I don't think I'll have a child until after I'm married. Until then, I might be the only married person left to have a child.
So who got married first before getting pregnant or having kids?Who got married first before getting pregnant or having a baby these days?
i got married first (i was 18 and a virgin till the wedding night) and found out i was pregnant 4 months later.. i'm still continuing college and all.. i'm due in july and my mom volunteered to watch the baby while i go to collegeWho got married first before getting pregnant or having a baby these days?
I am 36 weeks pregnant and my wedding is next Sat. So eventually i am going to be married when I have our first baby.
I got married at 21.
I waited till we both had steady jobs and were making enough money.
We both work with Software Development, (although he makes significantly more than I do - which i don't mind at al!!!! )
I got pregnant at 23 and by the time I have our first child I will be 24.
I have a very supporting, loving husband, family and great in-laws. I know they will be there for me through everything.
Since my in-laws aren't in the US now, I've plans to bring them here after our baby is born.
I just feel so much more secure to have all this stability before having a baby.
I know for a fact that I won't be able to work for a few months after having my baby, So if was un-married who would provide for my baby and I ?
My husband and I planned for over a year for our wedding, and found out about two weeks before we got married that I was pregnant. It was NOT a mistake b/c we were NOT using protection, it was said that if it happend it happend. I am happy with our decision, and now we just can't wait for a little one to be here.
I got Married March 19, 5 days before this I found out I was pregnant.
i was told i could try to have a baby but dont give my hopes up. well i got engaged and 2 months later found out i was pregnant.. we kept the wedding date.. i was only like 20 weeks pregnant so i only has a little pooch.. im also 19 and i hate going to a store and these ladys look at my stomach like oh the poor baby is going to be born to a young mommy.... whats wrong with that? geez
I got married in July and pregnant in August.
I was married in November 2006 and by June 2007 I was pregnant. Of course, there were some smart aleck family members who insisted on ';doing the math';...but we really were married first.
I have a family member who not only had a kid before he married his wife, but wanted to wait until that kid was old enough to be in the wedding. So, their two-year-old daughter was their flowergirl.
Of course, anyone who is having premarital sex (few people can honestly say that they aren't) shouldn't be surprised if they find themselves pregnant and unmarried. Accidents happen (my pregnant belly is the proof).
my husband and i were married in aug 2004 and we're due march 2008. glad we had that time to ourselves too!
I got married before getting pregnant, in fact I also will have been married 3 years by the time this little one makes an appearance.
I got married first. I've been married for almost 4 years now. We started trying almost 2 years ago and 2 miscarriages later I'm now I'm 25 weeks pregnant and all is well.
I was married in the fall of 2005. We started trying in late spring of 2007 and got pregnant right away. Our little girl is due on Valentine's Day!
I got married in 2004, and we waited a bit before trying for a baby. We had tons of fun just the two of us, and when we felt like it was time, we planned for a baby :) She'll be here March 15.
I got married first! We started trying a month after the wedding.
my hubby and i were trying for 7 months before getting married,,, we got married in Sept and conceived in Oct.. so it worked out that way for us
I got married 2 years ago and just found out I am pregnant about a week ago!!
We were married 3 years 10 months when our first came along. In the 3 years, we both got our masters, traveled to Fiji, Hawaii, Guatemala, Costa Rica, Vietnam, Thailand, China, Laos, and all over the US: Nevada, Arizona, NY, Florida.
It was the best time 2 people could have had!
Now that there is 3 of us, we enjoy traveling a little closer to home and still have a wonderful marriage because of it!
I got married and now 5 years later we are finally 15 weeks pregnant! We wanted to wait until we were ready financially, physically, mentally, and emotionally ready!
We got married in December 2000. My daughter was born on 14 August 2006. We were too busy crossing the world to try for kids before that.
Married (date raped at 18 and had baby) but my husband and I waited. TTC# 2 he has is adopting my daughter- Wait- it is worth it!
I got married in 2003 and gave birth to my girl in 2006
I got married first.... and probably hard for alot of people to believe was a virgin before my wedding... I am currently 9 weeks along!
I got married first. We have been married almost 2 years, and together 2 years before we got married. And we are 27 weeks pregnant now.
I do agree though, it isn't as big of a deal to people anymore. And had I got pregnant before I was married, I wouldn't have minded in the slightest bit. I just happened to get married first, and was educated on birth control and contraception at a young age, just to help me make the decision.
I was a virgin until I was married, so obviously we waited until after to have a baby. We'll have been married 3 years by the time our little one comes.
I got married 5 years ago in 2002, and I am now 34 weeks pregnant with our first baby!
I was engaged and ended up getting pregnant. I was on birthcontrol. My daughter walked in me and her Daddy's wedding!
I know, I'm the opposite... we're not married yet, and we intentionally planned on having this baby.
At a routine gyno exam after us getting engaged, we were informed I had endometreitis [sp??] and it would make pregnancy tough later down the line. We talked about moving the wedding up, but its really tough after we had some reservations already made for summer '09. We talked and talked about it, and then decided to try and have a baby now. Having a family means a lot to us, and a year can make a big difference between concieving with endo!
I think your decision is wise though. If there is no reason not to get married first, then why not?
I never thought I'd be planning to have a baby before marriage, but stuff happens!
Good luck to you, and I hope you [even if you are the only one] continue the tradition of being married then having children!
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