Thursday, May 13, 2010

What are the biggest changes in a relationship once you get married?

There wasn't any for us, we got to know each other as friends first, we then dated, then moved in together. I wasn't big on marriage so it was my decision to not marry at the time. We grew closer and our secret is the friendship. We both have shared and separate interests. There is trust and we both have friends of both sexes. We married when we thought we wanted to start a family, nothing changed :)What are the biggest changes in a relationship once you get married?
You have to stop behaving like you are single; stop flirting with other people; stop spending time away from you spouse; stop being irresponsible.





You have to start to consciously loving each other; it will no longer come to you in compulsions.





In virtually everything you do, you can choose to either grow closer together or further apart. Keep choosing further apart and apart happens.What are the biggest changes in a relationship once you get married?
You realize that the image of marriage presented to you by your parents, friends or the media is more of a lie than it is real. The realness begins when the honeymoon period wears off and you see how different you and your spouse are. There is no question that you love them but it makes you wonder.
joint bank account (usually)


same last name (usually)


living in the same residence/sharing everything


commitment


more sex or lack of sex (depends)
Seriously, if you love someone enough, there shouldn't be any changes in a relationship - it should be just the same, happy, loving etc.
is this the poster AlexG? just asking because of your avatar.





the biggest change when you get married is....





being committed. it's not like being just boyfriend and girlfriend.
You begin to take each other for granted. Familiarity breeds contempt.
I guess it hits you then.
There shouldn't be any. The only way to prevent that is to take your time....
Your stuck with them unless you and her want to get a divorce
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