If married people agree to a 3some is it still adultery?

A friend of mine and her husband are thinking of bringing someone into their bedroom to spice up their sex life. He doesn't think it is considered adultery if they both agree to it but she does. What is the right answer?If married people agree to a 3some is it still adultery?
Come here so that I can throw some bibles at you, YES it's still adultery!!!!! Plus, that's just plain old nasty.If married people agree to a 3some is it still adultery?
well did the preacher or whoever married them mention anything about to cleave unto each other unless they both agree to bring someone else into the marriage there is the answer. I have never been to a wedding ceremony that they mention that it is not OK to bring someone else into the bedroom unless you both agree to take the brides maid with you on the honeymoon then that makes it all ok as long as you are both good with this. really did you even have to ask this question they know that it is wrong they are just trying to justify it. just because you both agree does not change it in Gods eyes.
The right answer is that a marriage is exactly what the participants decide that it is. And no one on Earth has the right to explain to a couple what their marriage means to them. (and look at all these nosy neighbors right here that think that they have the right to define other people's relationships for them!)





If they both agree to have sex with someone else, then no one is breaking any promises to anyone.
as marriage goes in the US it is a religious union, which is outlined in the bible. It doesnt make it the right way, but it translates into adultery. In all reality they can do what they want, but the idea of watching my spose touch another woman would make me mad. She should soul search and really try to imagine what the next day or week will be like.
she is correct


and it usually the men who want the 3 somes


for them it's a fantasy lived true


but when you marry you vowed to have no other


other wise why even marry and stay monogamous?





they will be divorced soon if they try it


as resentment usually sets in and it tend to break up marriages



this is just complete insanity. of course it is. I just don't understand this at ALL. this is SO going down a wrong path..no...it's like jumping off a cliff as far as a relationship goes.


There are certainly more and better things to try in spicing up a sex life. like communcation for one. communication between TWO people..alone together...no one else around. try that.
Yup, it is adultery even if both were on board. Monogamy is monogamy and it can not be anything but what it is.
not if they both agree but it is opening up their relationship for failure, I think. Anticipation is better than the real thing, my opinion.
No, especially if both parties agree about the ';threesome'; itself.
Absolutely!!!
definitely, and it will lead to problems later.
Yes, whether they agree or not.
This is between her and her husband, not you.
to me it is 10 times worste cuz they do it on your face . Nasty!
Is the extra woman really hot?


And who will she work on?
not if they use goat intestine instead of condoms
yes.
I think it is.
no
yes it is