What is crossing the line when you are married?

Sex, obviously, but when is the line crossed before that, and only physically??What is crossing the line when you are married?
Any time you feel the need to hide something from your spouse, you have crossed the line.What is crossing the line when you are married?
When you begin to feel ashamed or like the person above said, that you should hide something. But the regular line crossing would be more than a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. I'm not one thats big on the physical stuff in marriage, because you and your husband are supposed to be together for life, and if he LOVES you, but your just never home and he wants some snookie right then and there, he could practically go get it anywhere, its just if you or your husband actually develop feelings for the person that you are having the affair with thats when the problem begins and the word divorce is flung around like a bean ball sack. But like I said generally it would be when you feel you should hide something from your partner or when you feel ashamed, when there's more than just a hug or a kiss on the cheek from the person , or when you feel that you're developing feelings for someone else besides your husband.
I think it all depends on the situation. However, I think any form of physical or sexual relationship with someone other than your spouse is wrong. There are also times when you get too emotionally attached to someone else, which would also be considered ';crossing the line';.
As adults we know what that line is, touching, little things you say that you would never say in front of your wife is wrong so ask yourself what is driving this and why are you willing to put your marriage on the line to flirt with someone else? Flirt with your wife...send her love text notes...let her know that you desire her, want her and see how she responds....put the fire back into your marriage before you allow it to go out...
I feel that in any committed relationship, even kissing is crossing the line. If you are married and having feelings for another person, the best thing to do is either ignore those feelings and be happy in your relationship, or discuss this with your partner.
That's up to you and your spouse.


Not everyone has the same line.


From swingers and open marriages to people who feel that masturbation and looking at porn are cheating, each relationship is defined by those who are in it.
The line is only crossed when you get caught. Like everything else in life! (In sports) Its not a foul/penalty if the ref don't see it. Its not against the law to blow a red light if you don't get pulled over. Its not cheating if they dont find out.... End of story
Anything past a hug. By hug I mean the type you give to Grandma -- not a hot and heavy groping hug.





Holding hands, kissing, massages, touching their face, or rubbing their arm are all examples of things that are WAY past a Grandma hug!
Anything that you can not do in front of your spouse is crossing the line. If you feel the need to hide something, it's because it's not okay.
I think you know in your heart when that line is crossed physically or emotionally. If you can't tell your spouse what you did with someone else, then it is wrong.
hugs kisses sexual flirty text messages and emails...and if you have to think about possibly crossing the line...then you are about to cross the line...
depends where you both agree to put the line. Or rather, if it involves another woman and you have to go behind her back...it's cheating!
anything that is hidden from one another is crossing the line..
Sexual touching or sexual suggestion.
serious flirting is over the line- if you are married
my definition of crossing the line is getting caught. if you don't get caught, nothing happened.
Kissing is crossing the line. Hugs are ok because everyone gets hugs
Eating with someone else.
Anything you wouldn't be doing with your spouse watching!
Spending time with someone other than your spouse.(No she is not a friend) time.You know what I mean!
sex, or close to it.
anything that would make your spouse feel bad