Im legally married yet my spouse is in a relationship because he says he no lnger loves me is this cheating?

we separated a yr ago after 12 ys of domestic violence. still legaly married, he comes back to stay in my apartment till he gets his own. this is still adultery isn't it? i want him to be a part of his sons life but, i can't stand him all day long he chats on the computer with his lover and barely spends time with his son. i don't feel its healthy having him in my apartment but my son wants him there. what do i do?Im legally married yet my spouse is in a relationship because he says he no lnger loves me is this cheating?
You should not let him over your door and i get divorce on the grounds of adultery and violence


you need to talk to your son and tell him daddy good to him but he very bad to you and you need him not to stay there any more,.


Go to a women aid ,they can help you wilth legal advice and let you no what right you have plus they give you some emotional support


get a order in place that he can not come near you and get pick up contact for your son to see him, other wise your playing with fireIm legally married yet my spouse is in a relationship because he says he no lnger loves me is this cheating?
thanks guys i really appreciate the feedback and support.

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Please pack him up and show him the door, your son can have a relationship with him on the other side of the door just as he can on the same side as you. This type of relationship can make you sick, yes he is cheating, yes it is dangerous to your mental state to have him around, find the curb and kick him to it. God Bless.
Get him out, or you leave with your son. After 12 years of violence, why do you still want to subject your son to that ? Get over it lady. Get a life of your own. HE has already ! The longer you stay, or the longer you let him stay, you are just teaching your son that it's okay to put up up with that cr@p. Is your son violent? Is Daddy teaching him good?
Kick him out, you are helping him get back on his feet and the least he could do is spend time with his son and respect you enough to not chat with her in front of you. He is not doing these things and if he is living with you and with her then it is cheating.
i would go forward with the divorce, and i would set up visitation, but i wouldn't welcome him to your home, and i would tell him to get off the computer and spend some time with the child. i wouldn't let him stay at your place.
Kick his ...that hard and throw the divorce papers at him as he is leaving.You are only humiliating your self by letting this looser do what he is doing to you and your son.Move on and let go.
As long as you are still legally married, it isn't adultery.


If he is seeing someone else, then he needs to get his own place. What kind of example are you and your soon to be ex setting for your son. Your husband is showing by example that it's okay to treat a woman like crap, beat on her, then cheat on her in front of her.


Your showing your son, that women won't fight back, won't put their foot down, that they will just roll over and take it!!!





Do yourself and your son a HUGE favor: kick him out of your house. If he really loves his son and really wants to spend QUALITY time with him, he will meet you at the park or the zoo, or somewhere that your son wants to go.





Find a good family law attorney. Is any of the violence documented with the local police, if so, make sure you bring copies of police %26amp; hospital reports to your attorney, also any photos of your bruises, cuts, etc.





Remember, YOU are the example for your son - you need to do what's in his best interest, which is provide a stable and loving home - you can't do that while your husband is still there.