Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?

I am pretty sure he likes me because he keeps going out of his way to talk to me when my husband and his fiance are not home.





What can I do to ';break the ice'; and ';get things going';?Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
cool... say a hi.....invite him for a tea.. it ll take time..chat wit him daily.. try to express ur feeling... come on life iz short...Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
you must be looking for trouble! as i do not suppose you want to


start a foursome or a neighbour war, you need to set matters


straight with your husband first. your choice is to separate, get


a divorce or to stay unhappy. remember '; a horrible end is better


than an unending horror';.


as for your neighbour - he also needs to straighten out his own


relationship first. he can either part with his fiance or stay with her.


if he stays with her, you should'nt become his side-dish.
Maybe try hooking up your husband with his fiance.


This sounds really fun


and if all things went well,


perhaps you both can attach legally. HAPPY AS WELL.
Start by divorcing your husband. That will give you some things to talk about.
Yes theres really no easy answer to this.. Your a married woman you took your oath to be comepltely honest and faithful to your husband... as had he took an oath to love and cherish you no matter what, its apparent hes not fulfilling your needs and crushing your spirit.. So the first step would be to end the marriage. You cant wait to see if a neighbor your intrested in is into you before you end your marriage its wrong as the emotional abuse hes dealing to you, and not to forget the fact he has a fiance. So again my suggestion is to end your doings with hubby before you presue other options.
Let do:


You'; get divorced


He '; break up with his fiancee





If you guys can do, then break it
i am in an emotionally abusive relationship also, It's complicated for me but you are married and I am not. Only engaged. I am breaking the ice with other people and one way is to just say what's on your mind. If you know the person well that you are interested in then I would let them know your situation and your unhappineess. If this person you talk about is really sincere then possibly something could developo between you two that is more satisfying than either relationship you are in now.
Hang the laundry out, all of it.

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