My GF has got engaged and getting married soon,she dose not want to marry that guy but coz of parents pressure?

My girlfriend has got engaged and getting married soon but she dose not want to marry that guyand not finding him as she wants but coz of parents happiness and pressure she is doing it what could be the possible way to take her out of that situation and we getting marry together?My GF has got engaged and getting married soon,she dose not want to marry that guy but coz of parents pressure?
Let your GF speak to the man (Groom) %26amp; tell him about your pre-marital affair. Let her tell him frankly that she is being forced to marry him without her consent %26amp; free will. She should tell him that the forced marriage will be nothing but voidable marriage which she will challenge in the court sooner she come out from the natural guardianship/custody of her parents (father) %26amp; seek decree of Nullity from the court, hence the Groom himself should refuse for the marriage to avoid legal hassles afterwards. Let me one point very clear the female of age more then 18 years has legal right to refuse to marry any person but as in our Indian society the female of adult age (18years or more) are subdued in nature %26amp; don't speak out boldly as in other countries, considering this soft nature they are unable to refuse to marry but if such female ask the man to refuse to marry her, he can do so being much bolder in nature that is why I suggested all this to you. Further when I say natural guardianship/custody of parents it is more in natural sense rather legal as in India females/males live along with parents even after the marriage %26amp; are part of their father's family, in foreign countries even the unmarried children once grow up (18 years or more) usually move out to start their own family, which is not so in Indian society.My GF has got engaged and getting married soon,she dose not want to marry that guy but coz of parents pressure?
ask her to take a tough decision at right time of life. if she is with you go ahead and marry her if not leave her. I know it hurts but this is the basic naked truth girls always take the initiative of their parents and you will be left as a loser.
It is really up to her what she wants to do. She has decide between being happy and being loyal to her family. You have no say so really. That is an adult decision that she has to make either way you will have to deal with the out come of the situation. But she has to have a back bone in order to leave.
Omg!





Are you kidding me?





She IS THE MOST FEARFUL AND WEAK PERSON if she CANNOT TELL HER PARENTS who she wants to marry.





So on the GOOD NOTE, you are not loosing much! You wouldnt want a wife so mindless!





Hope you have better luck next time!
make her parents to know the pain of your gf, by making some seens in real infront of their eyes or atleast as you are a friend why cant u take that part and make her parents abt her pain and all... be as a frd
so who cares


her parents did so many things for her till today


spend money on her clothes, career, illness


they truly cares for her and would have found right match for her


tell her parents talk to them


and sort out what they say
I love India. Thought you secretly married a month ago?
Just wait until she gets divorce. If it doesnt work out then you will be there for her.
Can't she make her own decisions? She's an adult, right? If she didn't want to marry the guy, she wouldn't.
sounds filmy...watch the movie Dhee and you'll get ideas how to stop their marriage
get sure first that your gf not lying.might be that he is more deserving than you.


if she is more than 18 years, then she is free to take decision. parents are immaterial there