Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Are women really a little leary of a guy that is 32 years old and never married before?

I thought never being married before would be a good thing as I'm trying to find someone. But I saw one woman on a dating advice forum that made it sound like a guy that is 32 years old and never married is someone that you should stay away from. Do women really feel that way? I've honestly never married before because I have simply never found the one, and I am trying my best, I'm even on multiple online dating sites.Are women really a little leary of a guy that is 32 years old and never married before?
no, his age has nothing to do with him not being desirable and his attitude about marriage has everything to do about why a marriage minded woman should be leary of him.





I saw and answered a question on here yesterday that a woman had about her 32 year old BF and marriage. Based on the info she provided, it was apparent that she was ready to marry now and he wasn't ready to marry now and probably never would be given his past history w/ women, his family history, and his attitude towards her and her desire to discuss their future which she had mentioned in other posts about him.





I advised her to either decide which was more important to her: him or marriage and then decide what she should do next based on her answer to herself.





a woman who is ready for marriage and a family is wasting her time on someone who has no immediate interest in marriage. It's just proof that their life goals are not similar enough for them to be compatible for the long term.





If you've never been married and you're in your early 30s (or mid30s or late 30s or 40s or whatever) and you are ready to get married then great, you're a fantastic prospect for a woman who is ready to marry.





If you're just stringing someone along while you look for someone ';better'; to marry then do the woman a favor and cut her loose. It makes your life less stressful to not have to deal with someone whining about when you're going to marry them if they aren't who you want to be with or you just aren't ready.





The best thing is to know what it is you want and to communicate that to your partner. Yes, you will have some people lose interest in you if what you want isn't what they want but that's what dating is about. It's getting to know someone to see if you have enough in common to have a future together or to just be playmates.j





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sweetie, if they aren't responding to you then there is something in your profile that is putting them off.





If you have any female friends or female family who can read through your profile--let them and they will tell you what you need to fix. (not guy friends or guy family. you want to know how you are presenting to your target audience)





also don't focus all of your time with online dating. Get out in the real world and do things that interest you and bring you in contact with other people as well.





Good Luck.Are women really a little leary of a guy that is 32 years old and never married before?
Hey man. Here is the best advice you will get. If you feel like something is wrong with you because you have never been married then girls you meet will think the same. People mirror how you feel inside. Get those negative feelings out of your head. Go out everyday knowing that you deserve everything that comes to you and people who know you are happier because they know you. If you keep this mind frame, only good things will happen to you. Get this FREE online dating ebook to help you improve your online dating as well.





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My uncle-in-law is pushing 41 and never married with no decent long term relationship to speak of. I wouldn't worry about 32, in 10 years and your still haven't hitched then I would start being concerned. I'm pretty sure the unc is is either really bad at relationships or gay.
I prefer to date guys who have never been married before--divorced or separated men are more like damaged goods to me. So I would say that you are a jewel and I am certain that you will meet the right woman. Any woman who thinks an unmarried man should be avoided like the plague is crazy!
You can never win man face it. damn if you do damn if you don't. They think you're either a man-whore, a mama's boy, or formerly gay. But I'll bet you'll have no problem with a woman who has children.
Not at all! I think ';never married'; is a far better title than ';divorced';. It's one woman's opinion. I believe most women would prefer a never married man to a divorced man.
Yes.





EDIT: I tend to be leery of men who haven't married by 32, unless they have some history with long term relationships. I'm afraid it does make us think the guy has commitment issues, or difficulties living in cooperation with others. I realize these thoughts may be inaccurate, but there it is.

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