';do the tango'; per month if your a busy family like us?Young married couples with young children how many times per month?
    It has been a while, but, I think maybe 8-10. We both worked and our second daughter was born when I was in grad school.Young married couples with young children how many times per month?
    I don't know what you consider young. I am in my late 20's with 3 kids, 6 pets, I am a neat freak and I fantastic cook and I homeschool among other things. I am busier then anyone I know. We have sex about 6 times a month and he gets Bj's when he asks (maybe 3-4 times a month). It would be more if we were not quite so busy. I have been with my husband since high school. 13 years.
    I'm not twenty anymore, but I remember the days we used to call the...quickie....When their is a spare spot and a moments notice...then go for it. How often? Depends on how often you want to giggle when the baby is taking a short nap and you hide in the bathroom or closet or where ever she's not. It was more fun then... trying to find the moment...than ...it is now when all the moments tie into one. LOL...By the way...he was also going to night school, working and we had a one, two and three year old.
    I always found the way, never quit, I wanted him so much I had him wake me when ever he got home so I could be loved bu him,,,,,,,,,,,,,,you can always make time to please your self and your love one yes? I used to wake him up in the middle of the night,,,,the look on his face the next day';';';Priceless';';';
    if your not doing it atleast once every two weeks (bare minimum) your marriage is in trouble
    8 to 10 times... 3 kids, married over 10 years...
    i'm 22 and my hubby 25, baby's 16 months. i go to school full time and work 4 days. he works full time 5 days. we ';tango'; 3-5x per week times 4 weeks= 12-20 times a month
    If you're measuring it on a ';monthly'; basis...you're not having enough.
    About 3-4 times a week so about 12-16 months a month. Sometimes more...God Bless.
    Like 12-15, but maybe that's why we had four kids in five years.
    My husband and i are in our early twenties as well, and we have a 2 1/2 year old. I would say about 6 times a week!! YAY lol
    We make up for our busy week schedules on the weekends when my 8 year old is at grannies and the baby is sleeping. Sooo like 10 times a month roughly. We're the same age.

    My fiancee and I are supposed to get married in Mexico this December. Should we re-plan due to the swine flu?

    We have our hearts set on a specific spot outside of Playa del Carmen. As this is our wedding, we have several people planning on coming from all over the U.S. Thus, we have to make plans as early as possible. Should we just forget about Mexico at this point altogether? and go with a backup plan?My fiancee and I are supposed to get married in Mexico this December. Should we re-plan due to the swine flu?
    Hola. Oh honey please. December? Swine flu can only last a few weeks or months long before it dies out....its just like the common flu we all get back home....just a new strain.





    Seriously, you should be fine for december. That is 8 months away. Have a wonderful wedding!My fiancee and I are supposed to get married in Mexico this December. Should we re-plan due to the swine flu?
    It will have reached your house by then, might as well go and enjoy yourself.
    Just wait a while, and watch the news and see what happens for ex sample, we were thinking about canceling our Myrtle Beach Trip, due to the while fires but they got them contained so we didn't cancel Good Luck, and have a good wedding, =]
    Go with a back-up plan


    If this does gets out of hands as to a pandemic then yes I have read that it will take scientist a round 2-3 months to find out how this virus works and an extra 3-4 months to find a cure there isn't a cure, there are vaccine to control the infection but not to cure it or so I've read





    good luck and hope every thing turns out great
    That's plenty far enough out that this will have blown over by then. Besides, it will probably be pretty cheap, with the flu scare and all.
    December? Are you serious? That's so ridiculously far away and all this Swine Flu nonsense will be gone within the next few weeks. You have nothing to worry about.





    And even if you did get sick, you would still be fine. Just get antibiotics and ride it out like any illness.

    Do married people stay together if they both join the Air Force?

    My husband and I are both joining the air force.


    I need details about EVERRYTHINGGG.


    Will they keep us together?


    If not when can we be together?Do married people stay together if they both join the Air Force?
    it depends on your Basic training %26amp; AIT schools.


    YOU will be together or close to each other at your first assignmentDo married people stay together if they both join the Air Force?
    The Air Force works extremely hard to keep military couples together as much as possible.





    Having compatible AFSCs is a plus but if one of you has an AFSC that is only at a small number of bases, what typically happens is that you get stuck at one those bases for a long time. I had a firiend who was stationed at Langley for seven years because of her husband's AFSC. They hated Langley...they ended going to Mt Home (Idaho) and loved it.





