Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Would you get married again, if for some reason your current spouse was no longer around?

I've been married for decades and for the most part it's a wonderful life. But it was such a long painful process getting to where we are in our relationship, and even now there are times when I think that if she was no longer here for some reason, I would never get married again. I would just have friends, or hire an escort once in a while. Any other married people feel this way?Would you get married again, if for some reason your current spouse was no longer around?
Well, the strongest and most solid relationships are the ones that have struggled and made it through, you seem to be in one of those relationships and obviously getting married again and going through the same struggles or worse with someone else is tiring emotionally.


I don`t know if I would to be very honest, I wouldn`t want to...but I wouldn`t want to end up alone either...because I`ve seen how older people end up alone and it can be pretty sad sometimes.Would you get married again, if for some reason your current spouse was no longer around?
I had a very, very bad marriage first time around, and a very, very good marriage second time around. Unfortunately, my ';good'; hubby passed away. I've dated some, but can't get into marriage mode again, because I KNOW how bad it can be if it isn't the right person, and I haven't met anyone who could hold a candle to my ';good'; hubby.





Never say never, but I'm prepared to go it alone from here on out.
My husband and I were married late. We went through a long painful process of adjusting and compromising our differences. If whatsoever happen if our marriage, perhaps having a companion but not re-married. The thought of going through the painful process over again (only with someone else) is not too appealing for both of us. You're not alone.
I would not... now I would not mind a live in bf.. but no more paperwork. 1. I think marriage is way over rated 2. I do now believe that you do not need a piece of paper to tell you that you are commited.





But this is just me, I am on my 2nd marriage.. and with my husband I am his 4th wife...
Yeah I feel ya, I wouldn't marry again ither, my spouse and I been through hell and back and I don't feel I could go through another because it takes a whole lot to start all over again with the getting to know one another, trust issues etc...
i'm with you, i wouldn't get married again either. its a lot of work and i'm glad i have my husband but i don't think i'd wanna go through everything again.
I absolutely would NOT get married again. This is my second marriage, and I wish I'd stayed single.
yes, I would be willing to remarry some rich old man who is about to sh!t the bed.
I very strongly doubt it. I've gotten so set in my ways, I really like my solitude. 鈾モ櫏
I feel the same way. I don't want to go through all of it all over again.
It would be a long time, maybe a week or two.
No, I don't feel that way. I've been married for 37years. We have had ups and downs, but mostly we've been happy together. My spouse is my absolute best friend and I would be very lonely if he wasn't around. We recently learned he has cancer and has to be given chemo. This is reality! I want to keep him as long as I can. So to answer you question, if I lost him, and met another that was as wonderful a person I would definitely marry again. Life looks very empty without a close partner! What a cold life it would be to go out with an escort. To PAY for company is pretty sad.

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