Thursday, May 13, 2010

How should a newly married couple live? Is it good to live with in-laws?

Very bad idea....How should a newly married couple live? Is it good to live with in-laws?
Coming from someone who currently lives with the In-Laws, I really don't recommend it. If you can, I would try to avoid it at all costs. There's nothing like having your own place and privacy to go with it because when you live with them you have none. They know all your routines and nothing remains private. Plus, it gives them an opportunity to judge and criticize you more because they are around you. Marriage is hard enough as it is and it takes a lot of work and effort from both sides with the occasional added stress. Why would you want to add more stress to the marriage by living with your In-Laws? A newly married couple should live alone without the influence, judgment, and invasion of others privacy. Please take my advice into consideration and Best of Luck to you both!How should a newly married couple live? Is it good to live with in-laws?
Hell no!


Get your own place (I take it you have not lived together before) - besides, a house should be a wedding present from your daddy!
Will no life at all.








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DO NOT live with the in-laws. The best thing for your marriage will be privacy, independence and self-reliance. Do what you have to do to stay on your own.
Live on your own so you can enjoy the specialness, the privacy and the spontaneity. Don't live with your in-laws - even if you love them lots, that's just inviting trouble.
ohhh no in laws pls,its always better to be away so that the love and care remains in hearts rather than living togethre and fighting over every little thing and then moving away,which is too late cos it takes hardly and time for relations to get sour!
NO! your marriage wont last if the in-laws are there
no no no thye will interfere in your business. you need privacy and when yu have fights you dont want to have them chose sides
I've never been married, but it seems like it would SUCK to live with in-laws. If it's totally necessary, cause of money or something else, well you gotta do what you gotta do. But I think it would suck. Good luck!
Thats a BAD ideal to live with the in-laws. Most people cant get along with their in-law in the first place, others can but living with them is different. Most of them try to run your life, and push their views on you about how things should be done. It gets annoying real quick. I love my in-laws but would NEVER live with them. Unless it was the case where they was old and had medical issues where they need someone to look after them and care for them.
I dont know why pple r saying NO NO NO.I dont know where the person is from whos has asked this question. I am from India.If I can manage to live with my parents for all the years b4 mariage then why cant One adjust with their in-laws? They are like your parents only. So wats the prob?
living with in laws is a no no for me. it's better to live in a small place with just the two of you than living with in laws
Do not live with in laws.
i believe that if you cannot live on your own and fully support yourselves then you should not get married.





it's a bad idea for a married couple to live with anyone besides the 2 of them.
Heavens no! Even a small studio apartment establishes the home as yours.......save living with the folks for when alzheimers sets in.





You've lived in their home, now its time to make your own!
Live and let live. It depends on the in laws.
a big fat NO NO NO NO...... if you can not afford to marry and be on your own, then wait till you have the money to do so..... God bless
no cause they will never let you live your married lives and they will always interfere with your decision making, start looking for your own space even if it is hard, you'll be happy you did.
HAPPY !!! and the only way to be that is not to live with In-laws!!!
DO NOT Do IT!
Never with the in laws. NEVER. Even if you have to live in a one room apartment live on your own.
What this old woman has to say about living with in-laws is not on you life if you have any other choice. I lived with my died husbands Mother for awhile and it was okay but if I had my way I would live in a big two or three room tent at a lake or in the desert. Good luck and best wishes.
Well it's upto you. Some of them are really friendly and caring while some can be cruel and can ruin your life. You know them, right? You decide if you can spend everyday with them and if you'll enjoy it.
This is from personal experience, please, please do not live with either your parents or his. It will be total disaster. If you do get along with either set, you won't after you start living with them. There will be an unbelievable amount of tension in the house. Tempers will fly, they will not be able to keep out of your business, they will want to tell you how to live, how to spend you money, where to work, when to work. It will be unbearable for you and your spouse. I had to live with my in-laws for a year and a half. I was miserable, I cried myself to sleep every night because my mother in law said mean horrible things to me. My husband wouldn't stand up to her. I finally told her off. I found a home up for auction and took my husband to see it and told him that we could buy it or we could divorce. We still live in that home 8 1/2 yrs later. This is testament to NOT LIVING WITH ANY INLAWS.
If you are old enough to get married, you are old enough to support yourselves and get your own place. If you weren't ready financially, maybe you should have waited...Well, I guess it is too late for that now, look for an affordable apartment and I do mean affordable...it won't be the best, but at least you will have each other.Time to grow up guys, mom and dad did their job, don't impose on them. Parents don't often say it, but they like their time alone after all the kids are grown and moved out. Time to go....
i have to say that i live with my fionce's parents right now and i'ts not a good idea - don't do it. save up and get a place of your own; his/her mom will drive you nuts. you can never be 'good enough' for thier child. don't do it.
NEVER EVER LIVE WITH YOUR IN-LAWS...YOU WILL END UP GETTING A DIVORCE!!!
That is an awful idea!





You gotta make it on your own, if that means doing it tough, so be it.

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