    Keep in mind that the AF radius for join spouse assignments is 50 miles so one of you could be at one base and the other at another one. You just live in the middle.





    When you get a chance google AFI 36-2110, Chapter 5. That's the Air Force instruction on Join spouse assignments. After you have had a look at it, we'll talk about AF Form 1048 (Join Spouse Intent Code)
    As long as you're married I don't see why not, because you both get the same house (if on a base.)





    Deployments I don't think you'd be together though.
    It depends on your MOS and if they need you both or not. My best friend just got to her new duty station and her husband just got his orders to another one about 500 miles away.


    Good luck to you both.
    Your chances are Slim to None...
    These are called joint assignments and depends on your respective career fields - bear in mind - ';needs of the Air Force'; come first. You can't be in the same chain of command, so different and open career fields will help. The more specialized one of you is - the fewer bases to choose from - if you both are specific (ie: missile technician and F-22 mechanic) the greater likelihood that you could not find a base that does both missions. But, a personal specialist and a medical technician would be easier to find open slots in both fields at the same base. You would not be able to be together during basic.
    That would depend on your respective jobs and whats available at your rank at any given base. Attempts are made to keep you together, but there are no guarantees. There will be plenty of occasions where you are separated...when and how long is anyone's guess. Nobody can tell you that with any certainty.
    It depends on your MOS. If you are a pilot and he is working some administrative job chances are you will be slit up (up to 12 month pilot training).





    You should talk to a recruiter for further information about special requests and whatnot.

    Saturday, December 26, 2009

    What type of wedding will a muslim and christian have if they were going to get married?

    So I was wondering im a muslim male and Im attracted to white christian girls so if I wanted to get married to one what type of wedding would I have to have? would I HAVE to change her religion ?What type of wedding will a muslim and christian have if they were going to get married?
    Hi Omar,





    First of all, Nora is wrong. I'm Christian and I'm going to be marrying a Syrian Muslim boy I met in the US in college soon (in shah allah!!). We've been together for 5 years and I'm still a practicing Christian. I have also learned Arabic to be able to speak with his family.





    We are having one wedding in the US for my family and one in Syria for his family. I am not converting because I don't have to. If you have to convert to be able to marry someone, in my opinion it's wrong and only produces someone who doesn't really believe the ';new'; faith because they didn't convert on their own conscience....they were forced or they couldn't marry.





    I do suggest the two-wedding affair because it makes everyone happy on both sides. Yes, it will be a little expensive, but when the time comes, you get creative.





    So Omar, you be attracted to white, Christian girls. As long as your family is OK with it and hers, there's no problem. Just don't expect them to understand your culture right away. It does take time. good luck!!





    Oh and btw...I'm pretty sure you can do both ceremonies because I've seen with my own eyes where a Muslim man married a Hindu girl and they had a wedding for both families, then she converted to Islam. Even though she converted, she had to have the Hindu wedding or else neither her family nor the government in India would have considered them married. (from what I was told)What type of wedding will a muslim and christian have if they were going to get married?
    The Quran says you're allowed to marry Christians and Jews, it's in verse 5:5. There was at least one other verse that said the same I'm sure, but I can't find it (I think it was in Surah el-Baqara...or one of the first 4 surahs)





    It certainly doesn't mention anything about conversion, only implies that you must treat them fairly.





    The question is whether your family would accept it, as these days Islam is more about culture and tradition and identity, as opposed to the religion itself, people don't always want to agree with what the Quran says when it conflicts with tradition. It really depends on your family.





    And if your reffering to what type of wedding ceremony, that's more of a personal thing. There isn't really any ';muslim wedding ceremony'; its more cultural in the muslim world, so you could have one according to your culture, or hers (I'm not sure about restrictions on a Christian wedding ceremony), or just have a civil wedding and get married by a judge.
    God says for couple to be in about the same place in their walk with Him. If the Christian is nonpracticing or extremely understanding no you would not have to change. But if she is a practicing Christian and does as God commands than yes you would have to change or she would have to change. However she would still be a Christian because once you are in God's hands no one can take her out of His hands.
    yes
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  • What is crossing the line when you are married?

