Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Would you get married without the permission of your parents?

Would you get married without the permission of your parents?Would you get married without the permission of your parents?
When you are under the age of 18, you have no other choice. If you are still living at home and do not have anywhere else to go, you don't really have much choice but to follow their rules.





However, if you are an adult and managing your own life in your own home, then no. I have never sought or asked for my parents permission to marry.





Parents, if you are an adult, do not need to give permission. But i'd listen to why they thought i shouldn't get married and weigh in what they had to say. If they were worth while people that is. My grandmother did try to warn me not to marry the first time, i wish i had been mature enough to actually listen and think about what she had said. It might have saved me some heartache and major problems. I never asked, she volunteered the information.





The second time i didn't ask either, but that time, no one objected in the least. Been a great marriage. ;)Would you get married without the permission of your parents?
First off, if I'm old enough to get married, I don't need my parents ';permission'; for anything.





Do you mean their blessing? Yes, I would get married without my parents blessing.





If they disapproved and didn't want me to marry the man I intended to, I'd first hear them out and try to decide why. After listening to how they felt, I'd have a nice long think about WHY they felt that way, and whether it were justifed or not. I would want to make sure that I wasn't blinded by love and that he really was the right choice for me. If after all that, I still felt strongly that I wanted to marry that person then I would -- with OR without my parents blessing.
Well, in some cultures permission from the parents is a general rule, that went not followed, you may be ostracized from friends and family. So you could to it without permission but do you really want to go life alone until you could build other bonds with other people.





Thankfully I was not raised in that culture and can make my own decisions but with hindsight I now know I should have listened to my mother.
Marriage is a bond not only between 2 humans, but also between 2 families. Family support is needed when husband and wife run into crisis or are having trouble with their marriage.





My parents were happy when I introduced my BF to them. I got their support and also the support from my BF's parents and after that we got married.





We are married for 2 years and my parents and in-laws are very helpful to us.
in the world outside of your parents house we all expect the world to respect our decisions to make any life we choose for ourselves.your parents have to learn the same that is if you are sure in what you want and learn from your mistakes without p[lacing blame
if you're talking about as an adult... yes I would. I would ask them if they approved though, but ultimately I would make my own decision because its my life and hopefully I would have the ability to pick my own good match.
I was not aware that adults needed permission to do anything.
If you are old enough why would you need permission? But I don't think I could have married my husband if my parents didn't like him!
i waited until i was old enough to not need my parents' permission.
I don't need my parent's permission to get married. As a legal adult, I make my own decisions.
Nope.
why would you care what your parents think. i wouldnt ask them.
If im 12

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