My only question is why do Married men cheat and why are woman like myself attracted to married men?

I鈥檝e been hooking up with a married man for 3 months the sex is great I just can't seem to get enough of him and he tells me the same thing. The other day we had sex no sooner he ejaculated went to put his pants on and he was hard again he is 40 yrs old and said that never happened before in his life he said it would normally take 15 min to begin again. Can anything come out of this?My only question is why do Married men cheat and why are woman like myself attracted to married men?
its new and exciting,its called the honeymoon phase of a relationship, and usually nothing comes of something built just on lust and sex, he will soon tire of it and go back to the wife.your being used, and your wasting time on a married man when u should be seeking your forever mate, the one who will love u for u, and not just for what he can get.he is only focused on sex, sex isn't love,right now its new and exciting and strokes his ego, and makes him feel special, but in time he will want to go back to the wife, because the guilt will kill him.My only question is why do Married men cheat and why are woman like myself attracted to married men?
Married men cheat because they think they can get away with it and they have no self control or respect for the women in their lives or the woman they are sleeping with. They are selfish bastards. Women are attracted to married men or taken men because I think it is an ego stroke - he is willing to risk so much for irresistible you. Also, there is something wrong inside of you to make you think you don't deserve a full relationship, just to be used for sex and all the romance and gifts that go along with being a mistress. Real relationships are filled with good and bad and I think women want to avoid the bad.
You answered your own question,,, Married men cheat because of their ego, they feel that they are missing something in their marriage. By the way women do this too,, Except women miss the romance..


And because they need an ego boost they seek out women like you,, And you make your self available ,,, Seldom will a married man leave his wife for another woman,, you are simply a booty call, a change of pace, and you also make him feel young again.. But this wears off and he will return to his wife,,, If you don't beleive me,, call his wife and let her know about your afair with her husband,, and watch the reaction of this so called lover.. Be prepared for some nasty name calling ,,,,,,from him Good Luck
sure what can come of it is


1.he will bring all of his cheating ways to you cause if he will cheat on his wife he will surely do it to you


2 all of his ex wife she use to do it this way stories


3.and you better know those jump right back hard on's are very few and far between!!!


oh yea and best of all his change of life BS!!!


so enjoy another woman's man while you can cause you will be old news soon....................................
Nothing will come of this. He will not leave his wife for you. Women ';like you'; are attracted to married men because it is a challenge. You honestly need someone to validate you so much that your hope is to confirm your validation once he leaves his wife for you. when he doesn't leave, and after you've given all you can, in the end you feel just as useless as you did in the beginning.





if you gained some self respect, and lost some of your insecurities, you'd be better off finding a nice man, who isn't married. counseling and/or therapy should help you lots.





just to add: married men are only the way they are because their wives put in a ton of work on him...he wasn't ';purchased'; that way - he was trained to be that way, or should i say, ';molded';. he is a product of her hard work - her support and her encouragement - even if he is getting his rocks off with you, why would he just let all that other stuff go?





counseling and/or therapy - go.
I have also been always attracted to married men and have been with many of them.





I'm not looking for a commitment from them just casual no strings sex.





Most of these married guys tell me that their wife doesnt give them any and they are probably lying but i dont really care if he is lying cause i get what i want and he gets what he wants.





Me and these guys hook up for sex a few times then we go our separate ways.
Your attracted because its safe emotionally, you know he's not gonna leave his wife therefore you dont have to worry about the relationship aspect of it (dirty laundry, cooking, accountability). He likes it because he's getting his cake and eating it too, no nagging, can leave when he's done and all he gets out of it is sex.
I have been seeing a married man for a few months now and its getting very deep. Neither of us want to end things. It depends on what it is that you want. If you want a emotional connection with some one that's also physical then stay involved. but if you are hoping he leaves and comes to you, that's more than likely not going to happen. I was with a married man for 2 years and we ended on good terms bc i knew my limits, good luck
Been there, done that.





If the sex is great, that's what is coming out of it.





Remember The Rules





Don't call his house


Don't cause him trouble with his wife


When it's over, it's over.





PS.


Thumbs up to michele_zanella for nailing the issue !!!!
The only thing that can and will come out of this is.....PAIN. Mostly, from you. Even though it may be very difficult for you now, you have to let him go. You will definitely suffer in the long run if you stay with him.
why dont you find a man (who is not married ) and you guys can role play that he is married and that way noone gets hurt in the long run.


Every married man has diffrent reasons for cheating.....its not just one major thing.



';Can anything come out of this?';





Alot of heartache. For his wife. You and this jerkwad are morally bankrupt.
The lure of forbidden fruit? There can be many reasons psychological and physiological.
Yes. STD's and a pissed off wife who may kick your sorry butt can certainly come out of it but no much more.
probably only sex will come out of it...
low self esteem and lack of morals.. both of you should be ashamed of yourselves!