    Sex, obviously, but when is the line crossed before that, and only physically??What is crossing the line when you are married?
    Any time you feel the need to hide something from your spouse, you have crossed the line.What is crossing the line when you are married?
    When you begin to feel ashamed or like the person above said, that you should hide something. But the regular line crossing would be more than a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. I'm not one thats big on the physical stuff in marriage, because you and your husband are supposed to be together for life, and if he LOVES you, but your just never home and he wants some snookie right then and there, he could practically go get it anywhere, its just if you or your husband actually develop feelings for the person that you are having the affair with thats when the problem begins and the word divorce is flung around like a bean ball sack. But like I said generally it would be when you feel you should hide something from your partner or when you feel ashamed, when there's more than just a hug or a kiss on the cheek from the person , or when you feel that you're developing feelings for someone else besides your husband.
    I think it all depends on the situation. However, I think any form of physical or sexual relationship with someone other than your spouse is wrong. There are also times when you get too emotionally attached to someone else, which would also be considered ';crossing the line';.
    As adults we know what that line is, touching, little things you say that you would never say in front of your wife is wrong so ask yourself what is driving this and why are you willing to put your marriage on the line to flirt with someone else? Flirt with your wife...send her love text notes...let her know that you desire her, want her and see how she responds....put the fire back into your marriage before you allow it to go out...
    I feel that in any committed relationship, even kissing is crossing the line. If you are married and having feelings for another person, the best thing to do is either ignore those feelings and be happy in your relationship, or discuss this with your partner.
    That's up to you and your spouse.


    Not everyone has the same line.


    From swingers and open marriages to people who feel that masturbation and looking at porn are cheating, each relationship is defined by those who are in it.
    The line is only crossed when you get caught. Like everything else in life! (In sports) Its not a foul/penalty if the ref don't see it. Its not against the law to blow a red light if you don't get pulled over. Its not cheating if they dont find out.... End of story
    Anything past a hug. By hug I mean the type you give to Grandma -- not a hot and heavy groping hug.





    Holding hands, kissing, massages, touching their face, or rubbing their arm are all examples of things that are WAY past a Grandma hug!
    Anything that you can not do in front of your spouse is crossing the line. If you feel the need to hide something, it's because it's not okay.
    I think you know in your heart when that line is crossed physically or emotionally. If you can't tell your spouse what you did with someone else, then it is wrong.
    hugs kisses sexual flirty text messages and emails...and if you have to think about possibly crossing the line...then you are about to cross the line...
    depends where you both agree to put the line. Or rather, if it involves another woman and you have to go behind her back...it's cheating!
    anything that is hidden from one another is crossing the line..
    Sexual touching or sexual suggestion.
    serious flirting is over the line- if you are married
    my definition of crossing the line is getting caught. if you don't get caught, nothing happened.
    Kissing is crossing the line. Hugs are ok because everyone gets hugs
    Eating with someone else.
    Anything you wouldn't be doing with your spouse watching!
    Spending time with someone other than your spouse.(No she is not a friend) time.You know what I mean!
    sex, or close to it.
    anything that would make your spouse feel bad

    Ladies, what are you doing to reduce your married carbon footprint?

    Nevermind your large carbon butt print.





    I'm talking the prints left by your feet ladies!





    Oops I mean...





    What are you doing to quit wasting so much gas in those SUV's that have your large butt print permanently embedded in them seats?Ladies, what are you doing to reduce your married carbon footprint?
    YOUR LONELY AREN'T YOU? I am really starting to pitty you and your blow up doll.Ladies, what are you doing to reduce your married carbon footprint?
    You want honesty? Then my answer is nada. My skinny *** is loving my cushy SUV. All 100 pounds of me is imprinted in there while I enjoy the air conditioning. I have too much on my mind to think about stuff. I waste gas because at this moment, Idon't care. There, at least I am honest about it.
    Honey, I ride my bike, walk, or take the subway. And that's why my a$$ looks as good as it does. So come ON ladies, if I can do it, so can YOU!





    P.S. Bruce, you're nothing but a big MEANIE! If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.





    Ciao, Baby.
    Actually, I drive a Civic. My house doesn't have central air. Almost everything I use is organic. And why am I explaining myself to you? Who exactly are you to make such generalizations?
    awww your cranky again. You really do need to get a hobby. And i don't drive a SUV. But my bum is curvy and i haven't heard any complaints. DEAL WITH IT
    Maybe the question should be, what are YOU doing to reduce your ego-manic, chauvinist, pig-headed impact on this world?





    Oh, that's right, nothing at all.
    what does being married have to with this? and why are you assuming women drive big gas gussling SUV's...men drive big trucks...boy!
    LOL....not an issue for me...I drive a Hyundai Sonata...and I got a tiny butt thank you very much!

    I purchased a house with my boyfriend, how will we do taxes since we are not married.?

