What can I do, OR how to protect MY future BEFORE letting my girlfriend a make a baby or getting married?

I don't want to send allimony while she takes off with it, or be stuck in an unbearable family situationWhat can I do, OR how to protect MY future BEFORE letting my girlfriend a make a baby or getting married?
I don't know where in this situation you are in, but don't sleep around and use condoms if you want to minimise your chance of unwanted pregnancies.





Have a pre-nuptial agreement before marriage.





Choose wisely.





Or avoid it entirely.





HarrietWhat can I do, OR how to protect MY future BEFORE letting my girlfriend a make a baby or getting married?
simple


NEVER marry





there is no benefit in it for you





if you acquire wealth and assets


while she is married to you


she is entitled to 50% in most states where community property is law





look at all those mega divorces from guys like Micheal Jordan and so on, and the record amounts of money they had to pay out plus alimony...





why people with wealth marry is beyond me





the only person who is smart is Gene Simmons ( of KISS fame )


he has never married his Playboy Playmate of 21 years


he has a mansion in LA, CA, he has 2 kids with her.. she benefits from the nice lifestyle they leads, he buys her things, but if she ever cheated, she would get nothing, zip nada.. except anything he bought her in her name.. he is smarter than most high profile celebrities and atheletes





in any no fault state


a women cam marry you, bear you children, cheat, file for divorce


and since it would be a no fault divorce, can just say irreconcialible differences as the reason for divorce ( since you cannot use cheating as fault ), then take 50% of all your assets, your pension and a huge cost of living support for life ( in CA if over 10 year marriage ) plus child support based on income of the husband





Johnny Carson had legendary alimony payments to his ex for years, and every so often she would go back to court ot argue ( and get ) increases in her 30,000 dollar a month alimony support, claiming she just couldn't live on such an income based on her lifestyle





keep in mind if you have a Gf and have kids and then break up


you're still on the hook for child support, no matter what





but at least you do not have to pay some women who is lazy and does not want to wok , alimony.. women see alimony as entitlements ( think welfare ) hence why they choose their targets carefully to maximize the payout.





you best bet would be to put assets in a trust, buy a home, set in a trust, and then rent the home from the trust, form a LLC and take a small salary from the LLC, but drive companies cars..





therefore should a GF ever take you to court for child support, it will be based on income, and the lesser the income, the better. Just never let her know that you only earn 12k at your LLC , and have no assets ( remember all the assets, cars and such are either the LLC's assets or in a trust )
first of all... you sound extremely unsure as to whether or not you even want this. If you don't... don't do it. You owe no one anything except for yourself. Tell her you're not ready, even if you are you want to be ';settled'; first and apparently you're not. Take your time... there's no hurry for things like that. If she can't understand that then maybe she's not the one. think long and hard about it.
You can start by using condoms, so you won't have unwanted births. As for getting married you should make sure U have lots of money in the bank; that's my opinion.
Keep it in your pants until your married if you don't want to make a baby. Nothing is foolproof.
I'm confused. Is she pregnant. If not, use a condom every time. It's 98% effective when used properly and tell her to get on birth control. Sex ed anyone
I'm confused. Is she pregnant? Is the kid out? I say masturbate at least twice a week.
This makes no sense? obviously you don't really love your gf, just dump her! Or wrap it up!
don't get married and have kids.