My wife has made some bad decisions in the time we have been married?

She has almost had an affair but it got stopped short because I found out about it.Years later and most recently I caught her emailing an old boyfriend.She says that she was never going to have had sex with anyone else (but of course she would say this !) My question is, do you think it would be out of line for me to have her take a lie detector test if she says she has nothing to hide ?My wife has made some bad decisions in the time we have been married?
A lie detector test is a very bad idea.....simply because they are not 100% accurate. I watched a program on polygraph exams, and I was appalled. The examiner takes into account, who is most believable to him, and each time, he went in that direction. If they were 100% fool proof, then they would be admissible in court. I'm just saying, that there is no way I would allow a lie detector to determine the outcome of my marriage. I would suggest that you sit her down, and simply ask her what's going on. If you have proof, then she will have no excuses for her behavior. If you can't trust her, then divorce in imminent.My wife has made some bad decisions in the time we have been married?
if you are 100% sure that she is having an affair and you have solid proof that she was emailing and she has been giving you not reasonable answers then you should take for a lie detector test.


because when you are commit-ed each partner should not be doing things like this x lovers should be something of the past and the fact that she went as far as having an affair or even having a cup of Coffee with other guy without you knowing is not acceptable at all,she did not think of your feeling were was her love for you then does she have a guilty conscious.


is there something in your guy's relationship that pushed her do these things a person wont just do these things maybe the spark is gone or maybe theres no more care it also depends how long have you been married,if it can be solved solve it try as hard .
Maybe instead of a lie detector test, a better idea would be to have a real conversation with her and find out why she is feeling the need to seek attention from other men. I am not saying you have to share any fault in this, but I am saying something is missing from her life and she is trying to fill it. And I would believe her that she wasn't intending on having sex with others, she is on a bad path but if she really wanted to cheat she would have done it already.
You have to take people's acts the way they are and appear or else you won't know what's true anymore. Obviously she is hooc*e mama, a loyal, devouted wife will be planning what to cook you next, cleaning, go to work.....You only have 3 choices, 1.watch her sleeping with somebody next time, 2. dump her, or if you love her so much and she is worth it other ways, try to mold her into what you want, which is not impossible, but very hard. Whatever you choose, good luck!
If you're even thinking about lie detectors then you have serious trust issues in your marriage!





You know she nearly cheated before - but do you know why? Either work on it together, or decide you can't trust her anymore and break up.
A lie detector test can never be an enhancement to an marriage. If you feel that she is having either and emotional or sexual affair with someone then your need to question her commitment to you and the marriage.
How do you know she never cheated? She may already have slept with many men from the way her actions sound. Chances are, she has screwed someone else by the way she keeps doing this, do you still want to be with someone like that?
how about you just leave...you can torture her all you like with your machines or your attitude, but why bother...you don't trust her, so do both of you a favor...grow up and get out.
And even if she passes it


YOU Still won't trust her


A lie detector test is not going to fix


your Marriage only God you %26amp; your


Wife can do that...
Before you try this, please watch the episode of ';Penn and Tellers, ********'; where they point out that lie detectors do not work.





Perhaps that money would be better spent on couples counseling.
Dont waste your money. You know deep down she is lying, and anyway lie detector tests are not foolproof. A seasoned deciever can pass with no problem. Just leave.
no it wouldn't....... but you need to realize that you are not the one she desires








let it go.. because it's very pathetic for you to be with someone like this!
It wouldn't be out of line if you dumped her.