    We live in California. We are told it will be difficult to do taxes since we are not married. Can't we both file together and get to claim the house payment and taxes. We do have a child together she is 9 years old.I purchased a house with my boyfriend, how will we do taxes since we are not married.?
    You look at both your ownership interests and which bills you paid during the year.





    If you own half and paid half of the interest and property taxes, then half of those go on your tax return (see the instructions for schedule A to determine how to report the interest).





    If either one of you is planning to claim HOH filing status, you need to be able to prove that *you* are the one who paid more than half of the bills.I purchased a house with my boyfriend, how will we do taxes since we are not married.?
    No you can't file together since you aren't married.





    You can claim any house-related deductions, mortgage and real estate taxes, that you actually paid. If you split the payments 50-50 for example, then you could each deduct half. If one of you pays the entire amount, that person gets the deductions. That assumes you are both on the mortgage and on the title - you can't deduct interest if you aren't on the mortgage, or property tax if you aren't on the title.
    its not hard, but if you are not good at filling out tax forms just pay a good tax preparer.





    but yes, your not being married makes a few issues that must be taken into account when filing taxes. but nothing over the top difficult.





    all you do is go together to fill out your forms, and dont fight about who gets to claim what. the interest on the loan can only be claimed buy the one of you who is on the bank's papers or both of you if you both appear on them but you must divide it.





    by dont fight who gets what, i mean you wont be filing as married so you have to split the deductions some how.
    Well heck, you bought a house and had a child together why not get married? You will be better off getting married.
    Get married.

    For married men, when was the last time you bought your wife some jewelry just because you wanted to show love?

    My husband got me something pretty and it wasn't my birthday! It was a surprise!For married men, when was the last time you bought your wife some jewelry just because you wanted to show love?
    the bracelet I got three years ago at the Play Boy Jazz Festival given to me by my husband.. I can use it as a down payment for a house and it's beautiful. It was a surprise to me too.For married men, when was the last time you bought your wife some jewelry just because you wanted to show love?
    I don't do that anymore.





    I got tired of her telling me she liked something, but when I would buy it for her later she would return it for something different. So I stopped doing it.
    MIne won't buy me any jewlery cause I am allergic to metal although my EX husband knew this and still got me jewlery.... came in handy though when I PAWNED it all LOL
    I gave my fiance a beautiful diamond ring to show her I loved her. It was last December before Christmas. I plan on doing more of that sort of thing as tie goes by.
    Am married 25 yrs just got a watch JPS for my wife last week only and it was not her birthday
    Umm, never. My husbands not like that...Wanna swap husbands? lol
    It was on our trip to St Thomas. I got her a very nice ring she liked.

    Will i be considered a whore if i married this man for his money?

    I work go to school everyday and he pay all my bill and thing but i sleep around with other mens arounds my school. Tell what a women should do now.Will i be considered a whore if i married this man for his money?
    no it's called a golddiggerWill i be considered a whore if i married this man for his money?
    thats adultury but you can repent and accept jesus as your savior
    Yeah, you're a whore. You know it.
    If he is willing why do you care?
    Don't sleep around. He's trying to be good to you. Be good back to him. Life is not a free ride.
    you should start charging.
    It depends if you have feeling for this man . If your just married him for money i think so. You;ll called a whore
    You r a gold-digger and a whore! He's not in love with you he just wants the sex! and when it's all done and over , what u will be is the whore who sleep around for money. Get a job and support yourself. Make your mama proud of you.
    clean up your act....and grow up. If you marry a man for his money...you are considered a ';gold-digger';...if you sleep around married or NOT....you are promiscuous, period. What are gaining anyway? If all a man does for you is pay your bills...he just wants you for ';one thing';....wow, that is very satisfying,(?????) Get a job and pay your own bills....and stop ';sleeping around';....you are headed for a bunch of problems...and diseases.
    Yes, you are! And you are just using him for his money!!!!! That is NOT good!
    This cannot be for real...





    If it is, then you need to start getting your act together. I would suggest you start by maybe talking to a counsellor at the school, and ask for some help...Maybe they can find you a proper home and help you get independant and start a new life...
    You just convicted yourself of prostitution with your own words.
    Yes you definately are a slutty whore.





    Frankly, i hope you fall flat on your ****.
    That would be a gold digger.
    yes
    men use women all the time, live the life baby and have fun.. from one woman to another, you only live once so enjoy!
    no ur a golddigger
    you should stop sleeping around . so what if you marry this guy for his money youll always have no financial worries and thats a good thing. stop treating your boy bad tough thats not very fair
    I think you should give the money back because you sure are not learning English properly!!!